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 ann2H20
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Recently Had A Bad Date
Posted: 2/9/2013 10:12:15 AM
oooooh, grasshoppuh....you are so learned....

we do that! true story. At least some of us. Just like dogs, only not sniffing...well, you know. But, we're checking out our environment, for various reasons-- his man cave tells all, about him, his friends, his lover(s)(?), his abilities to maintain said cave. Of course the female, she has her own agendas-- some make sure they are aware of and near the exit; some sniff for other female presence; some just want to sit on the comfy sofa and be queen for an evening. It's up to the male to read her, learn her. Hence, the fun of the dance! Look at it that way-- you're not climbing a mountain, you're exploring a new package that just arrived, that reads "handle with care". :)
 ann2H20
Joined: 6/7/2008
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Recently Had A Bad Date
Posted: 2/9/2013 10:03:34 AM
I agree with Helen...and would add that, despite all the potential happy days and dates of life, sometimes it's just a bad time/timing/whatever.
Does that mean the relationship ends there? I say no. Analyze it. Try and figure out what was wrong, before conclusions are made which might be way off base.
 ann2H20
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Relationship sex vs spontaneous sex
Posted: 1/29/2013 8:06:36 PM
I agree, waterfall...and with for rum.... it's the relationship quality, the emotional intensity, that adds to the sexual fulfillment. Trust in each other, knowing each other, being open to learning new things, etc. That's what is good...really good.
Many of us can relate a good one-time sexual encounter....but, the lasting ones have much more potential, perhaps not achieved by some.
 ann2H20
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 84 (view)
 
Men don't smell like men anymore
Posted: 1/25/2013 9:18:19 AM
mmmm....mmmmhhhhmmmm..... the hour later....that's the best smell........thanks for the memory flash, bogie
 ann2H20
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 139 (view)
 
WINE ENEMA
Posted: 12/28/2012 12:24:56 AM
true that, Micki.
better pack a tarp.
 ann2H20
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 138 (view)
 
WINE ENEMA
Posted: 12/28/2012 12:21:28 AM
well, sir, don't know if everyone helped you, but you certainly succeeded in stirring up some conversation!
thanks for the chuckles.
I'm an ER nurse. I knew about checking for tampons. Didn't know I needed to check breathalyzer from the other end.
Guess I wait for some flatulence to know what's up? or what's up "there".....?
good grief. now I'm falling into the ranks of the rest of you!!!!
 ann2H20
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Quite the story---Need Advice
Posted: 12/27/2012 3:48:17 PM
same old story, actually...
fulfilled a need/desire for each other.
but, as a good friend told me---
if she/he will do it with you, they'll do it to you.
cheat, that is......
if she wasn't finished with bf #1 in the 1st place, you were just blind, by choice.
 ann2H20
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 111 (view)
 
What makes men fall in love with a woman?
Posted: 12/27/2012 3:44:50 PM
lovely, hotrodius....
 ann2H20
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Msg: 21 (view)
 
happy Holidays
Posted: 12/25/2012 7:53:54 PM
the best advice I've read!
 ann2H20
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 5 (view)
 
what do i do?
Posted: 12/25/2012 7:42:14 PM
it's not working..... read my lips....noooot worrrrkinnnng.....
run run. say bye bye, and thank you.
 ann2H20
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 551 (view)
 
Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 11/20/2012 8:17:03 PM
that's funny....and, I admit, there's some truth to it, too.
We females are socialized differently, and some silly ideas stick.
However, there is a measure of self-protection that we females consider, that I suspect most males don't.
Still, I personally try to not pass it up, when presented with the opportunity.
 ann2H20
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Woman doesn't like penis's and semen, would you date her?
Posted: 11/20/2012 8:02:36 PM
I agree. Just as the title states--- Plenty of Fish. And, with that, lots of diversity among them.
 ann2h20
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 176 (view)
 
Younger men wanting sex chat
Posted: 1/24/2012 10:09:34 PM
bingo. that is exactly it.....
nothing more...nothing less.
 ann2H20
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 43 (view)
 
women going pantiless
Posted: 10/28/2011 12:38:19 PM
me, too.... I thought some of us females did that, anyway......... I learn soooo much in forums!
 ann2H20
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 161 (view)
 
sugar mommy?
Posted: 10/28/2011 12:31:27 PM
interesting comments. It should be worth pondering, for us females, that maybe it's simply the tide turning, but the pattern is the same.
The female types who want to move in and be care for abound, I'm sure. Why not the other way 'round?
 ann2H20
Joined: 6/7/2008
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Does having sex when you meet for the first time ruin a chance for a real relationship?
Posted: 7/7/2011 8:37:21 AM
I certainly appreciate the male perspective about this much-discussed subject.....obviously, there is not a protocol.....
 ann2H20
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 506 (view)
 
Does having sex when you meet for the first time ruin a chance for a real relationship?
Posted: 7/7/2011 8:34:33 AM
To that opinion, in its entirety, I wholeheartedly agree.
 ann2h20
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 107 (view)
 
celibacy in late life
Posted: 8/30/2009 10:42:26 AM
I agree with inbruges....

We (those 50 & beyond) are past many of the expectations of those much younger... and we SHOULD be.

Celibacy is HIGHLY overrated. I equate it with poverty & poor health. I think better, sing better, am more patient, sleep better.... all with the simple pleasures of... well, you know...
 ann2h20
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 202 (view)
 
Attraction in your 50's
Posted: 5/17/2009 11:04:49 AM
oh yes....I agree. The non-acceptance of getting older, as if that were an abomination, is the limitation of many people in this age group.

I don't understand the attraction to an illusion. Does an illusion love you? "Lust" you? Not even.

I'll take real over imaginary any day. Imaginary I can do alone....
 ann2h20
Joined: 6/7/2008
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Mother Lovers
Posted: 5/17/2009 10:58:42 AM
true that, bluez. coo coo ca choo mrs. robinson....
polar opposites of the spectrum of man + woman, and inherent meanings...
 ann2h20
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Seperation/divorce
Posted: 8/2/2008 7:51:22 PM
Mr. Snap, you said it best several posts ago--- Love is something you DO. Use it, mentally infuse it, as a verb, not a noun. It's the every day things, the selflessness toward the other.

All the instances of separation and divorce have to do with a shift in that mindset, or the lack of insight into the one-sidedness the relationship had in the first place.

Talk to people who have been together for a long time. They have suffered peaks and valleys in their relationship, changes in the goals of the other person-- the list goes on and on.

The one constant is the first one said to each other-- til death do us part.....in for the long haul..... no matter what...

Whatever the verbage, the concept remains the same, as does the committment.
 ann2h20
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 182 (view)
 
do I cheat after almost 20 years?
Posted: 7/20/2008 12:06:15 PM
Interesting reading.....

Quite a subject OP picked. She's long gone, and it's still a hot topic.

eazk-- right on, sir. right on......
 ann2h20
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 10 (view)
 
law of attraction
Posted: 7/20/2008 11:27:54 AM
Soooo,,,,
Interesting reading, these posts.
My opinion? It goes back to what my friends in the world of psychiatry refer to as this---
Perception is Reality.

Whether it be attraction or the "laws" thereof (not sure that's a good word to attach to the idea), or attainment of self-determined goals.

Thanks for the mind opening!
 ann2h20
Joined: 6/7/2008
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Commuting to work by bike
Posted: 7/20/2008 11:18:04 AM
Traveling by bike is so much easier now than it used to be. Better bikes for it, better technology.
I used to ride 8 miles each way to work with a toddler in tow. Now that was work. But, a good workout.
Now, I ride year round, except for rainy, snowy, & "too blowy" days. It's too easy, being 3 miles from work.
In fact, I have passed up other jobs I would like to have, based on mileage to and from. To me, it just doesn' t make sense, given the luxury of choice.
Speaking of luxury- I have an 8 year old Schwinn, w/ a shock absorbing seat post, luggage rack on back, and 2 packs I can put on it, or panniers to hook to the side. It's amazing how much stuff you can take. Put alot of miles on it, and hope to put alot more.
 ann2h20
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 67 (view)
 
Sensuality in your 50's.....
Posted: 6/22/2008 4:07:20 PM
I disagree with you, enigma, on two points--

First, "ideal man" need not be defined by age. In fact, that is likely the least reliable determinant of sexual/sensual compatibility and/or mutual enjoyment.

Second, I do not recommend testosterone, unless you wish to risk hirsuitism along with an increased libido. Additionally, there are theories though not yet proven, that increased testosterone levels in women are an additional risk factor for heart disease.

I have had relationships with men across the life span. I find something interesting and take something learned from each encounter. The libido-- much of that is governed by the brain. Use it or lose it-- that's what I consider the best advice.

Everthing takes a little longer as we age. Consider it a bonus if an orgasm takes a bit longer, meaning the "wind up" does, too, before the "pitch".
something to think about.......

Ann
 
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