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 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 41 (view)
 
How Would You Fix CA?
Posted: 12/10/2011 8:13:15 PM

To where?


Texas
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 39 (view)
 
How Would You Fix CA?
Posted: 12/10/2011 10:23:54 AM
Just move out, abandon ship, the state is sinking fast!
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 10 (view)
 
9 year old boy suspended for calling a teacher (gasp) cute
Posted: 12/6/2011 8:59:49 PM
It's the whole nutty PC business. Sheesh
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 451 (view)
 
He lied about his age...only by two years....should i be concerned?
Posted: 12/6/2011 8:55:01 PM
Check the size of his winkie, he may have lied about that too
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 38 (view)
 
She has lots of friends that I am not meeting...
Posted: 12/6/2011 8:53:04 PM
There is a sign post up ahead; you're about to enter into the stalker zone.....
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Going well then hit the wall
Posted: 12/6/2011 8:50:39 PM

kissed good buy


Bad spelling will kill a relationship quicker than a bullet.......
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 90 (view)
 
Apparently, I'm psycho
Posted: 12/6/2011 8:45:28 PM
You have already diagnosed yourself so why don't you just decide to knock it off? It's cheaper in the long run.
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 11 (view)
 
To me the recession is even worse now
Posted: 12/6/2011 8:40:56 PM
It's about the same as the great depression except you don't see the miles of Okies in their model A Ford pickups headed for California. The govt is to blame big time.
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 7 (view)
 
How to proceed, for lack of signals.
Posted: 11/27/2011 10:06:46 PM
You may be receiving signals SHE is NOT sending. That vertical antenna in your trousers is not the most reliable at your age.
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Double dater....How would you feel?
Posted: 11/27/2011 9:50:40 PM
It's about time to throw two or three more guys into the mix and make things more interesting.
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 955 (view)
 
Occupy Wall Street
Posted: 11/27/2011 9:44:54 PM
Liberals rail against BIG business but if given any opportunity, they will inevitably vote to make the GOVERNMENT even BIGGER!!! That monster you guys are busy feeding is going to devour us all in the end.

 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 78 (view)
 
Is Liberalism or Conservatism Morally Superior? And Why?
Posted: 11/27/2011 9:28:11 PM
The idea of giving individuals the greatest amount of freedom is a morally superior concept over having the nanny state influence our lives from womb to tomb. Conservatives and the founding fathers promoted the former, liberals the latter.
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 18 (view)
 
friends or lovers
Posted: 11/17/2011 9:20:41 PM
you're jumping from the frying pan into the fire
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 26 (view)
 
What am I doing? I think ive lost it.
Posted: 11/16/2011 9:57:46 PM
^^^^^^

2 profiles but it's the same guy.
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 74 (view)
 
Polygamy..
Posted: 11/15/2011 7:57:13 PM

I specifically said in my Op that I do not condone such things. Nor does the law. And again, such behaviour is NOT synonymous with polygamy.


In many cases young girls are coerced into polygamy, that is a fact. There are states where girls under 14 can LEGALLY get married. There are cases where a mother AND her daughter are both "married" to the same man.

Perhaps on a philosophical plane these things wouldn't happen with polygamy but in REALITY they DO happen.
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 66 (view)
 
Polygamy..
Posted: 11/15/2011 7:07:16 AM

not all polygamists are created equal, nor should they be held accountable for the behaviour of a few who paint their lifestyle as depraved.


Unfortunately we live in a society where being "non judgmental" incorrectly confers some kind of moral superiority when the exact opposite is true.

You cannot be a moral person without knowing what is moral behavior. Some adult men would like to have sex with teenage girls. Some teenage girls would like that too. However that doesn't make it right.

A man having multiple wives means that none of the women have the fullness of a traditional marriage. They are being cheated out of having an exclusive relationship. They may think they are OK with that, but they are being short changed.
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Would you retire with $800k?
Posted: 11/15/2011 6:30:45 AM
I think you should still work. I've seen people retire early and it isn't pretty. They die before their time.
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 8 (view)
 
advice please - I have a two year old and I want to start dating
Posted: 11/15/2011 6:27:05 AM
I would keep all dates away from your child unless you are going to marry them.
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 48 (view)
 
She was looking for LTR, but has a FWB on the side?
Posted: 11/15/2011 6:24:37 AM

I view these arrangments as something to do when you are not actively dating...not something to do in between dates.


Very well put indeed. OTOH, I'm not into the whole FWB thing. If someone told me that I'd be out of there faster than a jack rabbit on a date.
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 28 (view)
 
He lied about his age...?
Posted: 11/15/2011 6:17:31 AM

If he would lie about something like his age just to get his own way with women, what else do you think he might forget to tell you just so he can have everything his way??


The size of his winkie????????

How many women do not lie about their weight?????? Case closed...Next!
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 8 (view)
 
The art of shutting emotions off
Posted: 11/15/2011 5:53:38 AM
The real question is how do you feel about it now. If you think you did the right thing, then why worry? If you miss the guy and think you were hasty then contact him.

Sometimes people have a crisis and the energy required to deal with it depletes them.
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Blinded by texting
Posted: 11/14/2011 12:11:02 AM
Call him and suggest a time and place that works for you. Run through your calendars until you hit upon when you are both available. It's really that simple.
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 69 (view)
 
Is This Guy Serious?
Posted: 11/14/2011 12:04:13 AM
You should probably join a co ed bowling league or a group activity where you meet people your age. The guy sounds immature and probably doesn't know a good thing when he sees it.
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 54 (view)
 
I'm sorry, but I have to ask.....
Posted: 11/13/2011 11:34:43 PM
You never know how much pain people are feeling. Some people hide it well.

Back in the day a friend of mine was talking about how this girl broke his heart. He was renting a room and the girl was the land lady's daughter.

At the time, I didn't take much notice because we were about 22 and those things happened frequently. In my wisdom I said something like "there are more fish in the sea"

Over the weekend, this sweet kid committed suicide. I went to the funeral and there was the girl who sent him over the edge. I thought she would be a real beauty or exceptional in some way. She seemed very ordinary, a plain Jane with red hair and freckles. I got the impression that his passing didn't mean that much to her.

However to my friend she meant everything. I regret to this day that I didn't take more time talking it out with him. Compassion is easy to give and it may give someone solace in a time of grief.
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 383 (view)
 
Women that wear too much makeup at our age....
Posted: 11/13/2011 11:14:35 PM
It's a touchy subject. No man can broach this topic unless he wants a good a$$ kicking.

 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 11 (view)
 
He called me to criticize me
Posted: 11/13/2011 3:16:49 PM
The man is a jerk, just block him and forget about it.
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 1050 (view)
 
Haiku Connection - Part IV
Posted: 11/13/2011 9:40:22 AM
Everyone is here.
welcome to the big party
who is the drunk girl?
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Can a LTR be successful when not planning for the future?
Posted: 11/13/2011 8:53:50 AM
From the information you provided, it seems very UNlikely that this will work out for the long term.
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 309 (view)
 
Proper ladies don`t go out alone!
Posted: 11/13/2011 8:30:14 AM

i do think there is a perception about a woman eating out alone. many men think the woman is looking to get laid, which is really really annoying because i see men out alone all the time.


They are most likely looking to GET laid, hence the problem.
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 23 (view)
 
I'm Sure this has Happened to Many People . . .
Posted: 11/12/2011 10:48:31 PM
I have no idea why this man continues to pursue you. You really have no interest in meeting this man, otherwise you would have done so by now. He deserves better, cut him loose.
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Don't know what this Guy is Thinking
Posted: 11/12/2011 5:30:43 PM
This is like deja vu; except the last time, I was 15 taking drivers ed with this cute girl.

Hello? This is not how adults behave. Call the guy and apologize for your friends rudeness and offer to take him out to make up for it. Sheesh, youth is wasted on the young!
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Ironic...
Posted: 11/12/2011 5:04:18 PM
You just have to let it go. Focus on something in your life or something new.
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 30 (view)
 
A piece of me died when you left....
Posted: 11/12/2011 4:51:26 PM
Life is like a vapor. We are only here for a short time, too short for regrets.
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Perv or interested?
Posted: 11/12/2011 7:38:48 AM
Even nice men are MEN. If you want otherwise, date a nice house plant.
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Gettting no where with this site?
Posted: 11/11/2011 6:11:08 PM
Go to the profile review section and make a post. There are some professional profile doctors there who can give you a makeover. In the meanwhile try to have fun and don't push too hard. Women can smell desperate like stink off a skunk!
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 24 (view)
 
My latest experience on POF...
Posted: 11/11/2011 6:05:25 PM
Don't be too hard on yourself hon, everyone makes mistakes. The first time I hitchhiked I used the wrong finger ...........
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 25 (view)
 
what is the deal breaker in any relationship, would you leave or try to work it out first?
Posted: 11/11/2011 5:58:31 PM
Someone who is high maintenance who thinks they are low maintenance
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 40 (view)
 
What is an NSA relationship?
Posted: 11/11/2011 5:50:26 PM
NSA= No Socialists Allowed!
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Not single at all
Posted: 11/11/2011 5:49:27 PM
Stop dating Bull Clinton!
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 34 (view)
 
Could my new boyfriend be gay?
Posted: 11/11/2011 5:47:41 PM
Check the gaydar meter.

It works both ways. I knew a guy who was a man's man, always making comments about women like "Oh she's so hot!". I came to find out he is gay as all get out and has been living with a man for years. I am still in disbelief, but it's the truth.
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Obama is an utter failure.
Posted: 11/10/2011 9:01:36 PM

President Obama is one of the best presidents we have ever had


The instrument has yet to be invented that can measure my indifference to that remark.
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 141 (view)
 
The Single Greatest Problem Damaging All American Politics
Posted: 11/10/2011 8:53:30 PM
One of the biggest problems in America is our ignorance. We fail to see how far we have gone off track. People are content as long as they have a beer, a flat screen tv and a rapidly depreciating SUV.

Our collective brains are non operational and we actually listen to talking heads reading off teleprompters like they have something worthwhile to say.

Even an easy chair with an ejector seat is not enough to get us out there to vote. On the other hand if we do vote, we are sucked in by people who if they were not running for office would be selling bad used cars in east jabip. We don't even have the sagacity to realize we are getting taken in by bad liars.

Being lazy intellectually and every other way has become the norm. If ronco invented an automatic a$$ wiper we would order it with a mouse click. We need some major cosmic, dope slaps doled out with Moe Howard like precision or a patriotic proctologist to pull our heads out of the abyss.
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Obama is an utter failure.
Posted: 11/10/2011 8:11:45 PM
The founding fathers are spinning in their graves so rapidly that they are making the flutter of a humming birds wings look like continental drift in comparison.
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 356 (view)
 
If you could do it again: Would you vote for Obama Today?
Posted: 11/10/2011 8:04:08 PM
It's sad to watch really. We have a run of the mill Marxist in the white house. It's like an a communist episode of the three stooges except it's Obama, Biden and Pelosi..."Hey Moe I mean Obama, we're stim U latin' the economy nyuk, nyuk, nyuk!!
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Reality
Posted: 11/10/2011 7:49:14 PM
You have to stop putting pressure on yourself to find someone. Just enjoy your life and someone will come along
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 93 (view)
 
She brings up politics in conversation, how to avoid/counter?
Posted: 11/9/2011 8:21:42 PM
I think religion and politics ARE the very topics that should be discussed early on. You can go James Bond and find out these things without asking direct questions.
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Is all of history one big lie?
Posted: 11/9/2011 8:04:37 PM
History is available for the reading. If you want it to be real, read source materials not some rehashed, regurgitated, baloney. If you want the facts dig deep.
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Statements in profiles that make you say NEXT!
Posted: 11/9/2011 7:53:22 PM
" I always tell the truth" = I think everyone needs ME to straighten them out.
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 27 (view)
 
No to Third Date & Break Up
Posted: 11/8/2011 10:08:56 PM
^^^^^^^

Sounds like a good plan
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Trying to understand
Posted: 11/8/2011 9:56:43 PM
I am going to be the one to point out that maybe the guy was telling the truth. He looked into his future and saw that he would be fighting with you over your ex. Who needs that?

why would your ex volunteer to fix your car for free? Why would you want to accept such an offer?
 
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