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 Author Thread: *LEX* KY*Franky & Annette's/Signature Club*Sat. Sept 19, 09*
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
Msg: 2 (view)
 
*LEX* KY*Franky & Annette's/Signature Club*Sat. Sept 19, 09*
Posted: 8/20/2009 11:21:50 AM
Okay, I am going to try this again. I haven't had luck in making it to the parties at The Signature Club. But as they say "If at first you don't succeed, try try again."
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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Lexington, KY-Caddyshacks2 Bar & Grill-August 22, 2009
Posted: 8/18/2009 11:10:07 AM
Sorry I am not going to make this one after all. Everyone have fun.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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Take a look at the new
Posted: 7/30/2009 8:20:03 AM
Thanks for the input both of you.

oneofakind actually I have not had a bad online experience and not a lot of pervs, though there are a few here and there. Actually what I added was just a way to try and eliminate the guys that I am not interested in from contacting me. I don't want to waste their time or mine. Here lately I had been getting about 8 emails a day and I just wanted to try and get straight to the ones I might actually be interested in.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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Too Truthful?
Posted: 7/28/2009 2:35:17 PM
I thought I would give you a couple of suggestions. Definately do as one of the posters suggested and list some of your interest. Make sure they are date friendly interest.

Now you say :

For those of you who are looking for that "Prince Charming" guy I'm not him, just thought I'd give you a little heads-up. I'm just a guy trying to make my way in life and I'm kinda hoping for someone to share it with. I'd like to think of myself as half-way decent. I know how to treat a lady.


How about a rephrasing it a bit. Try saying:

I may not be the most charming of guys, but I am thoughtful decent man trying to making my way through life. I am hoping to find a lady to share my life with that will appreciate me for who I am.


You say:

I've played the kiddie games before and had them played on me. So I'm done with that stuff.


Try saying:

I don't play games, and I would like someone who won't play games either.

You say:

I enjoy doing a variety of things, going fishing, catching a movie, maybe even a concert or two. depending on whose playing. I'm honest, hard working (maybe a little too hard), and loyal.


Try saying:

I'm honest, hard working, and loyal. I am looking for a woman to share some of my interest with. Soe of the things I enjoy doing are going fishing, catching a movie, maybe even a concert or two.


Additionally try posting more pictures. Especially one with you smiling.

Hope that helps.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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Am I scarry
Posted: 7/28/2009 2:18:27 PM
Okay, so you want someone to be up front and honest with you. I hope you really can take it as you claim. Obviously I can not speak for what other women think, but to me after looking at your pics ad reading your profile, Yes you are scary. First off the look is scary to me. You do not look approachable. Second anyone who does even a little pot or enjoys getting drunk even on a semi regular basis is not anyone I want to associate with. Also anytime a guy mentions sex or libido or anything else in that line, it makes us think thats all he is looking for. JMO
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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Take a look at the new
Posted: 7/28/2009 2:04:46 PM
I just added some new parts to my profile. I get a lot of men emailing me that are not really what I am looking for, so I am trying to be more specific about what I want. At the same time I do not want to sound overly negative. So I am not too sure about what I have written. The two list at the bottom of my profile are the parts that I have just added. Please take a look at them and let me know what you think. Thanks in advance for any help you can offer.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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Bogart's Lexington KY meet and greet Aug 1,2009
Posted: 7/28/2009 11:52:49 AM
Jack what a flatterer.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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Bogart's Lexington KY meet and greet Aug 1,2009
Posted: 7/24/2009 5:58:36 PM

Hi Again,
I've asked this before and never got an answer and I've noticed other's have too.
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I've got a brother who's not as yet a member, still trying to teach him how to use his new puter. Just wondering can I bring him, no matter if there's a cover.
Thanks,
Jack


Actually Jack if you look at message 14 Mick did answer your question.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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Lexington- KY, Bogart's Lounge in Campbell House Inn July 11th
Posted: 7/23/2009 6:27:59 PM
hey I have some pics too, let me know what to do.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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Bogart's Lexington KY meet and greet Aug 1,2009
Posted: 7/23/2009 6:24:04 PM
Oooh, I just realized I have a conflict in schedule. I am going to try and rearange things. If I can't change things, then I will try and at least make it later in the evening.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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Bogart's Lexington KY meet and greet Aug 1,2009
Posted: 7/22/2009 3:34:19 PM
Michelle Thanks for doing this again. I also had a terrific time last time. I look forward to seeing the place a little less crowded. How many from our group actually showed up?
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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What do I have to do.
Posted: 7/22/2009 3:29:03 PM
Wow Kineticc, you really seem to get it. I have talked to a lot of the other women in my area and they really say a lot of what you just said. We ladies have a lot of pet peeves about mens profiles. I know a lot of you guys just look at the pictures and choose to email women, but most of us ladies actually look and read the profiles. Thats what determines interest for me. If you don't say very much on your profile I kind of figure you must not be a very interesting person if you can't come up with a couple of paragraphs about yourself. And I know a lot of guys also say that they want to leave something to talk about on a date, but again if you have nothing left to talk about after writing a couple of paragraphs, you must not be very interesting.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Society's views on interracial relationships
Posted: 7/8/2009 4:18:38 PM
OMG Louisvilleguy! I was expecting and prepared for a lot of answers but not that blatant spectacle of ignorance and predjudice. So under your theory of why, I guess I should hate white people. I grew up in eastern Kentucky. There is a huge drug problem there, and it is dealt mainly by white people. And yes they will sell it to anyone. I am curious though, you only gave a reason for not dating black people, what about other races? I mean after all this post was not pointed to any specific race. And like a previous poster pointed out, your attitude leave you out of meeting a lot of wonderful beautiful people.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
Msg: 4 (view)
 
JUST WONDERING
Posted: 7/8/2009 1:02:02 PM
I also replied on the other thread. I almost always reply. But I do have one thing to add to this conversation that I did not post on the other thread. I can't speak of other women's experience. But you guys always say that you prefer that a women reply even if she is just saying she is not interested. I do that, and I will usually elaborate on the reason. For example I am a woman that does not like a guy that hunts. Its a huge turn off for me. If this is the case I usually just tell the an I feel we are not compatible and wish him luck on his search. You can not believe how man guys will turn around and call me names and tell me I am too picky and just looking for a pretty boy. They send the nastiest emails, basically have a fit because I wasn't interested. So I can't blame some women if they don't always reply.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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What do I have to do.
Posted: 7/8/2009 12:52:42 PM
Maybe you guys are just not interested in the right girls. I honestly reply to about 95% of my mail even if it is just to turn someone down. The only ones I usually don't reply to are the ones I find disrespectful or insulting as a woman, though I do reply to even those occasionally.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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Society's views on interracial relationships
Posted: 7/2/2009 10:50:25 AM
louisvilleguy, since you are so open about not agreeing with interacial relationships, could you please explain your reasons for not agreeing with it? For anyone else that feels that way I would love to know your reasons also.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
Msg: 8 (view)
 
New Feature: Date Night !
Posted: 6/18/2009 10:27:47 AM
Okay, I think this feature is a good idea for days when I have nothing planned and just want to get out and meet someone, or if I have a function to attend and would like someone to go with. However that is not always a Friday Night for me. Could there be a pull down menu with days added so we can specify what day we are looking for a date.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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Lexington- KY, Bogart's Lounge in Campbell House Inn July 11th
Posted: 5/31/2009 11:29:17 AM
Thanks for arranging this guys. It sounds like a blast. I can't wait.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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*LEX*KY*Ladies Night at the MOON**Thursday*May 14, 2009**
Posted: 4/30/2009 1:40:57 PM
Okay, I hope I cans till make this, but is highly doubtful now with the change.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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This doesn't make sense...
Posted: 4/15/2009 10:35:16 AM

There has to be some sort of attraction even if it is for a one niter...


I actually think that if you were going to have a one night stand or a fling you would be more critical about physical attraction than with a relationship. After all its a purely physical thing, so you don't have the advantage of a personality making a difference.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Came to POF and found my fish. Is it wrong to keep chat/e-mail buddies?
Posted: 4/8/2009 9:15:12 AM
Okay I just read the newest post on here after I posted mine. I still say honesty is the best policy, but if you are already cheating on someone else with this man, what do you care about honesty.

I am curious to know, do they both know about each other? If not then maybe that is what you need to start being honest abut, not necessarily about the website.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Came to POF and found my fish. Is it wrong to keep chat/e-mail buddies?
Posted: 4/8/2009 9:07:02 AM
I think everyone has made really good points. But I have to say I similarly am in a relationship and still on here. I have made a lot of friends on this site, but not just chat friends, friends in real life. However I have taken it one step further than just puting I am not single, and looking for friends. I have posted a pic of me and my guy on my profile. I have included text in my profile saying that I am not avaiable. My boyfriend has actually met some of my friends on here. And I often show him who is on my friends list.

Personally I think it is fine to keep your profile as long as:

1. You are completely honest with your significant other about what you are doing and who you are doing it with.

and

2. You are not leading anyone on from the site.

Even with everything that I have done with my profile, the first thing I do if someone is contacting me is make sure they have actually read my profile. If not I point out the fact that I am taken and only looking for platonic friends. That way I am not wasting anyone's time.

And while this is mainly considered a dating site, it is more like a social networking site. Otherwise they would not offer options for your profile like not single/not looking, looking for friends, and loking for chat/e-mail.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Pictures*Georgetown, KY*April 5 2009*Lock and Key Cafe
Posted: 4/5/2009 10:47:02 PM
Yes, I am glad that we had such a good turn out.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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Georgetown, KY*Sunday April 5*Lock and Key Cafe*3-6pm
Posted: 4/5/2009 11:11:47 AM
I'll still be here for sure. Hope we see you. You know its the more the marrier.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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Georgetown, KY*Sunday April 5*Lock and Key Cafe*3-6pm
Posted: 4/3/2009 3:13:35 PM
Thats true Love to Bicycle. Everyone is very friendly, and you can make friends with everyone.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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Georgetown, KY*Sunday April 5*Lock and Key Cafe*3-6pm
Posted: 3/27/2009 11:24:19 AM
Hey mreker, what happened. Did you cancel work to join us? Glad to see you signed up though.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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Georgetown, KY*Sunday April 5*Lock and Key Cafe*3-6pm
Posted: 3/26/2009 1:54:57 PM
Thats too bad. Maybe in the future we will have another.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Aren't there any guys in their mid 30's or 40's who don't do drugs or drink heavily?
Posted: 3/24/2009 12:37:53 PM
I've met quite a few men off here that don't do that stuff. Actually quite a few attend on a regular basis the local events we have. Not sure where you live in the state, but why not try coming to one of the events we have in the Lexington area. You will definately meet some of the nicer guys.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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Georgetown, KY*Sunday April 5*Lock and Key Cafe*3-6pm
Posted: 3/24/2009 12:35:16 PM
Hey Angel, even if your not sure you can make it why not go ahead and sign up. It would definately help out with the 20 we need to get out a mass email.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Kids at POF/Singles events?
Posted: 3/21/2009 10:53:54 AM
I have in the past seen event actually planned for families. I believe that the ones I saw were somewhere in the Ohio area.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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Georgetown, KY*Sunday April 5*Lock and Key Cafe*3-6pm
Posted: 3/11/2009 1:19:23 PM
Thanks for helping get this event posted Nick.

I really hope we have a good turn out. Its a good opportunity for anyone in Georgetown to come to an event. Hope to see some new faces there.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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*Lexington, KY*O'Neills*March25*2009*Wednesday*
Posted: 3/10/2009 12:11:11 PM
Here is another one I am not sure I can make, but I figure again I will help with the 20 needed for mass email.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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Lexington, KY-Jacobson Park Pot Luck and Yard Games May 23rd!
Posted: 3/6/2009 11:32:59 AM
Sounds like a blast. Can't wait!
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Lexington, KY, SWING DANCING, Sat. MARCH 21, 2009
Posted: 3/1/2009 12:30:20 PM
Okay, I might try to make to this one, and even if I don't the signup will help with the 20 you need for the email.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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Lexington, KY-Jacobson Park Pot Luck and Yard Games
Posted: 2/25/2009 7:42:32 AM
Hey this one is way off, but I will plan on coming.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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LEXINGTON, KY*March14*@ Signature Club w/ SWING STREET
Posted: 2/21/2009 7:35:33 PM
Okay I signed up, but not to sure I can make this one, but at least it will help out with the 20 you need for the mass email.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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ART LEAGUE, NUDES 2009 EXIBIT, FORTH FRIDAY Feb 27th!
Posted: 2/19/2009 12:56:56 PM
Okay, I see the pissing contest has begun guys. I can't imagine the ladies comparing the size of their fig leaves.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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ART LEAGUE, NUDES 2009 EXIBIT, FORTH FRIDAY Feb 27th!
Posted: 2/18/2009 11:31:59 PM
I'll change into my fig leaf right after you do kylad.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
Msg: 2 (view)
 
ART LEAGUE, NUDES 2009 EXIBIT, FORTH FRIDAY
Posted: 2/18/2009 10:01:30 AM
Sounds great to me. I almost went to this last year, but couldn't find anyone who wanted to go with me at the time. I am there assuming no natural tragedies occur. Whenever it gets switched to the actual event listing I will sign up.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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**DeVASSA**Lexington KY**February 17, 2009**
Posted: 2/16/2009 9:07:29 AM
Have a great time everyone. Sorry I will be missing it.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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That Sexy Power Outage
Posted: 2/10/2009 11:51:03 AM
I went to someones house that did have power.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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Lexington, KY, SWING DANCING, Sat Feb 21, 2009
Posted: 2/10/2009 11:37:07 AM
Ditto, doubt I can make it.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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Jacobson Park Yard Games and Pot Luck
Posted: 2/6/2009 12:22:34 PM
would love it. Sound like a great idea. I will be looking for ways to be more active this spring anyways.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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Images Paisano's Jan 26, 2009
Posted: 1/28/2009 2:55:08 PM
Had a great time everyone. And I have to say, its true a picture is worth a thousand words, and in some of the cases more than a thousand.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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LEX, KY Sat. 27 Dec 08 SIGNATURE CLUB, Band, Dancing, etc.
Posted: 12/21/2008 7:09:06 PM
All right this one isn't lookinng good for me either. Just found out my family is going to be having something big going on Saturday. Doubt I will make it back in time.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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LEX, KY Sat. 27 Dec 08 SIGNATURE CLUB, Band, Dancing, etc.
Posted: 12/18/2008 3:03:38 PM
Okay I hope t actualy make this one this time. I haven't had much luck in making the parties lately.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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Lexington, KY TEXAS HOLD'EM Poker Monday 15 December 2008 6pm til?
Posted: 12/15/2008 9:59:37 AM
Same for me chick. Heard its goingto be bad out tonight. Not going to ake any chances.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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Lexington, KY TEXAS HOLD'EM Poker Monday 15 December 2008 6pm til?
Posted: 12/11/2008 3:34:25 PM
Depending on the type of music I might get on the dance floor with ya.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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Lexington, KY DeVassa Bar and Cafe Wednesday 10 December 2008, 5 pm til?
Posted: 12/10/2008 12:24:47 PM
Sorry guys, something came up and I will have to miss this one as well. Hopeing to make the one next week.
 smartn2sexy08
Joined: 1/6/2008
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how dirty are you??
Posted: 12/8/2008 2:23:33 PM
I guess I owe a wopping £495.50
 
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