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 Author Thread: What makes sex good for a man?
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 18 (view)
 
What makes sex good for a man?
Posted: 3/27/2010 1:23:00 PM
Ahhh Lucy When I feel her eyes on me, reflecting that passionate wanting,
when we both just know ....act 1 is merely the opener!
No room for one night stands!
Magnetism!!!
MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Realistic?
Posted: 12/11/2009 8:26:05 PM
Savona, post 22 provides clarification, with the importance of communication as more than vital in relationships.
Kaylie, post 41 , so often offers broader dimension with personal experience, a picture
which reflects the very fabric of what dating entails. One desires to demonstrate ones
heartfelt feelings with the hope of discovering reciprocal feelings, but each must weigh
ones depth of feelings, which follows no singular law of nature.
My present relationship has the marked shine of give and take, much different from
the ones prior.
Certainly ,only with much investment of time, as well perseverance, did I find that one
with a true fit.
A comfortable fit at that!

Don't give up!
Keep on being yourself!
The road may be long, but when you find the one,brighter horizons await!
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Self promotion – your style, your likes
Posted: 6/23/2009 1:49:20 PM
Mystic
How about a surgeons profile?
" Hi! I saved twenty peoples lives just this week.....
...also enjoy carving the Thanksgiving turkey!"

Naaaah!
sounds soooooo.....
doesn't it?

 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 11 (view)
 
feeling so worthless
Posted: 5/19/2009 11:02:00 AM
Careful Butter!
For whatever license did this dude apply that he is the 'end all that be all' prognisticator that put so much spin on your self-esteem?
Could be you aren't childish, just wide open to his jealousy?
Jealousy can make some the most viscious predater!
[kinda like the word 'pre-dater'!]
Serves two meanings ....the hunter...and the inexperienced.
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 18 (view)
 
how do i get over him?
Posted: 5/19/2009 10:56:02 AM
Op, sounds like you have an inferiority complex, big time!
Anyone who allows another to even conceive they can drag you along, much as like being dragged behind their car, well, anyone who co-operates with these people
definitely needs some kind of self-esteem shoring up.
Over time I've met these types, they only get as far as you ALLOW them ,with their silly tricks.
Don't be his fool!
Assess your weak points, and if need be, stop looking to him to steer you!
Get a life !
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Women who break your heart over and over and over again.
Posted: 5/19/2009 10:46:42 AM
Well Jeff, lots of great insight from some pretty solid people in this thread for you to
absorb!
You need to develop a 'steel 'exterior, in time, hopefully you will, then you will be able to deal with cruel people [animals?] !!
Could be you are prone to being victimized?
A seasoned person would be able to change lanes and take in the situation as it fades in the rear-view mirror!
Hit the GAS , my friend!
[watch for radar!]
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Im sick of being hurt
Posted: 5/19/2009 10:38:44 AM
Sounds like you are hurting.....YOURSELF!!
Do you like this activity?
I need to ask cause when someone is deliberate, and so onvious on a roll with cruelty in mind, just for sport, it always amazes me there are those who choose to endure it!!!!
Guess thats why masochists proliferate these days!
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 38 (view)
 
'you can have any you want' -she said.
Posted: 5/19/2009 10:32:37 AM
Coolguy
Choose a victim here!
[did you guess who?]
Cause the answer is ....
You are victimizing YOURSELF!
Stop kicking your own butt and rise up , get some fresh oxygen, and
sail away for towards better horizons ,my friend!
Egad!
SHES not making a fool of you, YOU are!
Hit the silk!
[Bail out...in other words]
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Its not easy
Posted: 5/19/2009 10:27:57 AM
Rach
Sounds like your first time at bat.
You may be in the clutches of a 'player'!
Signs.....
Realizing you wear your heart on your sleeve, they enjoy USING you, then labeling
you as 'friend', in order to freeze you in place.
Svengali comes to mind here.

Bail out now.
Learn quick, so in order that you won't turn into a bowl of jelly, as he wants you to.
ALL for HIS convenience!

Then again, some people are prone to being made a fool of.
Hopefully, you are not one of these.
Good luck in your escape!
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 182 (view)
 
The bimbo-ization of women and its effects on relationships
Posted: 5/14/2009 10:11:58 AM
Chameleonf said it best!
Actually negates this entire thread!
Which is more like standing on water in the middle of the ocean.
[not advisable for prudent individuals.]

Though Frau Blucher 's mention of Moe, Larry & Curly....
We DO need more HUMOR in our lives...
And certainly the aforementioned are first class!!
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Stay put or bail?: one month in with a Bipolar young woman
Posted: 5/14/2009 10:03:47 AM
Jesse
Hit the SILK!!!!
Sounds as you are putting the cart BEFORE the horse here, and the only result in sight...... a real barn burner!

This gal sounds as most unstable , unfortunately.
She needs to get her house in order first, and believe me, YOU cannot accomplish this FOR her... SHE is the only one who can act on this.
You aren't the first bachelor who embarked on a rescue mission.....
certainly not the last.
Definitely another to pile another horror story onto the scrap heap of history.
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Officially married to my POF Love!
Posted: 5/8/2009 12:31:09 PM
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!
Like you two just stepped off a wedding cake!!
Yes, this site does have for REAL people !
[ask ME, I KNOW!!]
Meteor 54
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 29 (view)
 
POF Geared Toward The Female Fish?
Posted: 5/6/2009 10:59:02 AM
Egad OP!
As for your merely being observant, sounds more like you really need to get it
together and polish up your act.
Granted , because of your youth and inexperience, one should give you room for
those rather 'prejudicial' comments.
For whatever reason do you assume women do not initiate contact?
As a matter of fact, a number of ladies have initiated first contact with me, and presently , lets just say I'm one very happy camper with a wonderful horizon
looming up !!

I hope you are not too far into yourself, that being your attitudes reflect that guys
should be elevated to 'pedestal' status.
Your thread title alone reflects this is a possibilty.
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 33 (view)
 
How many will never marry again and how many change their minds?
Posted: 4/10/2009 10:14:33 AM
Just live with someone for oh say......50 years.......
should things work out.....well....walk down the aisle!
'Course, afterward......
A caring, mature, trustworthy , loving person does a marriage make.
Devoid of any of these attributes.....
the USUSAL outcome is wrought.
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Time, Rules...General Quetions
Posted: 4/10/2009 10:01:43 AM
I've chatted with a large number of ladies , and heard Their tales of horror, first
hand experience also.
Those who think they have a 'guaranteed formula' to weed out the wack-os
are simply plenty too far into themselves, disregarding all the dangers in the 'real world'.
It's a much larger world out there, living in ones own small domicile works if
one chooses to vacate the real world.
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Time, Rules...General Quetions
Posted: 4/10/2009 8:34:04 AM
Artist, CAUTION is the #1 rule !
Believe me, giving out ones phone# is anathema!
My experience is you will encounter quite a few dishonest ones, or even mentally
off balance ones. [those who long since fell off the balance beam]

Wait, and hopefully MEET in a place with people around, and preferably with
someone else along!

Good luck!
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 42 (view)
 
You don't choose who you fall in love with. True?
Posted: 4/10/2009 8:29:21 AM
Falling in 'love' with someone who doesn't return that 'love' ISN'T ...
'love' at ALL.
INFATUATION is what this is, and infatuation is what the OP
is speaking about, obviously unknowingly.
Though infatuation is what brings our attention, that 'eyesight' draw.
This I've learned through experience.
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Disappointed and dejected
Posted: 4/7/2009 2:45:25 PM
Star, ease up here!
I've met a number of ladies from the site here, and believe me, MOST have had NO
photo displayed!
[Far from disappointing were they!!!]
Oddly, a number DO display....ummmm........well....
a photo....from SOMETIME in their lives......

I understand perfectly well why you elect not to display, but then you will
encounter those 'frivolous' persons certainly.
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 35 (view)
 
I know I'm crazy.. 2000 miles away
Posted: 4/7/2009 2:39:48 PM
Op, no relationship is devoid of multilpe complications.
Distance being merely just one.
Since you seem to have strong feelings here about her, distance would only matter should either of you feel you won't be able to move and strike up romance.
Godwilling you or she has portability, maybe a degree which is just that.

Bonnie and Clyde notwithstanding, that is! lol
[robbing banks, on the run, NOT INCLUDED in 'portability'!]
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Spending Time in Nature with Someone Special: Any ideas?
Posted: 4/6/2009 4:24:20 PM
Op, as simple as stopping to smell the roses!
Yep!
Fortunate to have natural surroundings nearby, and not necessarily a major
undertaking to merely visit those green paths with squirrels and bumblebees.
So. pack a sandwich, bottle of wine, some form of lovecandy, ......chocolate!
[dirty pool]
And hit the trail! With that certain someone of course!
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 269 (view)
 
Do women over 45 feel nervous about the first sexual encounter?
Posted: 4/6/2009 4:17:02 PM
Op, commonplace to find apprehension over ones body .
Knows no gender, for unless one has those Oprah bucks, and can pay
someone to handle everything from your diet, to all things that afford you time
and energy to work diligently on sculpting yourself, time works against each and everyone of us.
'Course, nice to find those 'not so frivolous' types that live in the 'NOW' and
view ones beauty as more than skin deep.
Madison Avenue be damned.
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 9 (view)
 
why can't i have it all?
Posted: 4/6/2009 4:11:24 PM
Sunshine, seems you are running into immature babies who haven't developed
self esteem, let alone self-confidence.
All that's left is the primeival base, and no polish.
Kinda like PLANET of the APES!
Maybe with MORE HAIR even.
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 235 (view)
 
Anyone else feel like giving up because of being unsuccessful?
Posted: 4/6/2009 3:56:16 PM
Don't give up!
Then too, don't put ALL your eggs in one basket either!
This site has worked for me, but not without time invested.
Believe me, you will meet the 'not yet ready for prime time players' in droves,
kind of like a playground for the unsettled.
Yet, there are those who aren't too far into themselves, or have no sense of humor,
or have a headfull of prejudice that spills out like Juan Valdez's coffee beans in
a hurricane![humor me on THAT one!]
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 17 (view)
 
A vignette of contempt
Posted: 4/2/2009 12:42:52 PM
Op, I've dealt with this type of illness in my family for years.
I suspected narcissim, along with borderline.
It is insidious, especially when the sufferer is not able to get a grip,
also when there are two , one fomenting the other.
Believe me, there is such a thing as those who , unaware they have it, or any disorder for that matter, go on with bizarre behaviour for endless years.
How sad it is, for one feels a sense of loss, seemingly a reach so near, yet so far.

One cannot resolve all issues, no matter how much your heart aches to do so.
I've seen the destruction that these disorders leave behind, much , if not all,
unrepairable. Also encountered some fishies onsite here with definite signs of unresolved torment. Lonliness bades they seek out some form of contact to legitamize their existence, and certainly this site is wide open, chock full of others which provides fodder for their ....'expertise'.
The confusion they endure makes them blind to their lashing out, they view their irrational talk as 'curing ' society. Cyber actually prevents us from hearing their
loud rants, though might it be interesting to insist they utilize CAPS to indicate their
rants!
[just a bit of humor there!]
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Neg Hits ~ Heard of them? Opinions? Ever used them?
Posted: 4/2/2009 12:26:19 PM
Op
Sounds like another lame attempt to turn peoples ears by
making a cows udder into a sows ear!
Bad behaviour shouldn't sell, but considering that a lot of entertainment people make big money by selling good 'ole fashion horse manure' by the bucket full.........
Come to think of it......
also known as....POLITICS!
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 10 (view)
 
do guys mainly judge by photos
Posted: 4/2/2009 9:52:55 AM
Good topic Fish!
No, I never go by photo alone.
Nor, I would advise should anyone!
There are times , a persons prjeudices spill out rather quickly, for instance.
So, chatting with someone is certainly productive , in order to form a 'true
picture' of that person.
At times, a bit of hilarity there, recently I saw a gals profile, she went on and on about those who refuse to display a photo.......not taking into account that SHE HERSELF does NOT display one!!!!!!!


Well...so much for a "photo says a thousand words."
Certainly ....a 1,0000 laughs!!!!
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Do women really dig scars?
Posted: 4/1/2009 1:36:11 PM
Op, actually we cannot give an honest opinion on your scars without
viewing them.
[don't bother!]
Let us use our imagination!
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Public Transit Romance?
Posted: 4/1/2009 11:49:36 AM
Op
Frequently ride the transit at a large hospital, and always a gal seems to strike up
a conversation with me.
More than mere coincidence, it's a short ten minute max trip, and the bus is small.
Never saw a police presence yet Dude!
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 41 (view)
 
Is there REALLY someone out there for everyone?
Posted: 4/1/2009 6:24:52 AM
Op
You are the problem.
Projecting 'negativity' , it spills right out of you.
Even your photo projects it.
Assess yourself!
Put all your troubles in that old kit bag and smile, smile, smile!
[that from an old WW 2 song!!]

See?
This is a problem been around a long time.
So get with it dude!
[don't wait for a war!] lol
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Do you like bubble gum? Any special meaning?
Posted: 3/27/2009 11:18:14 AM
OP, I just bought a bit of gum ON SALE!
Suddenly, gum is IN!!!
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Being the sexual aggressor
Posted: 3/27/2009 10:57:06 AM
Op, been my experience that women are definitely the aggressor.
At 24, seems she may have not enough broad scope on feeling her 'wild oats'.
I'm sure that at 24, I myself wasn't quite settled in where my parameters fell
in the bedroom.
Sounds like you may be smothering her.
Back off, and see if giving her some space will awaken that wonderful creativeness
women possess, that high they find in luring their guy!
It's possibly the 'icing on the cake' , she may not yet be aware it exists, surely
she will learn about her own taste for it at some point.
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Do you try to be the best sex they have ever had?
Posted: 3/27/2009 10:45:05 AM
OP, you mention right off you have that 'competitive spirit'.
Seems to put your entire sex life in perspective as 'competition'.
Are you a big sports fan?
Would bear out.
It's certainly okay should you find release in being 'competitive'.
At least with me, I'm more into the person, savoring her beauty, her scent, her every
line, her eyes , her touch.......
No room for competitiveness here.
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 6 (view)
 
How does someone get rid of the feeling?
Posted: 3/25/2009 9:49:54 AM
Takes TIME!
I think it's what Simon & Garfunkel had in mind when
they wrote their music.
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 51 (view)
 
Unsatisfying Sex Lives
Posted: 3/25/2009 9:02:54 AM
Was working once in an old folks home, and sad it is for there was definite evidence that people wwere aching to retrace their steps,[or mis-steps?].
they made it known how 'important' a good quality ,healthy sex life is, and
seemed to regret it became unreachable.
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 12 (view)
 
First Cyber Impressions
Posted: 3/24/2009 8:36:07 AM
Op, sounds like you are a good read on first impressions.
Trust your instincts!
Some are truly bad spellers , with a heart of gold, others are excellent spellers
......with a heart of ICE!!!
One does develop 'read betwixt the lines' capability after some practice.
Though actually, I have far greater success IRL!
Skin tone, eye contact, body language, all lost in cyber surfing!
[smell of perfume ..TOO]
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 91 (view)
 
Why do Strong, Independant, and Outspoken MEN scare the hell out of the modern-day woman?
Posted: 3/23/2009 4:01:36 PM
Playdoh!
Thanks Kaylie!
I wanted to utilize that but couldn't recall it!!
Good one!
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 34 (view)
 
The attitude required to attract women
Posted: 3/23/2009 3:58:33 PM
Krill, sounds like you have been talking to 'players' , who gave you this B.S. sale
about this 'attitude formula' as an 'end all to be all' as a woman attractant.
Egad! Man, comic book philosophy indeed !
My experience is ..just be yourself!
I've never put on airs, and believe me I have heard these 'expert' no -it -alls too!
lol
Trust me, get out there and just be yourself!
Numerous times, just pouring coffee at a stop'n go garnered me notice, and for what amount of attitude did it take to pour coffee?
[I don't do bars]

Tailoring yourself to attract women .....
certainly will wear you out, cause there are ALL kinds out there!
Relax, keep it together man!
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 89 (view)
 
Why do Strong, Independant, and Outspoken MEN scare the hell out of the modern-day woman?
Posted: 3/23/2009 3:50:06 PM
Wow! Star, you do seem to be caught up in some generalization here.
Most women do not want to 'mold ' men to her own whims.
Are you confusing the people who have unresolved issues and show up in the forums to
vent their venom as if in therapy?
Don't credit then for being mainstream, for it would be unfair to do so.
Although , this site does seem to invite them, a price because this site is wide open
to anyone, which does make it's good purpose somewhat murky to navigate.
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 18 (view)
 
need help sorting new attraction vs. current bf
Posted: 3/23/2009 3:38:07 PM
Alisha, it's normal to suddenly find oneself fantasizing, especially considering
none of us can truly explain just what formula drives us where romance is concerned.
You say this current 'relationship' ISN'T a relationship.
Sounds like you have to decide just what draws you in either direction.
From experience, I have always felt that having a solid , loving trusting relationship
is most desirable. Having security is sort of an answer in itself, for I find when
any 'rogue entity' soars past my line of sight, it's fairly easy to dismiss, though
maybe a little part tweaks my 'fantasy mode' just a bit, never resulting in any desire
to cause upheavel in an otherwise solid relationship.
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 97 (view)
 
Differences in what men and women look for....
Posted: 3/23/2009 2:32:30 PM
Bernta
You are a breath of fresh air!
How well you put the entire 'mating dance'!
Would but should the issues be so forthright and crystal clear.

Unfortunate that not everyone wants the relationship for long term caring, only for instant gratification, some for problem solving, some for instant sex.
Desperation can play a role.
Certainly, maturity is the big Kahuna here!
I'll be looking for your posts, you have a clear way of sifting through fog!
lol
Great thread!
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 1113 (view)
 
If someone emails you with misspelled words and bad grammar, do you respond?
Posted: 3/23/2009 8:04:53 AM
SCHWEURE!
Issint It SEA?
Reespound to me DAWRILLING!!
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 18 (view)
 
giving up on love...
Posted: 3/23/2009 8:00:29 AM
Rose, could be you need to broaden your scope?
Get out more, and take in some air de la fresh!
More exposure ensures you will meet more types of guys.
Meanwhile, take it a little slower, keeping in mind that you won't find someone each and every day.
Feeling down in the mouth with romance is normal, it is , no doubt, a rolloercoaster ride! [sometimes more valleys ..than peaks...].
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 8 (view)
 
confused and wondering if this has ever happened to anyone
Posted: 3/23/2009 7:56:12 AM
Op, sounds like you encoutered a real 'manipulator extra-ordinaire'!
She has an a agenda, and cleverly sought out a victim to solve her need for
'street ' !
Man! What lengths won't they go to?
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 59 (view)
 
WTF!!!! Why bother??
Posted: 3/23/2009 7:49:58 AM
WOW ! Laura!
Sounds like you have been through the 'junk-yard dogs'!
Yes, I've met numerous women through this site, and well, some
have recent pics displayed, others have....pics displayed!!
lol
Though, it's hit or miss should you find that one thats real.
I'm presently moving into the 'flesh and ' world though.
Seems cyber dating is at best, mediocre.

Thanks for the good scare!
Sound like you were on 'HALLOWEEN DATES '!!
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Rebound Guy?
Posted: 3/23/2009 7:43:43 AM
Rachell, take some time to gather your thoughts.
Sounds like you may have some unresolved issues with this latest disappointment.
When you feel more ready, confident, then move into the sea again.
It helps when one comes along who truly grabs your eye.
Build up your self-esteem, then back in thes wim Matey!
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Does a good 1st date need to involve kissing / some act of intimacy?
Posted: 3/23/2009 7:40:13 AM
Op, owing to 'mutual attraction', never say never, but then it's moreso a certainty
that any touching on a first date is anathema.
Respect is a word which finds itself in the mix here, if only for those with any
'self-respect', for it signifies the very essence of the makeup of the personality
of the daters.
Hokie smokes Bullwinkle!
I sound like an evil scientist!!!
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Thread deletion
Posted: 3/23/2009 7:34:17 AM
Op, lets see ....you have 'salesmen', then there are also ...
.....'astronauts'.... the oneswho don't have a clue, they are so far out in space,
one wonders if they will come into the atmosphere for a fresh supply of oxygen.
C'mon! "Let the buyer BEWARE!"
Unfortunately, that axiom goes for romance as well as for 'used car salesman'!
 meteor 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 68 (view)
 
kissing on the first date should be a topic of discussion
Posted: 3/23/2009 7:27:27 AM
Stillwater, from my experience, not a problem!
Seems making any touching into a 'formula' is moreso 'amateurish'.
Kissing was, is always something that self-generates between myself and my date.
That is it just happens as a result of the natural rythyms that occur when we both
sense a 'coming together', that wonderful sense that it's OK!
As goes with any touching at all, by the by.
Never a good idea to put your hands, or ANY part ' of you on your date!
Look for that 'comfort zone'!
 METEOR 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 7 (view)
 
I'm disabled
Posted: 3/20/2009 12:35:59 PM
Lulu, with your obvious gorgeous appearance, I'd be hard pressed to turn
you down for a date, or for a prospect of long term!!!
Certainly, as anyone should be doing is taking into consideration others needs and wants all the same.
Ahhhh...the complexities!
How often I've met people who are looking down a very narrow golden road!
"Toto! We're NOT in Kansas anymore!"
The numbers seem to bear out this may be the very reason why people fail to
find happiness.
A self-fulfilling habit! Dodging those 'undesirables', weather or not due to 'fear',
or high self-esteem, the results are all the same.
[a ...lonely path]
 METEOR 54
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Guys i wanna ask u something, honestly
Posted: 3/20/2009 12:22:55 PM
Op, just recently a gal was most friendly with me as I poured coffee at the
7-11!
She is an employee, and well, admittedly, she impressed me with her great
personality long before I took note of her looks.
Not that I even noticed her before, but only because this was the first time either of us ever saw each other.
I was very impressed with the way she carried herself, and did ponder if she is single.
From some conversation with another fella in the store, it seemed a sure bet she is single.
Hmmmmmm
She is about 5 feet, built good, blonde from a bottle.....
now, I wouldn't have picked her out from a crowd...
But from my experience ,it's ...location...location...location......
Just by chance, we met, and now I'm pondering a possible date simply because she is consistent with her body language, as well her obvious interest since now it's several times I have frequented the store for coffee.
[purely coincidental]
....and if you believe THAT...got a bridge in Brooklyn you need to purchase!! lol

Appearance is the most obvious attention getter, but sadly some people are terribly
intimidated by what they perceive as a 'weakness' of their own, which tends to
show as no self-confidence.
By the way Op, your eyes are definitely an eye-grabber!
Your windows to your soul shine !

Yes, there are shallow people out there.
But then..there are LOTS of people out there......
.....location....location.....location!!
 
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