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 Author Thread: *****CARDIFF MEET 4TH OCT 2008/CF10 2EH******
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 12 (view)
 
*****CARDIFF MEET 4TH OCT 2008/CF10 2EH******
Posted: 9/22/2008 5:40:39 PM
Hmm... I'll come along if I can! :D
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Sweden's Laws against Pet Cruelty
Posted: 9/5/2008 8:18:19 PM
I think these laws can only be a good thing- I don't mind people having pets, but most people don't care for theirs properly.
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Hotel ban for being a soldier..Is this a disgrace or not?
Posted: 9/5/2008 8:17:05 PM
Well, it depends. I wouldn't want to make a general judgement on people in the army, but I certainly wouldn't want them on my property simply for what they represent. They get extra bonuses elsewhere anyway- swings and roundabouts for them, eh.
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 78 (view)
 
A FEW EXTRA POUNDS
Posted: 9/5/2008 8:11:36 PM
I don't know. I personally ignore the 'body type' category completely. Women of almost any size can be attractive; the problem with being overweight is health, not attractiveness. Although personally I have to admit that being enormously fat or thin is equally unattractive, there will always be some exceptions. And by the way, Dawn French is gorgeous.
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Why do men want sexual slaves?
Posted: 8/27/2008 7:55:14 PM
What on earth?!

I've never heard of this. I certainly wouldn't like that.
 LemonVision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 27 (view)
 
cardiff meet/traders tavern pics & comments
Posted: 8/26/2008 9:47:45 AM
Hehe, why not, eh? :D
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 1898 (view)
 
do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 8/25/2008 6:21:56 PM
I can't speak for any other men, but dating a single mother doesn't bother me at all, in itself.
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Have you ever been scared of ...
Posted: 8/25/2008 8:34:50 AM

With a Fifty Percent Divorce rate for decades and relationship
failures MUCH, MUCH worse, you mean to tell me that anyone out
there is actually finding the RIGHT person?


It happens :(

It happens quite a lot actually; certainly often enough for it to be worth trying...
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Have you ever been scared of ...
Posted: 8/25/2008 6:19:48 AM
In my case, no. The emotional pain this can cause is terrible, but it's nothing compared to the possible joy of finding the right person. It's a risk worth taking.
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 71 (view)
 
Would you (a man) sleep with a woman you weren't attracted to?
Posted: 8/24/2008 3:08:08 PM
With any luck, he's joking. Believe me, that really isn't true of most men. Just a few dumb horny ones who give the rest of us a bad name.
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 11 (view)
 
If I like sports more than you do, dealbreaker?
Posted: 8/24/2008 2:57:52 PM
Haha...

Well, I have a friend who is a big supporter of his local football team, so whenever I visit him I go along to the matches with him. I have no interest in the sport myself, but I don't mind being there because I can spend time with my friend. It's not like he does nothing else with his time. I guess it'd be the same way with a girlfriend.
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 107 (view)
 
why do men always want sex so early in a relationship?
Posted: 8/24/2008 2:15:53 PM
Well, I do think there's something pretty unpleasant about sex with someone I don't see myself having a future with... I just couldn't do it. Just a reminder, we're not all like you :S
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Breast Reduction
Posted: 8/24/2008 1:20:44 PM
Implants are far worse, surely?
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 12 (view)
 
If a man has not yet had sex ... is he a VIRGIN?
Posted: 8/24/2008 12:34:51 PM
Haha, thanks (!)

 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Breast Reduction
Posted: 8/24/2008 12:28:55 PM

That said, some guys (don't ask me to explain it, I don't understand) like big tits. They're usually intellectually inferior, so don't worry about their opinions.


Oh my goodness, that's not fair! Preference for things like that is nothing to do with intellect. Some guys like blonde hair, some like dark hair; some like girls who are very tall, others prefer more petite girls. Some like athletic bodies, others prefer curves. There's no difference between finding one characteristic attractive and finding any other attractive! I know plenty of guys who prefer smaller breasts, but they're no more or less intelligent because of it :S

I mean, there's obviously a difference between having an aesthetic preference and being entirely caveman-like about it, but still, you can't be unpleasant about people purely on the grounds of a minor sexual preference :S
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 10 (view)
 
If a man has not yet had sex ... is he a VIRGIN?
Posted: 8/24/2008 12:24:43 PM

For a woman virginity is a great source of honor and respect; for a man virginity is a source of shame.


Nonsense! I don't think either of those statements is true for more than a small subset of the population.
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Breast Reduction
Posted: 8/24/2008 12:19:40 PM
I think guys are pre-programmed to be boob-centric. I don't think they are serious though. On the other hand, most people are fairly stupid about filtering what they think and say.
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 73 (view)
 
If a woman approached you cold asking for your phone number what would you think?
Posted: 8/24/2008 12:13:17 PM
I'd be very pleased, and would consider it a turn on (unless it turned out it was something she did all the time, lol)

But I'd find it very hard to believe it wasn't some kind of joke.
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Are girls into bellybuttons? Guys and/or their own?
Posted: 8/24/2008 12:11:39 PM
Some women are; it's quite rare in both men and women though I think. Personally, I'm a fan!
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 20 (view)
 
why do guys do this to girls?!?
Posted: 8/24/2008 12:03:08 PM
Hmm. Sounds like an excuse to me. Personally, if I consider someone special enough to have sex with, it's worth waiting until it happens naturally. Having sex too soon can cause problems... and I think waiting a while is the best way to make sure you don't accidentally sleep with someone who turns out to be wrong for you :(
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 2 (view)
 
How valid is that Men's Favorite and Least Favorite Topics List
Posted: 8/24/2008 12:00:13 PM
I'm massively offended by number one being sex. You have to be pretty close with someone to discuss a subject like sex; it's really very intimate and private. People who talk openly about their sex lives... it's like talking about your toilet habits. Need to know basis only, please.
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 101 (view)
 
So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on
Posted: 8/24/2008 11:52:41 AM
I'm a bit of a hypocrite on this one; I blame my biology. I would certainly find this a turn on, I simply can't help that, but I would never date the type of girl who looks for attention this way.
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Is getting along with your ex a turn off to a new guy ?
Posted: 8/24/2008 11:50:33 AM
Almost always, yes. To be honest, no matter how well I get on with an ex, I think it's unfair on future partners to stay on good terms with them. On the other hand, my last girlfriend positively encouraged me to talk to and let her talk to my exes, because she got a weird kick out of it. who knows.
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
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If I like sports more than you do, dealbreaker?
Posted: 8/24/2008 11:48:13 AM
Well, shared interests are important, and I don't like sports, so if a person spent most or all of their time on just that one interest we probably wouldn't be compatible. That's perhaps a little harsh though, I certainly wouldn't let an enjoyment of sports count against a person unless it was a really huge part of their life.
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Why do guys give out their phone numbers right away?
Posted: 8/24/2008 11:46:33 AM
Probably guys are just less afraid of bad consequences from doing so.
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 8 (view)
 
If a man has not yet had sex ... is he a VIRGIN?
Posted: 8/24/2008 11:44:55 AM
Yeah; that's the definition of the word
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Why do guys play such games?
Posted: 8/24/2008 11:43:39 AM
Girls do this sort of thing just as much. It's not fair to badmouth our entire gender just because some guys are jerks.
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 22 (view)
 
do men find the nipple piercing attractive?
Posted: 8/24/2008 11:42:25 AM
I don't like nipple piercings, particularly because it means the girl exposed herself to a total stranger in order to get it done... not a good sign.
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 38 (view)
 
What makes men so mean and bitter after break up?
Posted: 8/24/2008 11:40:56 AM
Two words; broken heart. :(
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Do you kiss your girl friends on the lips???
Posted: 8/24/2008 11:40:02 AM
Sounds odd to me. I know it'd upset me if a partner of mine did that sort of thing :S
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 106 (view)
 
why do men always want sex so early in a relationship?
Posted: 8/24/2008 11:37:58 AM
Stop tarring us all with the same brush :(

I'm not like that, and nor are most of the guys I know. I only know one who'd do this, and he'd be honest with the person concerned about his intentions if he did.
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 148 (view)
 
The Challenge is on...Men's opinions are needed!
Posted: 8/24/2008 11:36:16 AM
1. yes

2. no, that's pretty crazy, what numbskull thought that?

3. yes, usually.
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 69 (view)
 
Would you (a man) sleep with a woman you weren't attracted to?
Posted: 8/24/2008 11:35:21 AM
Of course not; how could that possibly be enjoyable??
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 664 (view)
 
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/24/2008 11:34:05 AM
Just a side effect of being attractive I suppose. Let it go; avoid those guys if you want to. I'm afraid that in evolutionary terms, the form of the female breast developed precisely for this reason.
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 19 (view)
 
why do guys do this to girls?!?
Posted: 8/24/2008 11:32:02 AM
Yes, I have to agree with some of the others here; if you sleep with someone that soon, you can't expect much respect. Alarm bells should go off if a guy TRIES to sleep with you that soon; he's obviously not serious.
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 27 (view)
 
I've always wondered ... why do men lie about having sex with a girl?
Posted: 8/24/2008 11:26:34 AM
I've never seen or heard of this happening. I have many male friends and we are all very discreet about such things. We would never discuss such intimate matters so lightly, it's kind of disrespectful to the other person, I think. Women seem to do it all the time though in my experience. Though I still don't recall a person of either gender pretending to have slept with a person when they haven't; though the opposite happens on rare occasions.
 lemonvision
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 25 (view)
 
cardiff meet/traders tavern pics & comments
Posted: 8/24/2008 11:17:16 AM
I'm rather a fan of the Traders myself- good choice!
 
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