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 Author Thread: Political Position as part of profile
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Political Position as part of profile
Posted: 12/16/2009 1:29:48 AM
See, Im sorta the opposite.. I guess if it really matters to you you can always put it in your profile, But whats the big deal if the person your looking at has a different political view.. I mean.. Tupac and Hitler might not be good bed mates..but in most cases your political views are not a cornerstone to a relationship... Many of my past relationships have had differing views.. and it didnt effect the relationship...
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Age range you are looking for. What's that say about you?
Posted: 8/30/2009 10:49:14 PM
Age means nothing.. Im 22. and my profile says 18 - 35.. but even thats a rough estimate, I mean if your an attractive 50 year old women who does it for me, Hell yes I'll go out with you.. question is will you go out with me.. haha.. Age doesnt mean anything man.. Old farts have been hitting on hot chicks my age since I was 18, and it annoys me, Yea I'll admit it, but what are you going to do about it.
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 122 (view)
 
Independent Women
Posted: 8/30/2009 10:44:16 PM
Independant is a word. A word with many possible meaning in the context. The fact is that most people (97% "American marriage statistics, 2008) get married at some point in their life. It is simple human nature for us to seek a companion so share our lives with. Which is why a majority of us are on this site.

The origional author of this post said that most marriages are ended by women, which is true, although he said 75% or somthing, in reality its more like 82% in America. However in most cases its not they they are dependant and just leave their man, I think its more of the same complex that exists in our dating society. Women are by nature attracted to the alpha male, which in todays world turns out to be an (Ass-hole). Men are benefited more by a marriage than a women is. In fact married men live LONGER then unmarried men, yet it is the OPPOSITE for women. Divorce and its ever increasing rate is a product of the times. Marriage is looked at as much less permenent then it was 100 years ago. Today people CAN and WILL find somebody better and CAN start their life over again, where-as 100 Years ago it was unheard of to start over at age 35 Ect.

In my oppinion marriage is just like the dating world. Women are attracted to the Ass-holes of the world, marry them and eventually divorce them, then they come back a few years later and fine a nice guy, Like me.. haha.. and Marry him, and dont get divorced again.. Which explains why STATISTICALLY women get one divorce in their live and men who get one usually have SEVERAL... hence the jerks find more women to get with and get divorced all over again..

Questions?
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 24 (view)
 
This is just a FLIT GAME
Posted: 8/11/2009 11:41:11 PM
Wow, I must say that some people said some rather rude and offensive things aimed at me, especially NOLA Chick. I was simply stating that if judging someone by how they look is wrong, which several posts on here show, then how is judging someone on how they type any better. I mean I have a friend who is a rather beautiful women, who men shower with attention, and she can't type like an english teacher in the least. Does that make her a lesser person? According to NOLA Chick it apparently does.

I also find the fact that you seem to think the way I type on some internet dating site directly reflects how I preform in college. Well I would happily compare my awards, grades, and GPA with any of you. Because just from looking around I notice Im one of the few people here with a bachelors degree, and Im currently working on a PhD.. if your 30 and make minumum wage, you hardly have room to make fun of my Academic abilities or intelligence. Because the fact is that I am on the Deans list, I have been for years, and at age 22 I probably make more money then most of you, so saying Im a little boy, or childish is hardly true in the least.

As I said when I first posted, the internet is not serious business, its not applying for a job and its not a professional letter, if someone can't accept who you are and what your all about then they are not being true to the system. The differenct between cant and can not is not going to keep Adam from Eve, thats just ignorant.

Flame Away...
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 18 (view)
 
This is just a FLIT GAME
Posted: 7/23/2009 8:16:06 PM
That is the point, we do live in the area of Texting.. its not like we are applying for jobs, or writting books here.. its a form of social interaction... when I walk up to someone in a bar I dont say .. "Hello.. nice to meet you.. my name is Alex, nice wheather we are having" that so last century.... you say " Hey.. Whats up?" or somthing like that.. getting on someone for how they write a social email shows that your are high maitenence, and frankly kinda ****y.. its a turn off..
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 15 (view)
 
This is just a FLIT GAME
Posted: 7/20/2009 6:51:45 PM
Whats the big deal with spelling and punctuation anyways? I mean Its the internet, its no different from Text messaging... who really cares.. at the end of the day I do have degrees, and I Am on the honor role.. because when I write a paper or test.. my spelling and punctuation Matter.... why in such a social/chill enviornment as this is it so harshly judged, I mean you get online after work and quickly type out a letter or reply.. I mean whats the big deal if you hit a few wrong keys or somthing..
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
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This is just a FLIT GAME
Posted: 7/19/2009 10:28:04 PM
what is this SPARK thing you women are always talking about.. its annoying.. its simple factors.. attractiveness, personality, how you communicate, and who your are.. online you cant have any other forms of communication, body language is out, and physical chemistry is out.. what that HELL is that spark your talking about. ask a man why they FLIT.. its because your not hott enough, your weird, or your annoying.. thats about it, yet I always hear from women .. "she just didnt feel a spark" I mean what does that even really mean..

this site is rediclous, seriously when you all the sudden just stop talking to someone, its not only rude, it effects the persons self esteem and turns them off to this site.. its seriously annoying.. and when you say right on your profile that your here to meet people.. date.. ect.. then why drop somebody without even meeting them or getting to know who they are... Either im Right, or every one of the Dozens of women I've talked to are FLITERS... for real...
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Any advise.. havent had much luck on here..
Posted: 7/16/2009 5:21:52 PM
Made a few changes that you all suggested.. it wouldent let me change my screen name, but if somebody is actually bothered by that then they are probably insecure to begin with..



IDK.. any other advise from anyone...?
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
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Any advise.. havent had much luck on here..
Posted: 7/15/2009 11:53:10 PM
I feel like my profile says whats important, and gets to the point of who I am, and what I want in someone.. whats the deal.. any suggestions...

I dont get it, I work out every day but the site wont let me put up a torso shot, but it lets women put up bikini shots.. I dont get that..
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 9 (view)
 
choosing the right condom
Posted: 12/14/2008 3:09:41 AM
Comdoms ... I dissagree with your theory... because when me and my fiance were together I literally tried every brand that exited, and sex sucked, finally I decided that we were together, and not sleeping around so we just went without,,, my opinion thats the way to go, just keep to monogomous relationships and nix the condoms all together. Sex with a condom is like winning 3 dollars after getting all the numbers on a lottery ticket.. maybe its just me, but before I had sex without a condom I believed that sex was awufule and wondered what all the fuss what about, had sex without and realized why wars have been started over sex.. lol..

for real, just dont be a slut, stick to the monogomus relationships, get checked out, and your good to go..

happy sex..
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Whats the longest you have waited
Posted: 10/25/2008 12:54:25 AM

If she don't give the booty up on the first date, there will be no second date with me. I aint waiting pass 3 hours. Any man that waits more than 3 hours to hit it is a moron.



Black Velvet is a total idiot.. and the reason women think men are ***holes..
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 3 (view)
 
What are Women Taking for Sex !
Posted: 9/9/2008 12:58:02 PM
Haha, dude, older women are not just a myth my friend, I hit on 30+ year olds all the time, the older a women is the better they are at sex... just depends on how comfortable you are with their age..
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
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Friend vs Boyfriend
Posted: 9/5/2008 1:31:19 PM
dude, this is pretty simple, they want someone to do all that with but they dont want to have sex with you.. its why so many guys find themselves in the friend zone.. why do you think so many attractive women have 100 male friends, they all are just hoping to get out of the friend zone..
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 50 (view)
 
men, how do you feel when the woman you love tells you she had many [30-...] f- buddies?
Posted: 9/2/2008 2:03:37 AM
well you have to ask yourself if your cool dating a slut that has a CONSITERABLY higher risk of STD's ... if your cool with it, then its ok.. if not then no.. I guess its all a matter of what your standards are.. Personally being 21 I date women between 18 and 25 and I think that between 0 and about 5-6 is perfectly normal.. if she's had 10-15 then I think shes kinda a slut.. but thats just me..
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 7 (view)
 
mythbuster needed...
Posted: 9/2/2008 1:59:12 AM
Yea dude, some women are VERY attracted to ONLY black men, I personally know some.. I think your just meeting the wrong women.. the big black man has been given a bad rap in some places and some peoples minds.. you just have to meet the right women..
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Boyfriend on dating sites... Confused.?
Posted: 9/1/2008 12:31:56 PM

OP: He's just making sure that when you finally leave, he has someone else lined up, so he doesn't have to go looking for a rebound relationship.


yea thats pretty much it..
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 64 (view)
 
Playing Hard To Get
Posted: 9/1/2008 2:00:08 AM
Playing hard to get or any other kind of game, pretty much pisses me off. and all other males for that matter.. it puts you in the same pile as the girls that are rejecting us using the whole stop talking to you routine... its imposible to desipher what it is your doing... so NO being a FLAKE... or playing hard to get as you call it, pretty much pisses men off.. I would avoid it..
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Why do guys treat ex girlfriends cruelly?
Posted: 9/1/2008 1:54:17 AM
You may have hurt him emotionally in the breakup.. I mean, WHO really broke up with who.. if you hurt him.. of course hes going to treat you like a ****.. My ex fiance cheated on me, and every time I see her I have no problem flaunting how my life is great and hers sucks now..

on top of all that. men dont do well being friends after.. they dont want to meet your new guys, they just want you to leave them alone or go back to the way it was... friends annoys men..
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Am I married after a couple of dates?
Posted: 9/1/2008 1:44:39 AM
Sounds like she REALLY into you bro... get what you can from it if shes gonna be like that..
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Why do you take the birth control pill?
Posted: 9/1/2008 1:40:57 AM
OP, the birth control pill is probably my most loved invention in the history of the world.. that fact that you even question its usefullness or importance makes you a total nutjob.. the real question is why the heck to some women NOT use it.. I mean jes.. your crazy thinking that its not important.. I mean lets do that math.. two people get close, go to the doctor and get checked out, the women takes a small simple pill every morning.. and dude, its NO Holds Barred SEX whenever you want, even during the period.. with little to no risk of ANY consequences.. unless you do it SO often that you get injured... lol. But may be a good thing..

Think about it ... and try not to hurt yourself.. lol
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Why would an Ex want you to meet their new BF
Posted: 8/29/2008 12:08:09 PM
Simple, shes trying to rub you in his face and him in your face... basically shes a ****..
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 12 (view)
 
I'M IN LOVE WITH A LESBIAN
Posted: 8/29/2008 12:05:22 PM
saying that if a dude was in love with him is the same is the wrong message.. He said himself that she has been with men before, Meaning that she IS NOT TOTALLY LESBIAN.. so read the guys post before bashing him...

OP.. I'dd say just talk to her, tell you how you feel, love is a very strong word, she might open up to the idea, even if its not perminente, giving you a chance might be possible..
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 37 (view)
 
meh to getting head
Posted: 8/22/2008 3:18:21 AM
Why are you guys flaming the kid, the fact is that not all men like to recieve oral just like not all women do, and it depends on whos giving it and whats exactly happening, I've only had it from 2 people, and it sucked with both, so I believe I dont enjoy it, maybe its a different scenario, but dont flame the guy.. hes got a point..
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Sex = Overrated
Posted: 8/22/2008 3:15:20 AM
My dear friend, Im amazed that you think sex is not that great.. I think you aught to try it Without a condom on and then say it sucks lol... either she sucks at it,, maybe shes a ho or is really loose, maybe your gay, maybe shes just not the right person to meet your sexual desires.. but the fact is my friend sex does not suck,, ask anybody..
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 27 (view)
 
No orgasm..a problem?
Posted: 8/19/2008 1:42:25 AM
" or maybe even most, women do not orgasm through vaginal intercourse"

STFU noob, where did you read that.. my dear sir you are wrong in this statment.. most women get off most effieicnetly when the interior G spot, (Located inside the vagina about 2 inched on the foreward facing) and the Clitorus are both stimulated. This is best accomplished in Missionary while using you hand to stimulate the cltorus..
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You need to stop reading hustler and pick up a REAL sexuality book...
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Friends after a relationship?
Posted: 8/14/2008 2:56:49 AM
I went through the EXACT same thing, dude, you need to tell her outright, either you get back together ore BYE, doing the friend thing will just eat you up inside, you'll sit there pretending to just be her friend all the while your loving her inside... it will make you nuts.. sounds like she just used you anyways.. 5 months and she wants to retry things with her EX, sounds just like my ex girlfriend.. forget the ****, dont allow yourself to be put on the shelf as a FRIEND, that wont make you happy.. so either get back with her,.. NOW.. or get her out of your life..
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Is she telling me to go away?
Posted: 8/12/2008 1:45:12 PM
shes probably going to talk to all her friends about you, show them your picture, ask if they think your a weirdo ect.. then get back to you.. it could also be a tactic to make you go away, only to drive you insane before you get the message though... women do that.. Either way, if she said your just going to have to wait, then either way thats what your going to have to do... dont sound so desperate, just tell her.. " ok .. whenever you get around to it" so she'll know that your not going to just wait for her and you have a life and other women to be talking to, this will keep her from putting you on her shelf and she will decide herself.. or through her friends... faster weather she wants to take this step with you...
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 6 (view)
 
am i too picky?
Posted: 8/12/2008 1:03:10 AM
dude, thats pretty standard.. some guys want to know a womens body fat percentage.. for the record IM NOT ONE OF THEM.. but yea your stardards are not picky at all... they are actually pretty lax in my opinion..
 AlexLovesTheVette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 65 (view)
 
why do guys like to cum on a girl's face?
Posted: 8/10/2008 8:56:46 PM
The only Men that are into busting on your face are ones that watch porn to much, that fact is most men want to just have normal sex and not pull out.. just my 2 cents
 AlexLovesTheVette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Is it a Big Deal IF the Woman Makes More Money?
Posted: 8/10/2008 8:42:52 PM
The fact still remains that women Perfer financially secure men. Having a high end income tells women that your are inteligent and have goals in your life. I stand by what I said before, not only because it is my opinion but because I a graduate student in psychology and can show you about 50 social experiments that show first attraction to be based on more outward facts.. these include physical appearence and financial income..
 AlexLovesTheVette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Is it a Big Deal IF the Woman Makes More Money?
Posted: 8/10/2008 8:21:12 PM
Doctors are in the top 10% of paid citizens, so you tell me...
 AlexLovesTheVette
Joined: 6/8/2008
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Is it a Big Deal IF the Woman Makes More Money?
Posted: 8/10/2008 8:16:40 PM
This issue has been discussed to its very roots, that fact is that at our very core, females perfer a partner that can make them feel physicall and financialy secure, hence the buff doctor is going to look more desiarable then the scawny out-of-work druggie.. the same thing goes for men. Men perfer a partner who is physically healthy and paysically turns them on, they seem someone who they find to be beautiful and looks healthy enough to give them children, its basic instincts... sure things like personality and intrests are what keep people together and make a relationship work, but it is those basic factors that bring people together...
 AlexLovesTheVette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 143 (view)
 
skinny men
Posted: 8/10/2008 8:09:41 PM
This post is insane dude, women normally want a guy who is bigger then them, if you think your too skinny then go hit on some models, makes scense to me, I see women all the time running around with fat guys.. Weight is not EVEN CLOSE to as big of an issue for women as it is to men, Men see overweight women and usually run the other way, women are a little more lax
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
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Get a lot of weridos, Any advise?
Posted: 8/9/2008 8:47:40 PM
Hmm, well I figured it would be nice to find someone who shared the love for cars, thats all but I see you point.. and your saying more info on what im looking for, Drop the drama stuff, and more pictures? any other suggestions?
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
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Get a lot of weridos, Any advise?
Posted: 8/9/2008 8:21:01 PM
Im a young guy with my stuff together, Im on here to hopefully meet someone for a relationship and commitment, but I tend to get very weird messages, for random hookups, or older women with kids who I think are chasing money, Many of my sent messages go get no reply.. Im not sure,, but ANY advise on my profile would be greatly appriciated.. be harsh.. no sugar coating lol...
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 51 (view)
 
Why does everyone assume women have better orgasms than men?
Posted: 8/9/2008 8:10:05 PM
Key to good orgasm, plain an simple..

wait a good week before having sex..
Induce great amounts of foreplay that get both partners very close to orgasm then back it off to less but still sensual actions. and repeat the process, eventually your body will become so turned on that you both will have very strong and very exciting orgasm.. this works best with two usual partners..
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 28 (view)
 
How to get around useing a condom during sex
Posted: 8/9/2008 8:05:25 PM
dude, ok first off drop the casual sex, thats just bad news even with a condom, and kinda gross and unethical in a few minds. Seriously, just develop a good relationship with someone and see where it goes, if that leads to intimacy, get your asses tested, make sure shes taking the pill and have at it as much as your hearts desire.. Listen, both men and women ****ing hate condoms, personally I cant even climax with one, so just drop the casual sex shit, unless your cool with getting some crap.. its up to you... but all these girls saying to practice and shit, thats crap, you just dont like it, its normal.. its your body telling you not to be a whore, and just sleep with commited relationships..

my 2 cents..
 alexlovesthevette
Joined: 6/8/2008
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Men who can't Orgasm during Sex
Posted: 8/9/2008 5:27:33 PM
Ok, This sounds very odd, and I have to ask, are you sure your not Gay, you say you get no joy or pleasure, but Im assuming your only trying it with women.. this may be the problem..
Another thought.. you mentioned condoms being uncomfortable for you, I myself have NEVER achieve orgasm while using a condom, I simply,, have you ever tried it without them.?

just a few thoughts..
 
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