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 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 14 (view)
 
I need some help with a woman
Posted: 12/31/2012 10:40:58 AM
[I have all the reasons to believe that you (poster of this statement) are a very high potential cheater, you probably have no problem in making excuses !!]

Really, just because I said that people have thier own reasons? Not everyone can just get divorced. There are other issues that some need to consider and if both of them are okay with staying married and seeing other people then that is thier own business. You sure assume alot without knowing any facts. I'm not making any excuses for anyone.

And sorry, but , I'm not a cheater.

I could assume things about you from what you said, but I won't say them...
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 11 (view)
 
I need some help with a woman
Posted: 12/30/2012 8:50:32 PM
Why is everyone assuming his wife doesn't know about his profile on here? At least he is being honest and saying that he is married and is only looking for an intimate encounter. You all want honesty but when you get it you all judge the person. People stay married for thier own reasons. I'm sure he has his reasons and if you decide to date him, then you can ask him why he's still married.
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 16 (view)
 
A young intelligent man contacted me, then something happened
Posted: 12/30/2012 8:42:44 PM
I think you basically told him that if your family didn't approve of the age differance, this relationship would have no chance. He did the right thing and moved on. He could have met you, got what he "wanted" and then moved on if that is all he was after....
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Could really use some advice...
Posted: 12/19/2012 12:18:20 PM
I don't even think that you are FWB,s... You are just a benefit.....
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 11 (view)
 
He doesn't have top teeth
Posted: 10/17/2012 3:05:37 PM
Offer to pay for his implants. He can have a brand new smile in one day.
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Can anyone help me with this? Any advice would be nice
Posted: 9/17/2012 6:19:18 PM
you shouldn't blame her boyfriend for going back to her. afterall, she's the one that took him back. But then again, maybe you should only blmae yourself for thinking that you were in a relationship with someone you had never met.
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 8 (view)
 
How much you pay for sushi, not part DUEX
Posted: 9/11/2012 3:13:35 PM
spending anything on raw fish is just silly.
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Need advice with this girl.
Posted: 9/3/2012 4:28:26 PM
If it was never a right time for you two to date each other then how come it was a right time when yous started dating other people? Stop waiting for the right time because the right time could have been yesterday.....
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Need opinions
Posted: 8/29/2012 4:20:21 PM
maybe it was this.... or maybe it was that...or maybe not...or maybe maybe maybe...
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Dont get it...
Posted: 8/27/2012 11:30:21 AM
becaue they don't want you to notice what they are flaunting...
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 5 (view)
 
help
Posted: 8/23/2012 6:58:08 PM

she blacked out for a while.
anywhoo, she says she remembers everything


If she remembers everything, then she didn't black out.
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Invite him to a festival?
Posted: 8/22/2012 5:35:00 PM
Ask him. I don't see any reason why you two can't be friends just because you broke up.
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 9 (view)
 
How do I approach this guy without looking desperate?
Posted: 8/22/2012 5:31:53 PM
Leave it as a crush.
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Thoughts
Posted: 8/20/2012 3:36:58 PM

What should you do if your girl has been cheating on you


next
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Ugh.. where's the originality??
Posted: 8/17/2012 5:23:46 PM
Maybe it's easier to send the same first letter out and once she replies, then you can move on to "originality". I bet if you were interested in the guy, you wouldn't care that the first e-mail he sent you was also sent to countless others.
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Ugh.. where's the originality??
Posted: 8/17/2012 5:15:19 PM
Maybe they did read your profile. Did you ever think of that? And maybe they do send the same letter to the ones that they are interested in and have things in common with. Big deal.
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 5 (view)
 
There's this one girl...
Posted: 8/15/2012 6:24:18 AM

Would you like it is one of your friends dated someone you used to date? Do you not find that a little weird and tacky at the same time? Not to mention you work with her? What is it with people ??? All you care about is wasting * your* time?


I wouldn't mind if one of my friends dated someone that I had dated. I mean, if the two of them can make each other happy then I say go for it.
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Am I overthinking this???
Posted: 8/14/2012 2:55:28 PM
she lives in a round house? :/
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Playing it cool?
Posted: 8/14/2012 2:54:26 PM
He likes you but doesn't want to date a co-worker. Get him fired and then you two can date.
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Am I overthinking this???
Posted: 8/14/2012 12:17:40 PM

What's "round"?


That's what I want to know too...
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Now what?
Posted: 8/12/2012 10:54:23 AM
text her back and say "Have a fun weekend. Maybe we can get together when you get back."
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 11 (view)
 
am i selfish? controlling him?
Posted: 8/11/2012 11:22:19 AM
Yes , you are selfish and I don't think you have any right to tell anyone whom thier friends should be. So what if they dated before you. He's with you now and he's just friends with her. If he gave in to your requset, you would find another one of his female friends that you would not be happy about and ask/tell him to not be friends with her. And then it would be his male friends. It would never stop. I think you did him a favor by dumping him.
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 9 (view)
 
How do you follow up to a first date?
Posted: 8/11/2012 6:45:00 AM
Don't call her. Text her instead cause it will make it easier on here to sday no if she isn't interested.
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 3 (view)
 
I almost had my first kiss but i chicken'd out ?
Posted: 8/11/2012 6:42:03 AM
a signal to kiss.
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 2 (view)
 
why is it so one sided ?
Posted: 8/6/2012 1:44:27 PM
I'd move on. He seems to have trust issues. It'll only get worse.
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Need advice
Posted: 8/5/2012 6:13:53 AM
he's not as busy as he sez. I don't think he's very interested and might be out dating others and doesn't want to completely let you go. He had time to text talk with you before you met and after you met, his work suddenly got busy? Ummm, okay......
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Do I Contact Him or Not?
Posted: 8/4/2012 7:33:07 PM
Me thinks that you should text him.
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 13 (view)
 
ok ladies mid life crissis
Posted: 8/1/2012 5:36:01 PM

so basicly i'm just wondering how long this stage lasted for those that have been through it. thanks


This will last till she meets the person that she wants to date. That person is not you . Sorry
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Stood up after a few dates
Posted: 8/1/2012 5:12:53 AM
I don't think a guy would blow you off if you are going to his house for dinner. Weird....He might have missed you trying to contact him cause he was busy getting ready.
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 7 (view)
 
what does this mean
Posted: 8/1/2012 5:09:53 AM
You probably have her wrong number and she is wondering why you never text her. Next time you run into her, text her and see if her fone goes off :)
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Let him go?
Posted: 7/31/2012 8:07:41 PM
Happens all the time. But yeah, at least he was honest and wants you to be there for him if his other girl thing doesn't work out....
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Giving an out?
Posted: 7/31/2012 5:04:49 PM
you should give him a car instead of an out.
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 8 (view)
 
too honest?
Posted: 7/31/2012 5:02:48 PM
No such thing as Karma....
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 14 (view)
 
What's the deal with this guy?
Posted: 7/30/2012 5:18:15 PM
He is not moving between woman. Nope. Not at all because if he was he would ask the OP out and he hasn't. He's interested but maybe thinks OP is not interested and might be wondering why she hasn't asked him out again. Ask him out again. Bet he sez yes.
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 8 (view)
 
curious
Posted: 7/28/2012 5:58:17 AM
When someone sez that they are not ready to date , that usually means that they do not want to date you.
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Is wrong to have a pantie fetish
Posted: 7/27/2012 7:15:53 PM
my brain exploded. twice.
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Hindsight is always crystal clear
Posted: 7/27/2012 6:57:33 PM
Well, at my Wedding reception, I told a girl there that she was going to be invited to my divorce party. My now ex wife didn't even notice me saying that. I guess that should have been a big red flag.....
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Is wrong to have a pantie fetish
Posted: 7/27/2012 6:53:52 PM
Some will think there is nothing wrong with it. Others thing that you are a sick **** and others will not care either way.

Wear whatever makes you comfy.
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 5 (view)
 
I don't think I'm ready for this type of commitment...
Posted: 7/27/2012 7:10:06 AM
DO NOT GET A PUPPY. You will eventually end up giving it away. Please, think of the poor puppy. The puppy desreves someone that wants it and will take care of it.
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 4 (view)
 
community dollars
Posted: 7/26/2012 6:42:02 PM
How do you pay taxes on your comunity dollars?
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Pictures
Posted: 7/26/2012 5:09:13 PM
A picture of your dog would be nice.
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Define this please
Posted: 7/26/2012 10:39:04 AM
I like chick flicks....
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Cut off for 'few extra pounds' vs BBW
Posted: 7/24/2012 7:29:15 AM

What I get from this and many other discussions is that women are very uptight and would rather a guy was deaf, dumb and blind about their weight (and their physical appearance in general). "Oh my dog, why wouldn't he want to date a fat chick, shouldn't it be all about personality?" Scrub that, I'm not up for dating Michelin Man, either.


Yep, I agree. It's funny how only big women say that it should be about the personality ONLY....like physical attraction should have nothing to do with it.
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Can you really tell
Posted: 7/23/2012 11:30:52 AM
You mean to say that your friend didn't share the two hotties with you?
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Do you think he is trying to hide.
Posted: 7/23/2012 11:28:43 AM
Maybe they are thinking the same thing about you. Maybe you have something to hide and don't want to be seen in your neighborhood. I think that would be more likely than them not wanting to be seen with you in thier neighborhoods.

What are you hiding?
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 6 (view)
 
What Does It Take!?!
Posted: 7/22/2012 7:08:10 PM
From what I have read in the past, it seems some mew will send back a rude e-mail to the I'm not interested reply. So I guess, women are avoiding the rude e-mail.
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 17 (view)
 
What if this happened to you...
Posted: 7/22/2012 7:05:57 PM
I contacted someone once saying that she probably should have the name of the bar she hangs out at in her profile pictures because you never know who might see it and they would know where to go and find you. O don't remember her reply exactly but it was along the lines that I should mind my own biz nad stuu. She was rude. So now I don't care what you show in your pictures.
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 15 (view)
 
I am baffled.
Posted: 7/22/2012 5:53:03 AM

Why not just call him on the phone and ask him how he's been, etc.


She does say that she hasn't had any responces from texts, fone calls and e-mails in a week so I guess she has been trying to call him.

I think he drowned at the pool.
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 7 (view)
 
i need some advice from you ladies please
Posted: 7/20/2012 4:32:55 PM
OH OH...you have upset the forum police by posting in the wrong section!!!! No dates for you!! TWO YEARS!!!!
 ruckus123
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 18 (view)
 
did i say something wrong.
Posted: 7/20/2012 4:31:31 PM
I just checked out your pictures OP...he's an idiot...
 
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