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 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 1013 (view)
 
older women younger men
Posted: 1/6/2009 12:26:39 PM
If it works it works, there is no need to over think this subject.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 2 (view)
 
When a relationship problem arises, how do you decide...
Posted: 1/6/2009 12:25:42 PM
You look at how long it has been and how good it is. A good relationship isn't a perfect relationship, so problems will always happen but you must work to make it last. A bad one however is nothing but problems and you need to end something that is not working for you.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 36 (view)
 
asian girl who has never dated or had a asian bf before
Posted: 7/8/2008 12:47:39 PM
You date who you want because if you are going to be with someone it should be by choice.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Who Pays????
Posted: 7/8/2008 12:46:03 PM
No, he should have told her all possible costs before the flight happened.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 30 (view)
 
How important is sex in a new relationship?
Posted: 7/8/2008 12:44:45 PM
It's important only when you both feel it. Some people say let's know each other before we have sex. Others let have sex and then know each other. Know what you want and how you are going about it first.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 546 (view)
 
why do men think they can use women for sex?
Posted: 7/8/2008 12:42:50 PM
If that was the case you should have slow it down before you ended up in bed.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 1453 (view)
 
Why men don't date strong women...
Posted: 7/8/2008 12:33:28 PM
Strong women don't mean bithces, loudmouths, or acting like you are an escapee from a rap video. She has her own means of support, she has her own place, she has her own ideas and can express herself. More importantly she makes herself feel important but not at your expense.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Suggestions to last long?
Posted: 7/8/2008 12:21:58 PM
Relax
Have a glass of alcohol (wine, whiskey)
Circle jerk in advance
Foreplay- Kiss, stroke, finger, lick, eat
Pace- Change speeds
Positions- Use more than one
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 14 (view)
 
So, where do you 'hide' your condoms?
Posted: 7/8/2008 12:19:27 PM
I don't hide them. I keep them where I can find them or tell the woman where she can find them.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Men who can't Orgasm during Sex
Posted: 7/8/2008 12:13:10 PM
Could be stress, I had a case when I couldn't even if my life depended on it. I thought it was a good thing but it was really the fact that the woman was driving me crazy and my body acted out in frustration.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 35 (view)
 
why do people cheat?
Posted: 7/8/2008 12:08:32 PM
Boredom, wrong choices in picking a partner, not use to being in a monogamous relationship, because you can, and the list goes on. Tell her to be single and tehn only take a man when she wants a man until then date and be careful when having sex.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 15 (view)
 
What am i doing wrong?
Posted: 7/8/2008 12:05:44 PM
You are being to sappy. Let them know you are interested but tell them you have a life. If she can't decide to see you or changes her mind. Next. It's a numbers game, talk to as many as possible and your luck should change.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 292 (view)
 
The instant chemistry demand
Posted: 7/8/2008 12:02:20 PM
If they don't feel attraction towards you then who you are and what you can do means nothing to them. The only time women complain about looks is when they are not considered as attractive as other women and get overlooked by men.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 278 (view)
 
Your Pet or YourRelationship?
Posted: 7/8/2008 11:59:25 AM
Pet, relationships come and go.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 2731 (view)
 
GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 7/8/2008 11:58:31 AM
No, because sexual attraction has a basis in what you are feeling. That's like starving for a steak, someone bringing it to you and then telling you not to eat it. If she told me that were just friends and I am looking elsewhere.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 320 (view)
 
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 7/8/2008 11:55:20 AM
Sex- in the moment, go for your own pleasure, anyone will do.
Love- planned, the other person's pleasure is more important, only one person will ever do
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 19 (view)
 
A question on how one views past relationships
Posted: 7/8/2008 11:52:59 AM
If the person can go on with their lives without complaining about past relationship then it's a good thing. You will most likely be judged on your own merits.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 242 (view)
 
Cave man days, bring'em back
Posted: 7/8/2008 11:47:19 AM
You need more of acting like a man and not complaining to a woman. No begging and pleading if you feel you are good enough, have confidence, and stop acting like a woman. Make them decide for themselves, let them call, let them tell you when you did good, since they have no problem when you screw up. Move on and go to the next one if she says no, this is not the movies when after the six time she finally says yes.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 148 (view)
 
What Changes in the male mind after sex
Posted: 7/8/2008 11:42:34 AM
If the woman makes it all about sex and offers nothing else then the man wants it not you and will act accordingly. Focus on yourself and let him know there is more to you than sexual release and you will keep his attention if not get on without him.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 29 (view)
 
After one date the man disappears for no reason
Posted: 7/8/2008 11:37:44 AM
It didn't click for him on your date. It's not your loss, you are better off. Date somebody else and forget the chump.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Are we done??
Posted: 7/8/2008 11:36:17 AM
Yes. What kind of relationships work with this kind of madness going on? Only in movies.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Doubt in realtionships
Posted: 7/8/2008 11:34:45 AM
Leave already, she does not want to be with you and needs you for convenience. It's a booty call that has been extended.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 173 (view)
 
Guys who can't or won't fix things around the house
Posted: 7/8/2008 11:32:57 AM
Not all men are handymen, electricians or plumbers. You can look for those types to date or appreciate the man for what he can do and use the yellow pages or take some courses yourself at Home Depot.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Burning Bridges
Posted: 7/8/2008 11:31:12 AM
If it is making you feel worse then it's better to end it. You don't have to be nasty but you don't have to deal with it. A person doesn't want to talk or be with you then you can leave as well. Suffering is not a job.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Question Mainly for the Guys ..... Gals can answer too
Posted: 7/7/2005 1:01:07 PM
Men are more interested in sex in most cases but women decide if you are going to have it or not in most cases.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Conservative Woman....
Posted: 7/7/2005 12:59:01 PM
Friendship maybe sex however is not going to work.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 12 (view)
 
The Hottest thing women can do in Bed!
Posted: 7/7/2005 12:57:43 PM
Bring a girlfriend and tag team on you.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 9 (view)
 
What's the most you've ever masturbated in a 48 hour time span?
Posted: 7/7/2005 12:56:28 PM
8 times
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Can you remember everyone you've had sex with?
Posted: 7/7/2005 12:54:36 PM
No, and in some cases I don't want to.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Why is it so hard to find the one?
Posted: 7/7/2005 12:53:28 PM
He is not going to be the one you have to find someone who has most of what you are looking for and get him to the point that he is the one.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Do you believe someone anymore when they contact you?
Posted: 7/7/2005 12:43:54 PM
Yes, I will unless they give me reason not to.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 14 (view)
 
I have a boyfriend but am in love with my best friend
Posted: 7/6/2005 9:48:26 PM
End it with the boyfriend there is nothing there you don't want to be alone is not a reason to be with him. Talk to your best friend and resolve this mess.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Being Forward and What Are The Limits?
Posted: 7/6/2005 9:45:57 PM
The limits are how well you know the person since what you can say to a friend or partner is not what you can say to a stranger or someone who is sensative.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 9 (view)
 
When a guy is scared to commit
Posted: 7/6/2005 9:43:58 PM
Just be with him and let the fact you chose to be with him regardless of his issues prove you two belong together and take charge when needed since he might be afraid of taking the step and taking the blame if it fails so take that choice and problem out of the equation.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 23 (view)
 
~ What Men Truly Want ~
Posted: 7/6/2005 9:39:39 PM
Depends on the men. Some want just sex for whatever reasons or hormones come into play. Others want a second mommy or a armpiece to impress their friends. All I want is someone I like, can talk to, accept our differences, have fun, and sex the hell out of me if she is my woman.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 5 (view)
 
I can't stand his smell!
Posted: 7/6/2005 9:34:24 PM
Find out what he is eating and his sanitary habits, get them fixed or get him gone.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Why do guys act like they like you one minute..then the next they don't
Posted: 7/6/2005 9:32:03 PM
Guys are like girls in this regard that once you have someone you don't have to be as nice as you were when you were trying to get that person. The second reason is when you are getting ignored you might give the person a taste of their medicine which usually challenges the person to get you back in line. Look it will happen with someone you deal with at sometime but if it is a constant. Dump the chump.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 11 (view)
 
i will never understand guys!
Posted: 7/6/2005 9:25:19 PM
Men are more sexual in thinking than women but if it's a 24/7 thing he has issues and if you don't want to be an object leave him and choose somebody who can make you happy. Women do make most of the choices of who they share their lives and bed with.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Why do people love to play games?
Posted: 7/6/2005 6:53:25 PM
Everyone has been playing games since they found out as babies crying for any reason would get a parent to do anything to keep the child quiet. Lies, threats, promises, teasing, using someone's jealousies and insecurities. It is in the world's culture that is why we have the terms: players, office politics, **** and****whipped, teasers. Now you have to realize that and know when you deal with people you can trust them but realize you have to pay attention because some people will look out for themselves more than you and let their actions speak not just their words. Try to be honest with people and they should return the favor if not don't deal with them. It takes two to play.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 17 (view)
 
What's THE most important aspect of a guy/girl you look for in dating...
Posted: 7/6/2005 2:30:27 PM
How the other person looks. friendly, communication, common interests, playful.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 27 (view)
 
How can you tell he genuine ones from the jerks?
Posted: 7/6/2005 2:28:09 PM
Time no one can act like someone they are not forever see them and talk to them and if they are putting on an act they will slip up just pay attention.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 86 (view)
 
Who IS serious about finding someone here???
Posted: 7/6/2005 2:26:03 PM
Yes however if the person I am trying to be with does not want to talk to me or move forward in the way we deal with each other then I am out. Why should I get angry or jealous over a stranger.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 176 (view)
 
Liking asian girls
Posted: 7/6/2005 2:23:19 PM
They seem to act nicer than other cultures but once they get Americanized you better pray she is in love with you.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 114 (view)
 
Interracial Dating....
Posted: 7/6/2005 2:20:07 PM
We are different colors and cultures not races that is why we can have kids and they are not sterile. Date who you want to.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 16 (view)
 
I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice?
Posted: 7/6/2005 2:10:07 PM
You are someone and don't let any idiot male or female say different. Just live your life, make friends, and explore things when you are ready. Find someone you can talk to and find some real friends not the ones who like you when you have something you want and then you will someday get back to the person you want to be.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Do you like sex or Love sex?What is sex to you
Posted: 7/6/2005 2:06:08 PM
Love sex it is not like making love but it is raw, animalistic, and passionate. The energy is enough to light a house.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 120 (view)
 
What have you learned about online dating here?
Posted: 7/6/2005 1:51:37 PM
It is easier to contact a woman than in real life but you get the same attitudes so the only thing you have to worry about is the one you want who wants you. No one else.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Cheap tight dates
Posted: 7/6/2005 1:48:59 PM
Just don't waste money if you have to spend then spend but don't waste if and if you can't afford to date then don't date.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Men! It's not the size of your.....
Posted: 7/6/2005 1:46:51 PM
Yes it is men are judged by what you have , what you hope to offer, and sexually how big you are. That is why some men act the way they do. I do a lot of things well for one reason so I don't have to depend on one aspect that might fail me one day. Foreplay never hurts.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 57 (view)
 
Why All the ANGER???
Posted: 7/6/2005 1:42:05 PM
Because both sides men and women are being conceited, boastful, and self important. Friendships, relationships, hangout partners, and sex are very reachable things so if people would either say what they want, reply yes or no, or if they are picky which is not a bad thing make the first move and hope they don't get rejected then maybe this unneeded anger would go away.
 
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