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 Author Thread: can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers?
 Dlo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 1440 (view)
 
can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers?
Posted: 4/20/2009 9:33:23 PM
I wouldn't date anyone that did illegal drugs.....so I guess the next step is to make them legal lol
 Dlo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Can a profile be too long?
Posted: 4/17/2009 8:17:46 AM
It's only too long to me if it's a boring read....I won't put down a good book
 Dlo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 26 (view)
 
what is with camera phone pics of dcks / come on
Posted: 4/16/2009 6:11:52 PM
What is up with self made Camera phone pics PERIOD??? Do these people not have any friends that will take a pic of them??? Really....I'm serious
 Dlo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Which stage of sex do you enjoy the most?
Posted: 4/16/2009 6:10:02 PM
I can tell you what part I DON'T like......When I have to pay the bill.....
 Dlo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 45 (view)
 
The shaving craze
Posted: 4/16/2009 6:07:17 PM
I like everything shaved...but of course I am in the Porn industry....
 DLo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 61 (view)
 
Guys - when do you 'expect' sex?
Posted: 4/9/2009 10:08:14 PM
I'd rather not have sex for a few months or however long it takes so we can truly get to know one another.
 DLo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Whats wrong with me???
Posted: 4/8/2009 9:28:13 AM
Nothing is wrong with you. They say a picture is worth a 1,000 words and it's so true about when people view pics to draw their own conclusions about us. Our profiles are like reading the back cover of a book....and yet the books may be good inside....we put it down and read the next back cover for what catches our eye at the time. It's a human grocery store in here.

I travel all over the country for work and here's a secret... Parts of the country I get 5-10 e-mails a day and other parts I won't get 1!!! If you're that serious about finding someone....do a virtual move. Also, change your profile write up at least once every 2 months. A person's personality changes with the seasons ;)
 DLo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Should he stand or sit when he goes to the bathroom?
Posted: 4/8/2009 9:08:45 AM
Stand...and tell him to lift the seat?? Good idea huh! :)
 DLo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Single parents and casual sex
Posted: 4/8/2009 9:04:57 AM
I think you're correct....keep doing what you're doing....
 DLo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 14 (view)
 
I can count my friends on one finger!
Posted: 4/8/2009 8:55:23 AM
Are you involved in any group activities?
 DLo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Talking during sex?
Posted: 4/8/2009 8:44:23 AM
....always good to change it up with the mood....keeps it interesting
 DLo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Advice in Question form..
Posted: 4/7/2009 8:58:33 PM
I absolutely love all the different view points people have.....thanks for sharing.....
 DLo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Advice in Question form..
Posted: 4/7/2009 11:14:26 AM
haha Gone.....SOME SOME SOME......do you get upset at comedy clubs when the comedians generalize? I can see You getting all pissed off yelling to the stage SOME WOMEN...NOT ME...SOME...not all WHITE WOMEN DO THAT....! That's Cute....You'd be the one that leaves the show all pissed off...Can you believe D'Lo...all the generalizations he made tonight...what an ass ;)
 DLo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Advice in Question form..
Posted: 4/7/2009 9:55:34 AM
I've read sooo (like with more o's than that) many profiles from women who have written- "If you're a player move on" or If you don't like this move on..If you don't like Dogs..I'm not into playing games...etc..

Well, If I am a PLAYER....you just gave me the stuff I need to avoid saying to you in order to hook you (lol, POF joke)...I think women tend to say too much about what they are not looking for instead of going by the guys actions. Saying these things in order not to get played is only giving the player the rules to your game...and "We" love Playing games!

So since I need to ask a question....Why do women tend to do this?
 DLo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 4 (view)
 
My X wrote a testimonial...
Posted: 4/7/2009 9:46:08 AM
I couldn't stop laughing.......no really...I would probably leave it up because every time I read it "I" would laugh! Who cares what other people think...You are Funny!! or are you trying to be serious....That dry humor fools me sometimes ;)
 DLo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 246 (view)
 
Is it ok for your GF to hang out with Ex boyfriends?
Posted: 4/4/2009 6:41:50 PM
The girl I date can hang out with whomever she chooses to....Ex husband, boyfriend, dad, mom, lol Whoever makes her happy.....just please don't disrespect me be a trusting man. :)
 DLo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Why is it so rare?
Posted: 4/4/2009 6:35:13 PM
I go out with anyone that has a cool personality regardless of looks. I do however "Require" the person to have self confidence. :)
 DLo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 502 (view)
 
what is everyones opin on tattoos?
Posted: 3/29/2009 6:59:00 AM
My first impression on a female with a ton of tatts isn't so good
 DLo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Reality vs Pics
Posted: 3/28/2009 9:10:30 AM
Haha.....yeah....that's why I posted the max amount of pics from various occassions....and no model pics because airbrushing makes ya perfect!
 DLo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 61 (view)
 
Would you date someone who is dying?
Posted: 3/28/2009 9:05:54 AM
Depends what they were dying from....but sure...If I liked them that is
 Dlo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 113 (view)
 
How come we all get so picky after 30?
Posted: 3/24/2009 6:07:55 PM
Who likes to lose half of what they earned....AGAIN...I'm Picky
 Dlo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Is he playing games or he is sincere?
Posted: 3/18/2009 8:04:04 AM
I didn't look at your profile but you seem like a youngen learning the ropes...
 Dlo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Work Flirt
Posted: 3/18/2009 7:56:40 AM
That whole situation is trouble.....don't you know not to get involved with people you work with??
 Dlo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 15 (view)
 
is it ok to say you are annoyed?
Posted: 3/18/2009 5:20:26 AM
Yep it's ok....but don't sit there waiting for him to make plans with you....go make your own.
 Dlo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Email etiquette
Posted: 3/18/2009 5:15:11 AM
Use this for phone calls too... Call/e-mail leave a message 1 time. One Time Man! The name Stalker Steve would just be too fitting....be careful
 Dlo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Guy asked me to call him after a date?
Posted: 3/18/2009 5:10:20 AM
I agree with the OP.....after you've gave the interested signals that you would be receptive to a call or another date she should wait for him to call but not put her social life on hold by any means until he does. If I'm REALLY interested in dating a Lady...I will call her.
 Dlo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Is your city the reason you're single?
Posted: 3/15/2009 5:26:18 PM
I travel all over the country and change this to the city I'm in....Yes, the amount of activity does change in each city.... Cali is HARD! Midwest is Easy...don't think I said that right...ha...but you know what I meant....
 Dlo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 9 (view)
 
What's up with favorites?
Posted: 3/14/2009 7:44:32 PM
ha...I do that.....
 Dlo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 14 (view)
 
WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF......... ??
Posted: 3/14/2009 7:32:54 PM
I'd say........"Damn, What are the odds of that happening to me twice in one day?"
 Dlo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 81 (view)
 
What do you love about being single !?
Posted: 3/14/2009 7:26:54 PM
My Best Reasons-
-I know exactly how much a fun night or hour will cost
-I know and don't care if the girl I'm with one night sleeps around
-I know the girl I'm with will always be happy or get dropped off
-I know that if she doesn't get my jokes I can exchange her for one that does
 Dlo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 69 (view)
 
The Patrick was a Saint...but I ain't Party! 3-21-09 Fenton Hazzards
Posted: 3/11/2009 8:31:43 AM
Riiiiiight....I don't need a booth for that
 Dlo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 65 (view)
 
The Patrick was a Saint...but I ain't Party! 3-21-09 Fenton Hazzards
Posted: 3/10/2009 10:59:36 AM
Well...yes...I just came from LA......so I don't know what ya GOT!
 Dlo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 60 (view)
 
The Patrick was a Saint...but I ain't Party! 3-21-09 Fenton Hazzards
Posted: 3/9/2009 5:31:27 PM
Ok ok...I didn't "forget" but I did lose the link to the forum.... Got it now

I'm new here and not quite sure Midwest people know how to Party...am I wrong?

Xx~D'Lo!
 Dlo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 41 (view)
 
The art of conversation...
Posted: 3/8/2009 5:30:54 PM
LOL..I know...it's torturous!!!! Hit and Miss, Shahna
 Dlo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 27 (view)
 
why if I search for someone to date they all ways has kids
Posted: 3/7/2009 7:22:54 AM
So their kids can translate???
 Dlo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Do people know how to open a dialog properly?
Posted: 2/27/2009 6:09:52 AM
Picky is Correct!
 Dlo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Do people know how to open a dialog properly?
Posted: 2/26/2009 6:57:33 PM
ha..yeah...The nerd teaching the nerds...cute show. I guess it's just odd that someone would put themselves out there and not make their e-mail a little more creative. Since this goes on my profile it's more of a hint ;)
 Dlo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Do people know how to open a dialog properly?
Posted: 2/26/2009 6:43:56 PM
It's elementary....will you talk to me? E-mails don't need to be long to be good....they need to captivate an interest, otherwise I'm going solely on her looks if I respond at all.
 Dlo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Verbal flirting
Posted: 2/26/2009 6:16:45 PM
Saying "You have a pretty smile" always makes a person smile....which makes them feel good about themselves and makes them feel good about you too
 Dlo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Do people know how to open a dialog properly?
Posted: 2/26/2009 6:07:21 PM
Ok...I'm on this site mostly out of internet addiction when I'm not out with "real people". I've received quite a few e-mails where the lady (and I assume guys do this too) doesn't know how to open a set. This is one of the e-mails just in-

"Just wanted to say Hello, would like to chat let me know if your interested..."

How many of you would approach a person in public and say that? Do people really not know how to start a conversation by noticing and asking about an interest/hobby/look/location/clothes/friend/commonality/etc???
 Dlo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Hook up advice.. round two!
Posted: 2/26/2009 7:11:40 AM
I prefer contacting a woman first after a date (if it is a new relationship)...If she contacts me first it seems like she could get needy and clingy way too fast and I distance myself by saying "Glad You had Fun!"
 Dlo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Patrick was a Saint...but I ain't!! Party! 3-21-09 Fenton Hazzards
Posted: 2/24/2009 3:31:51 PM
Would love to come out since I don't know 1 person in MO!! lol
 DLo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Is he intimidated but likes me OR disinterested? Need advice pls!!
Posted: 1/31/2009 6:54:54 PM
I think it's funny how people get nervous talking to one another.... Just start up general conversation people....so many people are insecure about rejection...kinda silly
 DLo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Guys, when you see a girl dancing..
Posted: 1/31/2009 6:39:50 PM
in a bar at 19 huh.....well I guess most would assume you were 21....I go up to anyone ... I'm not shy though
 DLo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 5 (view)
 
why dont guys say they are not into you, instead they stop chatting and ignor you
Posted: 1/31/2009 6:34:01 PM
live by actions not explanations............
 DLo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Viewed me question....
Posted: 1/31/2009 6:27:01 PM
Don't assume a guy doesn't like you....I look at profiles sometimes just to read what people say etc and don't write because I don't feel like writing. lol
 DLo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 14 (view)
 
read but not deleted
Posted: 1/31/2009 6:22:57 PM
You actually check to see if someone read your note? If I write someone they either respond or don't-
 DLo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 15 (view)
 
If you are alone then you are incomplete....according to greeting cards.
Posted: 1/29/2009 11:07:47 AM
Most people are incomplete without a partner. That's a red flag for me!
 DLo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 13 (view)
 
FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS SURVEY
Posted: 1/28/2009 4:13:10 PM
The "one" that falls in love....Loses! ........unless both do
 DLo!
Joined: 4/23/2008
Msg: 86 (view)
 
Business Travel and Sex
Posted: 1/28/2009 3:51:15 PM
My company does not care as long as it doesn't interfere with work. (Single or married) My suggestion is, ask your company what the policy is....then ask, is it strictly enforced...ask with a nice big smile of course.
 
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