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 na73
Joined: 9/21/2013
Msg: 21 (view)
 
FMF experiences
Posted: 2/19/2015 9:37:46 AM

Just a question of nomenclature here: I was under the impression that the order of the letters in such an arrangement was of of critical importance. Hence, the OP's FMF is not the equivalence of the MFF posited by south_city. Based on the OP's posting, wouldn't she be more interested in a FFM vs her denominated FMF?


Apologies in advance if there are multiple posts, for some reason when I click 'post' I keep getting logged out and my post doesn't appear on the discussion.

For the umpteenth time :-( I'm guessing that FMF suggests that the man is the centre of attention whilst the women don't please each other, whilst FFM/MFF (don't know if there's any significance to that order) is where the women please each other and the man, or he simply watches. Conversely MFM and FMM/MFF are the same as above but with the opposite genders.
 na73
Joined: 9/21/2013
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Anime porn
Posted: 2/19/2015 8:31:48 AM

I'm fairly geeky, so I was aware of this. Ages ago, I saw a piece called Legend of the Overfiend... some high school basketball star has demonic heritage, and all he needed was to "come of age" to unleash his potential. Well, after getting a double-blowjob from some cheerleaders, he loses control over his "trouser snake" which multiplies and becomes more of a "trouser hydra" and his now monstrous genitalia proceeds to destroy most of Tokyo. In general, I would have described this as more "hysterically funny" than "hot and sexy."


Actually I don't think Legend of the Overfiend is considered Hentai, rather regular Anime with lots of (Messed up) sexual situations. Hentai is basically just like regular porn with animation. Its also somewhat controversial as apparently there's a lot of implied paedophilic situations in these stories. People are trying to get this subgenre of Hentai banned.
 na73
Joined: 9/21/2013
Msg: 9 (view)
 
I Require a review of my profile
Posted: 1/7/2014 10:42:28 AM
Thanks Campfires
I've implemented several of your suggestions, though I have left the cyber Courtship reference in, if for no reason other than I like the expression. But I have done away with the negatives.
 na73
Joined: 9/21/2013
Msg: 8 (view)
 
I Require a review of my profile
Posted: 1/7/2014 6:52:07 AM
Anyways folks, I've made a few more changes and uploaded a couple more pictures. I hope I'm at least moving in the right direction.
 na73
Joined: 9/21/2013
Msg: 6 (view)
 
I Require a review of my profile
Posted: 1/4/2014 3:48:23 AM
Hi everyone
Thanks to all of you for taking the time to review my profile. I haven't necessarily taken all the advice on offer, but I have made a few changes and I most certainly welcome further comment.

Mark it Up, thanks for your compliments on my pics. You and Ouji2013 pointed out that my main pic is too close so though I haven't lost the photo, I have relegated it to just being one of the rest. I also corrected the spelling error you pointed out as well as grammatical and spelling error that Sandytm pointed out. I'm not quite sure how I can beef up the hobbies. As for the line about 'cyber courtship' I put that because to date I've only ever had one date with a woman I met online within a week of 1st contact. This is mainly due to scheduling conflicts, but occasionally there are other reasons.

Campfires, I appreciate your critism of my pics, in fairness I have to make do with what I have, though at least my digi camera has a timer so I'm able to do 'selfies' that don't like selfies. You and Mark it Up made reference to my extensive list of 'looking fors' (which I've also made reference to in my 3rd paragraph). Matbe this says more about me than the people contacting me, but although I'm not flushed with inbox replies, the ones I get, particularly if they've contacted me, seem to be from middle-aged, overweight women with kids, which is not what I'm looking for. At the expense of sounding like one of those ego-strokers that frequent here, I'd sooner have an empty inbox, than one full to overflowing from women I'm not interested in. That said I have taken what you've said on board and trimmed the list and reworded slightly my third paragraph.

Ouji2013, re my comment about my looks, people have compliented me on my looks, maybe they were just being polite or wanting to spare my feelings when they thought the opposite. It was merely put in there in jest. Though for the record, whilst I don't for a milisecond think I'm God's gift to Women I will take issue with anyone who thinks I'm ugly or repulsive. As for my reference to being shy, loads of people on their profiles put this and I think it can be charming and endearing and it shows I'm not some loud in your face kind of bloke. And no I wouldn't be staring at the table on a date, I'm not that kind of shy.

You Go First, I've corrected the 'prefer not to say' and changed it to 'undecided/open'. To be truthful I didn't know that option was on their. Similarly there's a 'prefer not to say' option for if you have kids which makes no sense at all. People who put that would almost certainly have them. As for your question about my 1st messages, it varies based on the what the messagee as put on her profile. I struggle when they've written very little.

Firefly416, what I mean by timewasters are people who aren't really looking for someone (In some cases that specifically could mean me I know). But I've had the misfortune of encountering, both online and in the flesh too many people who are trying online dating for the wrong reasons, ie someone's put them up to it. Or they lead very busy lives which is why the use the net to find someone, forgetting once they do find someone that they're still going to have to make the same time and energy available to be with that someone. When I wrote that line, in caps for emphasis, one woman who I'd been communicating with on here, just abruptly stopped communicating with me after a couplle of weeks of putting off our first date and another, I'd literally met via a singles night hosted by a rival dating site, was only on their because they're boss who was also a fiend of theirs recommended they go on there. The reason again was that she lead a very busy life with no time to go out. We went on just one date and then after a week or two of procrastination, she admitted that she just didn't have the time or energy. So that was aimed at all of those, I'm sick of encountering those kinds of women. I know by the way that at least someo of them just weren't interested in me and used that as an excuse, but still I am convinced that there are many people who use these types of sites when their hearts or priorities just aren't in it.

ScooterSB, for what its worth, I did preface my age restriction, at least in the main body of my profile with ideally, meaning if someone was just outside the age range and thats top as well as bottom of the scale who I liked the look of, I'd be only too happy to consider them. I've occasionally emailed women myself who I din't quite fit into their age range (though only by a year or two).

CynthiaSM, what more needs to be said :-).

Again feel free to continue to review my profile. Apologies as well to anyone of the above if I appear overly critical of them or their comments. Its certainly not intended. I'm well aware that people frequenting these forums, ask for advice or opinions on something and then throw a hissy fit when they don't like what they hear inreply. I do hope I didn't come across like that.
 na73
Joined: 9/21/2013
Msg: 1 (view)
 
I Require a review of my profile
Posted: 1/2/2014 1:05:07 AM
Hi everyone
I have already tried starting a thread for a review of my profile but for some reason it wasn't accepted (something to do with length). Anyway I would appreciate it if you could take a look at my profile and see if there are any ways I can improve on it to maximise my chances of getting responses from women.

Happy New Year.
 na73
Joined: 9/21/2013
Msg: 376 (view)
 
What puts you off messaging someone?
Posted: 10/4/2013 8:55:59 AM
I've been reading this thread for some time now and its had me in stiches at times such as with the mooncup references, I've still no idea what one is and I find it funny. As well as some of the observations and put downs of people and comments. However its also had me angry and feeling very, very insecure specifically towards those people who are put off messaging over 30s whose longest relationship is under one year, which would describe me. Its one of the reasons I'm on a dating website, not because I'm difficult to get on with or neccesarily a failure with a relationship once you go out with me, but because I find it difficult meeting women in the first place so you haven't exactly reassured me as to human nature and willingness to give someone a break I mean how else am I going to change that statistic if nobody will cut me a break?
That said, and in the best traditions of human debate, I'm probably about to write something hypocrytical about my messaging put offs. OT nobody completing the about me section - how are you supposed to write a meaningful 1st message if they don't give you any material to work with? Unreasonable expectations:- we're not all 'fill in the Hollywood hunk of the moment', they probably don't need dating websites afterall. Women who complain about short first messages. I grant you, 'Hey you' is too little but why write War and Peace if they're probably not going to reply? Chavettes, women who have such large egos that if you ever got to sleep with them it would be a menage a trois, you, them and their egos. women with kids, I'm not sure I want ones of my own nevermind helping to bring up someone elses, sorry about that. And one or two other things that I could mention but I don't want to offend.
 
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