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 Author Thread: Why is it so difficult to actually meetup with thr girls who's phone numbers you get off here??
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Why is it so difficult to actually meetup with thr girls who's phone numbers you get off here??
Posted: 8/7/2013 5:34:56 PM
7. They're actually dudes just hoping you'll text them a picture of your junk.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 116 (view)
 
Would You Go To A Wedding Dateless?
Posted: 6/9/2013 9:34:19 PM
Absolutely I would go to a wedding dateless. I'm heading to one in less than a week. I've been to quite a few dateless, because if I'm not serious with a woman, I'm not inviting her to a wedding of one of my friends. I'm going to be so busy trying to catch up with so many old friends, that entertaining a date who doesn't know anybody would be a drag if the relationship isn't serious.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 84 (view)
 
So he/she USED to be Gay/Lesbian! Would you still date them?
Posted: 6/5/2013 8:16:44 PM

Putting yourself (men/women) in the woman's shoes, How would you react to such an announcement? Did the woman over-react in this scenario?


I would encourage my erstwhile partner to return to therapy. Only this time, I would advise her towards a therapist that has her best interests in mind. She would have most likely been a victim of right wing cultists' gay conversion treatment, which does more harm than good, and I would rather her find happiness with a woman than dissatisfaction with me.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 73 (view)
 
why do women play hard to get in online dating? its a reason your on here!
Posted: 4/18/2013 11:01:44 PM
Not being interested is not equal to "play[ing] hard to get," OP.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 308 (view)
 
Beards??? What is going on?
Posted: 4/9/2013 11:58:41 PM
Let us not forget Luke Hancock, who, through his beard, led Louisville to a National Championship.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 24 (view)
 
bringing your kids on a first date?
Posted: 4/3/2013 9:47:30 PM
Well, at least you know what your "friend" thinks of you now; that you should be desperate enough to date any woman she gives your number to.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Why do girls stop replying?
Posted: 3/5/2013 8:32:11 PM

Why do girls stop replying?


Because they're no longer interested.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Why do we fall for the guy/girl who hurts us?
Posted: 2/16/2013 1:33:28 AM

Am I strange or do others find themself in my situation where we fall for the guy/girl that keeps hurting our feelings? I know I do this but I can't seem to get past the attraction to a guy who pretty much makes me feel like crap. I'm a confident person but I find myself drawn to guys who brings out my insecurities. Am I crazy? I've been trying to figure out why it is that I do this. Anyone have any clue?


People want what they can't have.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 37 (view)
 
What would you do if your gf/bf judged you by every single move you made on Facebook?
Posted: 2/5/2013 9:57:16 PM

What would you do if your gf/bf judged you by every single move you made on Facebook?


Dump her.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 19 (view)
 
My critique on some chivalrous gestures
Posted: 12/16/2012 11:20:00 PM
1. I'm with other posters. I'll hold the door for anyone coming in through behind me. Where I'm from that seems to be a pretty common courtesy. If I'm on a date, I'll hold the door if I can get to it first. If she does, I'm content to follow her through the door.

2. I'll defer to my date. However, when it comes to, say, climbing up a ladder at work, we're all equal.

3. I don't smoke, and I'd rather my date didn't either.

4. If she's cold, I'll giver her my coat.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 34 (view)
 
Small town, no one local on Pof... what now?
Posted: 12/12/2012 9:30:47 PM

Female
Age between 28 and 40.
Live within 75 miles.
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
You must have a picture to contact this user.
Must not be looking for Hang Out
Must not be looking for Talk/E-mail
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Dating
Must not be looking for Friendship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not be looking for Activity Partner
Must not do drugs
Must not be married
Must not smoke


I think I see your problem.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 17 (view)
 
ring on right hand
Posted: 12/6/2012 7:20:18 PM
I always thought that wearing the ring on the right hand signified being widowed. I guess there are some other reasons, too.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Going public (tweeting) about online dating
Posted: 10/5/2012 12:43:07 PM
Could you email me his handle? I'd like to place a large bet on the under.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 124 (view)
 
A Man With No Wheels
Posted: 10/1/2012 6:15:59 PM
It seems there are two different camps among the women in this thread: those that don't want to date a man without a car and those who don't want to date a man without transportation. The former is likely the result of being life-long suburban and rural living combined with the inability to grasp that living elsewhere might have different requirements. The latter is fully understandable. But the way I look at it is: if you have money for a taxi, you've got a car. If you have money for a rental car, you've got a car. You don't own the car, but hey, if you don't need that kind of transportation much anyways, what's the point in making a car payment, insurance payment, or taxes on something you use less than once a week?
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Girl disappears for two months then messages me
Posted: 9/24/2012 7:06:45 PM
If you want to try to sleep with her before she runs back to her ex-boyfriend, do it. If not, find another girl.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Dead, in jail, or just uninterested?
Posted: 9/14/2012 7:30:25 PM
What if she was so uninterested, she got herself arrested, whereupon being in jail, she got shanked.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Settling vs compromising
Posted: 9/5/2012 6:58:03 PM
I don't necessarily think you should settle, but you should be self-aware enough to separate the required from the "would be nice to have."
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Poor Guy Dating Rich Woman
Posted: 9/5/2012 6:55:53 PM
Hey, even if they hate you, she could like to piss off her dad.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Dude, what if she has/had a penis?... o.O
Posted: 8/16/2012 6:22:02 PM
You're probably more likely to accidentally pick up a transsexual in a bar than online, since I've seen quite a few online profiles that come out and say it, but I've probably ogled women in a bar and had no idea they were transsexual.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 23 (view)
 
How does a city slicker date in a country world?
Posted: 7/14/2012 5:36:47 PM
You're not in the country. You're in Bowling Green. It ain't the big city, but it sure as heck ain't a one-horse town. Join some local groups. If that fails, you're an hour away from Nashville. Spend some time there.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Mens toys
Posted: 6/24/2012 5:06:59 PM
Heck move to Nashville. Seems like 1/2 the woman whose profiles I read list 4-wheeling as an interest. Actually, you would probably want to move to just outside Nashville, but you know what I'm saying.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 26 (view)
 
She just wants to be friends for now. Is there hope?
Posted: 6/17/2012 9:49:29 PM
No, there is no hope.

http://xkcd.com/513/
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 39 (view)
 
What should you do if you find your boyfried created a POF profile
Posted: 6/17/2012 8:00:33 PM
I don't think we want to tell them to break up, because then there's be a chance that they would afflict themselves on good people.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 80 (view)
 
Is it possible to be too nice?
Posted: 6/13/2012 10:46:49 AM
This goes for men and women:
Being nice is attractive. People assume that's synonymous with being a pushover, which is not attractive. Or, rather, is only attractive to the wrong type of people.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 56 (view)
 
Giving a guy flowers....
Posted: 6/12/2012 12:15:12 AM

Nothing wrong with giving a guy flowers. It's the thought that counts, right?

I would say guys that have a problem receiving them are probably insecure.


Pretty much this.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Chuck Norris Jokes
Posted: 6/5/2012 6:49:36 PM
Chuck Norris wears a ribbed condom inside out for HIS pleasure.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 32 (view)
 
I feel awkward, she's bringing her brother to a date...what to do
Posted: 6/4/2012 4:54:38 AM
Op it appears the approiate thing to do is,....

Bring your sister ..!!


You beat me to it. I think it's the only course of action.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 433 (view)
 
Dating Someone With A High IQ
Posted: 5/28/2012 3:11:42 AM
Street smart is the politically correct way to say dumb.

That said, an IQ test is also dumb. All standardized tests are pretty dumb.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 67 (view)
 
MEET ME @ WALMART!!! LMFAO ;0)
Posted: 5/27/2012 7:45:20 PM
As a classy gentleman, I always ask my dates to meet me at Target. Hey, it could have been worse; he could have asked you to meet him at K-mart.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Ever met a man that appeared gay?? But was looking for a woman?
Posted: 4/30/2012 9:09:06 AM
I've never met Tom Cruise, if that's what she's asking.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 43 (view)
 
How Old Are You 12!
Posted: 4/18/2012 4:29:22 PM
OP, it could be that he's scared of labels, commitment, etc..., but I suspect he's acting that way because you're not the only woman he's dating. You can decide for yourself if that bothers you or not, but you need to ask because if he is, for the sake of your own health, and make sure you always use protection.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 18 (view)
 
I have no idea how to pursue this man. Help?
Posted: 3/11/2012 1:08:43 AM

He's a 61 year old, NEVER BEEN MARRIED, evangelical Christian. How on EARTH do I go about letting this man know I'm interested? He's a longtime single, and he's a hard core Christian. None of my usual tactics will work! If he's 61 and never been married, perhaps he isn't interested in getting to know a woman? And even if he is, what on earth would he do with a 35 year old?


Maybe he's gay. He could also be asexual.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 41 (view)
 
Just say NO to the friend zone
Posted: 2/29/2012 10:42:23 PM
Man, I think we need to retire the term "Friends' Zone," if for no other reason than if you're pursuing a friendship with somebody because you're hoping they'll eventually fall for you, you're not really being a friend.

I think xkcd.com has the right of it:

http://xkcd.com/513/
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Breaking up with suicidal/depressed girlfriend who cuts?
Posted: 2/26/2012 10:30:12 PM
If she calls you threatening to commit suicide, like others have said, call the authorities in her city and report it. Also, to add something to conversation, if she lives in the dorm at her college, you could try to get in touch with student life office, and tell them about it. I don't know if this is legal or not, but it would be something I would do.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 61 (view)
 
ladies' night is dumb
Posted: 2/25/2012 5:38:51 PM
I don't go to so-called "Ladies' Night" at bars. I much prefer heading out with a couple of friends to the various 2-for-1 happy hours that occur near me. Sometimes you can get 2-for-1 beers all night if you hit up the right bar.

Then again, I have no game, so I'm not expecting to get anything outside of a couple of good draft beers in any case.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Hiding dating profile when engaged
Posted: 2/25/2012 5:14:20 PM
So, OP, if this so concerns you, why is your profile not hidden? And your marital status by no means indicates that you aren't single, also.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Am I Overreacting?
Posted: 2/19/2012 10:38:52 AM

Personally, I want to beat the shit out of him, but that won't solve anything.


This would be overreacting, and like you said, wouldn't solve anything. I'm with the other posters. The best advice I can give is don't date 21 year-old girls.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 69 (view)
 
When guys get cocky
Posted: 2/15/2012 5:57:52 AM
I tend to get**** after I shoot down pursuing TIE-fighters.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Asking for rent money after 2 weeks? Am i in the wrong?
Posted: 2/14/2012 8:27:05 AM
You were wrong paying the rent for a woman you've been dating for two weeks in the first place. Then again, there is something less than gentlemanly in withdrawing a previous offer for help. As the old adage says, if you loan a friend money and then never see her again, it was probably well spent.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Military guys !
Posted: 2/14/2012 8:18:08 AM
Well, you live in Clarksville, TN. Of course you're going to see a bunch of military guy profiles. I live in Nashville, and my settings are such that when I search, I see some profiles of military gals. Thank you, Fort Campbell.

OP, you're 20; guys your age often don't want a relationship whether or not they're in the military. Also if you know you're gonna get shipped overseas in a few months or a year, wouldn't that uncertainty wear on your desire for a long-term relationship? Also, looking for: friends? You're not going to get guys looking for a long-term relationship emailing you with that status. You're going to get guys looking for hook-ups. To be fair, you're still going to get guys emailing you for hook-ups whatever your looking for is.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Sex without tits!
Posted: 2/10/2012 4:51:24 AM
OP, you never copped an over- or under-the-shirt feel? Really?
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 16 (view)
 
help me please,dating awhile but think he is still looking
Posted: 2/8/2012 12:26:05 PM
So that means that you are, in fact single?

How YOU doin'?

I kid, of course.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 108 (view)
 
now I have herpes
Posted: 2/6/2012 10:11:09 PM

Herpes viruses cycle between periods of active disease—presenting as blisters containing infectious virus particles—that last 2–21 days, followed by a remission period. Genital herpes, however, is often asymptomatic, though viral shedding may still occur. After initial infection, the viruses are transported along sensory nerves to the sensory nerve cell bodies, where they become latent and reside life-long. Causes of recurrence are uncertain, though some potential triggers have been identified, including immunosuppressant drugs (see below). The previously latent virus then multiplies new virus particles in the nerve cell and these are transported along the axon of each neuron to the nerve terminals in the skin, where they are released. Over time, episodes of active disease reduce in frequency and severity.

Herpes simplex is most easily transmitted by direct contact with a lesion or the body fluid of an infected individual. Transmission may also occur through skin-to-skin contact during periods of asymptomatic shedding. Barrier protection methods are the most reliable method of preventing transmission of herpes, but they merely reduce rather than eliminate risk.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Herpes
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Three years of friendship..down the drain?
Posted: 2/4/2012 4:54:47 AM

About a month ago, we slept together. After that we agreed to not continue as it might complicate our friendship..


Well, it looks like it's done just that.


Obviously we don't mention anything about what happened between us, but he did say that he would never sleep with someone here (in this particular country) unless he had no respect for them...

He said if he had any respect for the person, he'd only bring her outside the country before he would even attempt to sleep with her...


Frankly, I think he was talking shit to impress his buddy. They may even have some kind of inside joke.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 253 (view)
 
We talked about weight, well, what about height? :-)
Posted: 1/30/2012 2:55:42 AM
The heart wants what it wants. People are entitled to prefer whatever they want in a partner. I looked up the numbers to satisfy my own curiosity after reading some of the posts in the thread. Average heights had already been posted, but really, distribution really tells you more. It's too bad that I couldn't find a graphical form of the data. Myself, I'm between 5'7" and 5'11" depending on which convenience store I'm leaving...
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 251 (view)
 
We talked about weight, well, what about height? :-)
Posted: 1/30/2012 2:09:31 AM
Well, for adults age 20+ in the U.S.

Women
50th percentile--63.8 in
10th-90th percentile--60.3-67.2 in

Men
50th percentile--69.4 in
10th-90th percentile--65.6-73.2 in

Source:
http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr010.pdf

I give the 10-90 percentiles because listing an average height is useless without knowing the distributions.

For men, 71.5-72.6 in is the 75th-85th percentile.

So that implies somewhat between 25 and 15 percent of dudes are taller than 6 ft. Given the nature of bell-curves, that number is probably on the lower side of 20%.

Hope this helps.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 53 (view)
 
paying for dinner
Posted: 1/28/2012 6:32:51 AM

BUT I think he should tell her before they go out. If she is a understanding lady she wont mind paying for dinner when he cant.[\quote]

If for no other reason than she makes sure to bring cash or a credit card.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 175 (view)
 
Dating East Indian Men
Posted: 1/23/2012 3:52:25 PM
Anecdotal evidence, but most of the Indian guys I know are fairly progressive, polite, handsome, and well-dressed. Not to mention, they're in good careers or career paths (graduate and medical school, mostly).
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Mixed Messages
Posted: 1/14/2012 3:26:03 AM
The only dating advice I've ever heard that's worth a damn is if you like a woman (man) ask her (him) out.
 quarked
Joined: 5/23/2008
Msg: 27 (view)
 
gift certificates used on a date
Posted: 1/6/2012 5:47:44 PM
Seriously, tell him to take her bowling or something on a first date. Later he can say, "Hey, my uncle got me this Olive Garden Gift Card, want to go sometime?" If he wants to do dinner with her, he should take her that cool local pizza or burger place.
 
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