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 Author Thread: For those that have been married before - would you do it again?
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 54 (view)
 
For those that have been married before - would you do it again?
Posted: 8/21/2008 9:24:07 PM
I would do it again but would have to be really sure the girl really, really loves me this time. It is a great feeling when someone really wants to be with you.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 66 (view)
 
How long does it take men to fall in love?
Posted: 8/21/2008 9:16:57 PM
If you really feel "it" then it happens quickly.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 55 (view)
 
Am i being taken for a ride?
Posted: 8/18/2008 1:38:33 AM
Will men drive 2 hours for a booty call? The answer is.............YES THEY WILL!!!!!


DUMP THE BUM
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Guys who want to hang out spur of the moment at the start of a relationship...
Posted: 8/18/2008 1:23:26 AM
Sometimes hanging out is just hanging out , they enjoy your company. Why would you not just make it clear that you would not be comfortable if he is expecting sex by saying "hanging out". It is very expensive to constantly go out and hanging out at home or your home can be fun and inexpensive. Contrary to popular beliefs most of us don't have a secret girlfriend or wife, some of us are even honest, who wouda thunk it?lol.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 22 (view)
 
How long do you usually wait before meeting up with somebody you meet on POF?
Posted: 8/14/2008 5:21:35 PM
LAYING LOW? That is just more games. Why cant people just be honest, either meet in a safe place or tell him you really don't see it happening. If you don't want to meet someone then why are you here with a profile?
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 44 (view)
 
What's up with this?
Posted: 8/14/2008 5:17:52 PM
The paying for almost half of dates is not a problem but the rest of the stuff makes him come off as a jerk , not a nice guy. I am more in to thank you than please myself, I would rater appreciate something after someone does something for me. As far as holding doors and staying with you till we get to a table, thats just good behavior. I would love it if you drove but would not expect it all the time. HE certainly does not appreciate you.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 184 (view)
 
Non-Religious Person dating a Jehovah's Witness
Posted: 8/14/2008 5:11:36 PM
run away as fast as you can, TROUBLE AHEAD!!!!
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Advice about midlife crisis/commitmentphobic
Posted: 8/14/2008 5:08:57 PM
He is a lucky guy and evidently does not know it. Find someone that wants to give you the love that you want, he is out there.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 406 (view)
 
Dinner Date - Who Pays?
Posted: 8/14/2008 5:02:55 PM
I don't think dating should cost one of you any more than the other. Now that most all woman work and compete in most all professions there is no reason why the guy should pay all the time. That said, most women that I have gone with never even glanced at the check even if it was their idea to go out. We are both usually workers with bills and responsibilities and it is not being cheap for dates to be a shared cost. I went out with a woman one time and it was her idea to meet and she made 3 or 4 times my salary and she did not even look at the check. This mind set of a free evening out all the time for you girls should not be the norm anymore. You girls wanted equality, remember?
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 15 (view)
 
How long does it take to know if a new relationship is going to last ?
Posted: 8/14/2008 4:57:28 PM
It you have gotten past a couple of months or so and he or she has not shown their psychotic side you are probably all right,lol.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 11 (view)
 
No Women Seems Interested....
Posted: 8/14/2008 4:55:25 PM
you are not alone, getting some of these women to meet you is like pulling teeth, they get way more emails and offers than we do.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Exclusive after three dates
Posted: 8/14/2008 4:53:18 PM
If a couple meets and it clicks real good on both sides why would they want to see others? I have had the " click" thing a few times in my life and it is fun and I would never had looked for others while seeing if it worked out. As far as emotions involved in a budding relationship, we have the same wants and needs as you girls but younger men usually don't verbalize it as much to you.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 23 (view)
 
The Bus Theory or animal instinct?
Posted: 8/14/2008 4:49:04 PM
Just the way things happen hon. Look on the bright side, it your current boyfriend does not work out you can dig out all the emails from all those guys.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 24 (view)
 
physical attraction or not,or is he just messing with my head.
Posted: 8/14/2008 4:45:22 PM
I agree with the counseling others have suggested.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 24 (view)
 
should i give him a chance?
Posted: 8/14/2008 4:39:35 PM
go for it babe, life is short so ya better have fun while ya can.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 81 (view)
 
Must be college educated?
Posted: 8/14/2008 4:38:01 PM
It is usually women that make that requirement and they are closing out a lot of men that she may find intelligent and personable. Huked on foniks werked fer me,lololololol
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Knowitallism
Posted: 8/14/2008 4:18:11 PM
I certainly believe most people know more with age, especially if you have made a ton of mistakes and you read a lot. I also think we may come off as know it alls to kids because we know who we are and what we believe in by this time in our life and it is very hard to get us to change who we are or what we believe in. We generally know what works and what doesn't and are not as idealistic as youth. The more you know the MORE you understand.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Money Subject... Again :rolleyes:
Posted: 8/14/2008 4:13:21 PM
I will have to live on SS and retirement from the county govt I work for but I don't think I will be able to retire until my upper sixties. I want to pay my house off before then and if I can do that I think I will be OK. Now if I could find Ms. Wonderful and she has some bucks,lol.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 55 (view)
 
love vs. in love REALLY need a guys opinion on this case.
Posted: 8/10/2008 7:48:28 PM
If you stop seeing him for a short time for him to think he will realize whether he is in love with you or you are his booty call.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Why - lack of information?
Posted: 8/10/2008 7:28:51 PM
I am older and not clueless, don't judge us all by your emails. I communicate well and you never have to wonder what I am thinking, I will tell you. There are a lot of people online with a lot of problems from their past and I have met a few. I wish I could find an easy going, heavy baggage free, trusting, attractive woman to spend my life with, now that is hard to find.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Would you ask out your ex's best friend?
Posted: 8/10/2008 7:16:35 PM
not much of a friend
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Do men worry about appearing needy?
Posted: 8/10/2008 7:04:10 PM
What is needy? Wanting to be with her? Loving her too much? I have been guilty. Not giving her space, not respecting her privacy, stalking her. I have not been guilty of those.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 6 (view)
 
When beginning dating, how often should we see each other??
Posted: 8/10/2008 6:55:59 PM
whatever feels right for BOTH of you .
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 41 (view)
 
Compatibility vs Instant Chemistry?
Posted: 8/10/2008 6:55:20 PM
I do read the profile unless it is as long as a novel. Chemistry is nice and if you also share a lot of interests I would find that wonderful and you would be a keeper. It there is no chemistry I don't see what the point is.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 132 (view)
 
The Challenge is on...Men's opinions are needed!
Posted: 8/10/2008 6:53:10 PM
If you put friend then I would probably not contact because I would figure you don't want to find love, I do.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Your sexual detail
Posted: 8/10/2008 6:50:50 PM
we don't usually go into as much detail.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 603 (view)
 
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/10/2008 6:50:04 PM
I actually like small breasted women. We all look hon but try not to be noticed. It is biological.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 72 (view)
 
How bad is it to show up at the door unannounced?
Posted: 8/10/2008 6:47:51 PM
You can stop by and see me anytime babe, you are a cutie.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 453 (view)
 
Do Christian Women Scare You Off ???
Posted: 8/10/2008 6:45:49 PM
Yes, I went with a very religious woman a few months and I got tired of knowing she thinks I am going to hell.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Why do guys automatically say bad things about you when you're in a bad mood?
Posted: 8/10/2008 6:44:49 PM
if you are in a bad mood and being impolite then what do you expect from him really? When in a bad "mood" at work do you treat them differently?
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 287 (view)
 
why dont men date pregnant women?
Posted: 8/10/2008 6:39:27 PM
did someone really ask this question?
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 74 (view)
 
My ex says ALL guys are dogs, is this true?
Posted: 8/10/2008 6:35:46 PM
I am not a dog, period. Dogs actually love you unconditionally,lol All of us are not bad guys. Wish I could find a girl without heavy baggage and attractive to my eyes.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Read, but not deleted... Interested?
Posted: 8/10/2008 6:28:37 PM
I don't always delete things right away, no reason really.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 28 (view)
 
how can I get him to use viagra or cialis
Posted: 8/10/2008 6:26:30 PM
he is very inconsiderate of your wants and needs. Sex is very important to you and he should work on this problem with you or he does not deserve you. I have the opposite problem, I last too long sometimes. Some women like it and some don't.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 41 (view)
 
does virginity among todays women exist anymore?
Posted: 8/10/2008 6:22:42 PM
what's a virgin?lol
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Young + Older vs. Older+ Younger
Posted: 8/10/2008 6:21:43 PM
I am 55 and usually like women a few years younger than myself. You have to remember that at this age some look young and some look very old. I like small women so the pickins are slim in the 40s and 50s.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 13 (view)
 
I need advice or opinions please.
Posted: 8/10/2008 6:17:39 PM
guess what? when it doesn't work, it doesn't work.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Guys, a question for you
Posted: 8/10/2008 6:15:35 PM
most women are OK in bed but some women are just fun, fun, fun. They take a more active in the lovemaking and smile and laugh a lot and just enjoy it and these type usually orgasm a lot. The last girl I was dating was like that, sex was great but the moody thing ruined it.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 62 (view)
 
Would you date a woman that's taller than you
Posted: 8/10/2008 6:11:56 PM
definitely would love too, most tall women want tall me though, according to their profiles on most sites I have read.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Do I stick this out?
Posted: 8/10/2008 6:09:48 PM
I have had the same problems with my choices in women as you guy. I have been married 3 times and 2 were cheaters and not sure but think the last one was too. I am trying to change the type of woman I seek. 27 years is a lot of difference in age and he probably thinks a lot about this and how old he would be when you are in your thirties.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 81 (view)
 
Why do guys start dating so soon after breaking up?
Posted: 8/10/2008 6:01:50 PM
lonely maybe? I don't think it makes any difference. If you are single then you are single,period.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 154 (view)
 
Athletic or A Few Extra Pounds
Posted: 8/10/2008 5:59:20 PM
and the "average" body type can be a lot bigger than I thought average was,lol.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Why guys want to meet right away?
Posted: 8/10/2008 5:51:26 PM
we also get tired of being online looking and want to go out and enjoy ourselves with you.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Why guys want to meet right away?
Posted: 8/10/2008 5:47:33 PM
We want to meet because we know that in person is really the only way to get to know the real you. I have talked to people on the phone and online and when we met it did not work for one of us. The biggest question is, why not meet?
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 99 (view)
 
When You Don't Try To Get Into Her Pants
Posted: 8/10/2008 5:44:59 PM
probably do not want to scare her off, some women hate it when you hit on them too quickly and others want you to. You have to play it by ear.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 56 (view)
 
what do guys think is the worse thing a guy can do?
Posted: 8/10/2008 5:34:27 PM
not being honest with me. I hate for women to lie to me.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 216 (view)
 
Are too many favorites a turn off?
Posted: 8/10/2008 5:32:13 PM
yeah, too many favorites are a turn off to me. Makes me feel like you probably get so many emails you might not even read mine or compare me to way too many people.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 87 (view)
 
The talk
Posted: 8/10/2008 5:28:24 PM
I only like dating one girl at a time.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 131 (view)
 
why aren't men more open to anal play?
Posted: 8/10/2008 5:19:35 PM
it just plain old does not turn us on, period.
 STH III
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Connection
Posted: 8/10/2008 5:02:22 PM
not often do you meet a real connection. She last connection was with a girl I met on here and she was a lot of fun, thats the good news. The bad news is her moodiness and non trusting self. Even good chemistry can have flaws.
 
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