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 Author Thread: Antigallican new years eve party pictures and comments thread...
 debaura
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Antigallican new years eve party pictures and comments thread...
Posted: 1/1/2011 7:21:53 AM
Had a great time ty for organising it
 debaura
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 58 (view)
 
Who works harder in bed, men or women?
Posted: 5/16/2008 7:00:57 PM
in my experience men work a lot harder in bed but then i dont sleep with women do i so u shouldnt be asking that question really! men have to ffs or else whats the point humanity will just die a death ewww i gotta go think my friday shags here lol gotta get my leotard and tights on ewww what we do for a bit of a blood rush but i am a cracker i worked harder than any of them bstards ever did!
 debaura
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 4 (view)
 
will you miss me?
Posted: 5/16/2008 6:47:05 PM
really enjoyed certain parts of your poems they flowed real good unlike mine which drifted up river and hit the rocks but oh well keep rockin pof gals!!!!
 debaura
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 2 (view)
 
will you miss me?
Posted: 5/16/2008 6:36:27 PM
hmmm well been there many times depends how much u remember
 debaura
Joined: 2/25/2008
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will you miss me?
Posted: 5/16/2008 4:55:18 PM
and your spine is a rod
you wont bend for me
i queue in the supermarket
the tomato in your hand
salt in your blood
i wish it never happened
you
who done it,
this streamless ocean
jealous emotion
this irregardless know
... how
goodtime
the kiss on my back in mid morning
the thrill of the call at ten o clock
i loved you so much i cannot tell more
i wish we were dead than be (I) alive and mourning
the thrill of the chase, is (hell)
death when youre knocking on a deaf door
god help me
and i know soon you will
eating breakfast from a carrier bag
i am strong but as weak as a flower
i love you but its not enough
to quell the thirst from your hungry door
to want and still want more
ill be a gambler, a fixer
ill send them from my front door
but what i want i want a thousand fold
i want you,
i want nothing more
i can search the whole wide world
my elton
my darling
my soul
i cannot get over you if i tried for 400 days i did try
i will try for the gamble is mine
but the call and ill be there in a mile
some things you have to take on the chin
what you did a man can take away
what you did bruise me to pay
i stood at the bare bulbed door
and begged you would love me some more
you took all you had that i gave
and tossed me the ocean receive
i wish i had nothing to give
but my spirit begs me to retrieve
the place where i was willing to leave
and that is where you will find me
in a place where you last found me
 debaura
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 6429 (view)
 
When the words just come........
Posted: 5/9/2008 1:56:59 PM
hi i really liked your poem i hope you continue writing
 debaura
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 28 (view)
 
wat if she lied about age....... do you continue anyway?
Posted: 5/6/2008 3:41:36 PM
i dont think its such a big deal ... ill give you an example when i met my ex i was 25 but because he looked so young i said i was 24 he also thought i looked young so he said he was 21 but he was really 23 i felt a bit bad, he also felt bad so one drunk night he said look ive got something to tell you ..... and i thought he was going to tell me hes met someone else or something massively heartbreaking and when he said he wasnt really 21 i laughed and said no im not 24 either and we both cracked up laughing ........ it was just alittle white lie to me thats all we stayed together for 10 years and hes the most honest person ive ever met ....... people are insecure some people lie about their age but that doesnt make them a bad person
 debaura
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 49 (view)
 
i met my boyfriend on this site, not sure if hes interested in me.
Posted: 3/30/2008 3:23:23 PM
you are right he is playing games - hes not being totally honest with you as hes still on here messaging people as he said he would no longer be just be careful and keep your options open like he seems to be doing!
 debaura
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 9 (view)
 
How do you get over someone
Posted: 3/27/2008 3:50:06 PM
it really depends on what sort of relationship it was and what you expected from it. in my own experience i can say for the first time in a year i can say honestly i am over my ex and back then it felt like id never get over it but im dating now and although we are still in touch every now and then i am happy to get on with my life. i think its important to be on your own initially to get over it emotionally but when you are ready start dating again and it may take time for you to feel anything but it comes and its worth the wait!
 debaura
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 128 (view)
 
are some people not MEANT to be in relationships?
Posted: 3/18/2008 6:18:36 PM
no i would say definitely no, yes we come into this world alone but while we are here we arent meant to be, you are wrong
 debaura
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 170 (view)
 
Pretty people get overlooked too you know.
Posted: 3/18/2008 6:11:48 PM
im so sorry i read half way and thought you were so shallow but having read the rest i understand what you are talking about 9it was st patricks day )

xxx
 debaura
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 169 (view)
 
Pretty people get overlooked too you know.
Posted: 3/18/2008 6:08:08 PM
never read so much crap in my life!!!! how on earth can you be that self absorbed? take a rain check yes there are pretty people in the world but you have to work hard to be one of them and i aint talking about the crap you are get a life girl and i dont want to hear your tripe no more
 debaura
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Is it justified..
Posted: 3/16/2008 12:02:06 PM
i think if you were really into someone you wouldnt want them to change of course if its drugs or alcohol then i can understand but personality and the way someone looks should be the thing that attracted you to them in the first place. my ex was always trying to make me change he didnt like the fact i answered him back (can you believe that) and of course i just did it even more. but having said that when he was out of work for a bit he started to look scruffy and unshaven and it was such a turn off i didnt tell him at the time but i admitted later that i didnt find him attractive in that time and he was pretty upset about it.
 debaura
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 114 (view)
 
Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 3/16/2008 11:48:45 AM
yeah i agree alarm bells should ring when you hear trust me im a nice guy! as a nice person wouldnt have to say it but prove it by his actions which he clearly did not so take this as experience and i hope i would have been as collected as you were but somehow i dont think i would have held myself as you did so well done!
 debaura
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 85 (view)
 
are some people not MEANT to be in relationships?
Posted: 3/13/2008 3:44:02 PM
I am wondering that self same thing myself after another failed relationship but there is a voice louder than that one saying that i simply havent met the right person which i believe is truer and i think why should i be on my own no man is an island and we deserve to be loved no matter what you think of how good you are in a relationship yes some people are better at maintaining a relationship than others but thats not to say they arent fearful of it going wrong just as you are.
 debaura
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Poles are coming
Posted: 3/13/2008 3:10:39 PM
i bet you would feel differently about things if your boss turned around and sacked you and your mates.
 debaura
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Poles are coming
Posted: 3/13/2008 3:05:50 PM
I didnt watch the programme but sure ill catch a repeat soon. anyway the polish people i have met they are quite a positive bunch and do work hard in fact the guy who came to fix about 6 things in my house managed to do them all in a couple of hours i was like omg i expected it to be a couple of days work. when i was in a bit of trouble recently a big polish man came to my rescue and made sure i was ok so to that guy if youre listening thanks a lot!

however i do not like it when people say that the english are lazy and that we dont want to work in every culture there are lazy people who do not want to earn a living and i have seen that in my area a lot and in fact it has been said that there are quite a few poles who are claiming benefits at home and working here which to my reckoning is not right but if its good for the economy then sod the health service the schools public transport housing which is struggling to cope with the influx of immigrants (not just poles)
 debaura
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 6 (view)
 
broken heart because of a joke
Posted: 3/10/2008 6:09:24 PM
i would never consider marrying someone i hardly knew which you cannot know in one month and this should teach you in the future to look after yourself and not set yourself up to be hurt dont put up walls. someone told me the other day they only dated this girl because they bet their mate they could and then dumped her after of course the girl was very upset shed fallen for him so take it as a lesson learnt get to know someone really well before giving your heart.
 debaura
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 81 (view)
 
I miss him
Posted: 3/10/2008 5:57:54 PM
i used to miss my ex the morning calls the cuddles the laughs but not anymore one day click and suddenly you just dont miss him anymore it happens out of the blue but before that happens of course its hard
 debaura
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Heart breaks
Posted: 3/10/2008 5:54:01 PM
you will get over it it will get easier believe me what you are going through is what most people go through and sometimes its hard but it does get easier especially if you spend time around people and even though you may not be with it or in the mood you have to make yourself be with your friends and slowly slowly you will come out of it. i used to think continuously of my ex from wake til bed over and over i couldnt eat sleep i was like a zombie for about 6 weeks i lost so much wieght but i started to use the gym even though i secretly wanted to curl up and die i hung with mymates but i hardly took in anything that was being said i drunk too much i had fights and arguments with people i bombarded him with texts i went awol but he wasnt honest with me he left me shattered and hurt she was honest iwth you so you have that to be thankful for so it should be easier for you
 debaura
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 120 (view)
 
WHY DID HE STOP CALLING?
Posted: 3/10/2008 5:36:36 PM
i really dont think you should be in any way let down by remarks about your intimacy with this man as you are a grown woman and it is your business what you do and i think in this day and age people shouldnt be so judgemental. as to the guy not calling well its an easy way out for them it is rare to have a man say what he feels because he didnt want to upset you so hey he ran
 debaura
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Need Help Please.
Posted: 3/10/2008 5:18:32 PM
3 years is long enough to know someone and to look back and see if they made you happy but she has left you and when it didnt work she came running back to you, you took her back only for her to cheat on you again and still remain contact with him right under your nose! well when hes in iraq she may well be all over you like a rash but until the next one comes along she doesnt have it in her to stay and is too insecure to be on her own. i would personally get out because she is causing you so much pain and you deserve to be happy but as you have a son together it makes things more difficult i know. from my own personal experience they come back but only if you let them get on with your life and try to be happy.
 debaura
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 7 (view)
 
What do I do?
Posted: 3/10/2008 5:08:53 PM
i have a feeling that he is using this as an excuse or that he is a very jealous person who will try to control you if you let him do as he wishes now. i wouldnt move out if he liked you enough he would trust you. ask him round get him to socialise with the older guy and see whats going or move on because he sounds so insecure.
 debaura
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 45 (view)
 
The happy guy within me is dead...
Posted: 3/10/2008 5:00:17 PM
it will take time to get over it but take it as a lesson you now know what it is like so you can show more empathy for people in worse situations than yourself that is one positive. i was really carefree and funloving and after two years in a relationship i was left heartbroken devastated nearly out of my mind and a year ago i thought i would never see the blue sky i would never be the real me again but i came back through being on my own and realising that i didnt need anyone to make me feel good about myself i had to feel good for myself first and i succeeded. i am ready to meet someone new now but it has taken this long to get there. yes it can be lonely and i cried many times but one day you will just get over it believe me it will just happen out of the blue but in the mean time look after yourself and be around people you trust and talk to them about what you are feeling.
 debaura
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 46 (view)
 
The mind of an abuser
Posted: 3/10/2008 4:11:54 PM
i think that they do go in with the intention but of course who would know but them. basically i was in one hell of a relationship he was violent, mind controlling, jealous possessive he led me to a point where i believed and trusted no one because i thought hey if he loved me so much (which at the time i believed) who can i trust now? he tried to spoil relationships with anyone he could so i would be this vulnerable person and he nearly succeeded but my one good friend picked me up and saved me from that nasty man it has taken one year to come to terms with and still feel the effects today but i say to myself hey you always met nice people before him there is nothing wrong with you and now i believe it but its taken that long to ....
 debaura
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Was I used?
Posted: 3/10/2008 3:55:16 PM
hi fromwhat you have written i cannot say that you were used at all in fact i would say that you both were in this equally but you misunderstood her and did not listen when she was giving you signs that she wasnt ready for a stronger relationship with you. i hope that looking back you had a great time and you should be thankful for that and that she told you straight not a lot of people to this (especially men) .
 debaura
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 25 (view)
 
How should a single mom, with no help, date?
Posted: 3/10/2008 6:36:17 AM
hello,

i have a child too and am on my own but have never had problems in respect to dating with regards to my son. i do have a lot of help and his dad takes him for alternate weekends so i appreciate i have a lot more freedom than yourself. do you not have any friends who could watch your son while you go out for a few hours? i think you can be too careful and you have every right to live your life and be with someone just because you have a child doesnt mean you have to give up everything i think it is far healthier to see you as a happy loved person than being on your own and lonely. when i was in a relationship i introduced my new partner within weeks of meeting my child was happy for me absolutely no problem. i hope you get some more help than you are getting but please do not take notice of people who say stuff about not introducing them to your child for one year as long as you trust them and know them well enough i really dont see the problem after all you are hardly going to entrust your child with a complete stranger. i wish you luck x debbie
 
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