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 Author Thread: Men Who Only Relate to Beautiful Women....
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 79 (view)
 
Men Who Only Relate to Beautiful Women....
Posted: 1/26/2011 1:27:08 PM

Very well said! I am attracted to confidence and humor!

Sure you are, as long as he is close to being a GQ model and or has monsy spilling out of his pockets. That line of BS is so lame, you HAVE to look good AND have those qualities before you can get their attention.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 132 (view)
 
Would you marry an illegal alien?
Posted: 3/21/2010 5:37:34 PM
NO FREAKIN WAY!! They shouldn't be here in the first damn place, why would I go and do something so stupid as to reward them for BREAKING THE LAW by marrying them and making them an instant citizen. I say deport them ALL and then maybe we can get our healthcare system back on track.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 75 (view)
 
Why do guys look and not even say hello?
Posted: 3/21/2010 5:35:08 PM
OK, OP I know I might get shyte for this, but perhaps the problem is that many of these guys feel you are out of their league. Yes, there is where I am gonna hear the crap, like in "there is no such thing as leagues" well BS, there are and everyone knows it. Maybe the guys you are talking about find you so attractive that they don't feel you'd be willing to give them the time of day much less a casual conversation. Happens to me often, so I'd say if you see one in particular that has caught your eye then simply send him a drink or a casual nod of the head might be a great nonverbal ice breaker. Good luck with it.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 72 (view)
 
Do you get dizzy after sex?
Posted: 3/6/2010 4:39:21 PM

...i get dizzy at the mere thought of sex...

Indeed, but as soon as I have some I will definitely take notice now...lol
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Dating the same sex because your heart was broken
Posted: 11/25/2009 7:07:05 PM
In a word, F NO! I am 110% hetero and would never even consider that no matter how many times I got my heart broken, yuk!!
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Fastest you've ever gotten the friend speech?
Posted: 11/23/2009 10:28:51 PM
A minute and fourteen seconds after meeting....j/k, no usually that comes just after the short meet and greet, most of the time in the form of an email in ehcih case for me it's "see ya" and I move on. Not playing that game anymore.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 12 (view)
 
my best friend act weird around my girl. he a suspect!
Posted: 11/23/2009 10:06:42 PM
OP, you better be nipping this one in the bud and right friggin NOW, something is about to develop that YOU are NOT gonna like. Been there been through this before, thus my divorce. He is testing the waters and she is allowing it, so you NEED to confront them both or just kick her to the curb and let him have her before she CHEATS on you, sorry, but the writing is on the wall and as much as you may not want to read it or admit it, action needs to be taken immediately, by YOU. Good luck
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 62 (view)
 
told myself I would never do it
Posted: 11/23/2009 9:59:05 PM
Last weekend we hooked up and did the naughty.....I always said I would never do this...... because it was my friends wife..

Wow, what an absolutely low life POS, and dude, you are NO friend. You're a selfish, cold, heartless douchebag. Your "friend" needs to kick BOTH your asses. What a scumbag, "they hate each other, what a lame assed way to try to justify your unforgivable action.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 104 (view)
 
Would you cheat on SO for alot of money?
Posted: 11/23/2009 9:55:12 PM

There is NO excuse or reason for cheating. I've been cheated on and it is a hurt like no other


I can so totally agree on all accounts. And beware, if this thought has entered her mind I'd be very cautious, she is either contemplating it or making plans on it, either way I'd be watching her like a hawk. Good luck dude.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Is it worthwhile to date here?
Posted: 11/22/2009 3:18:11 PM

It is easier to find people on here if you are older imo
and if you're good looking that makes a big difference too. The biggest problems many on here have are the unrealistic high expectations and standards. I gave up on the whole dating scene on here long ago because I came to realize I'd never meet the standards or looks that many women are looking for.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Mushroom's
Posted: 11/21/2009 7:46:24 PM

Actually guys, if either of you had done a thread search , before posting, you would have found at least one more thread on stuffed mushrooms.

There's always someone that has to come off with this isn't there. Why do you people feel the need to chime in and point this out, if the thread bothers you then DON'T read it. Besides, the OP most likely DID a thread search anyway. But thanks for the .02 anyway
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Is it still cheating...with no sex?
Posted: 10/25/2009 10:08:07 AM

If he wanted to see her as a *friend* why didn't he invite you along? Sounds as if he was emotionally involved with her and it's cheating just the same. Lying, hiding things, etc....he can't be trusted.

Sorry to hear that happened to you OP, but this comment is totally correct, even if there wasn't any sex involved, as you state, the cheating is still there and anyone that has to or feels the need to hide anything like that clearly CANNOT be trusted, ever! Time to move on to someone that will appreciate and respect you.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Question about Pregnant women
Posted: 10/25/2009 9:56:41 AM

Seriously... STOP thinking of yourself right now and think about the new life.
There truly is a little bit more to... being "happy" and being a mother.

I mean... really... its ONLY 9 months out of all this time ...6 since you say you're 3 months already... that you need to concentrate on whats happening to your body and you

Stop k? just stop.

So basically the way I read this you're telling her to stop looking to live life and enjoy herself and for the most part close herself off from the rest of the living world? What, just because she is preggo she doesn't deserve to be happy or to go out and enjoy life? Come on, that is so unrealistic, sure she is carrying a new life, but that doesn't mean she needs to give hers up entirely. The way I see it OP is that if you're sure the father of the baby is NOT going to be an issue or bring drama and a heap of trouble to your life and anyone you might be dating, then I say go for it, just be careful and go slowly. Sure there will be lots of guys that are totally not into the whole dating a pregnant woman thing because of the potential of huge issues with the father, but then there are many that are, just make certain your life is in order and there will be no poppa drama and all "should" be ok, good luck.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 41 (view)
 
To delete or not to delete (profile)
Posted: 8/30/2009 7:09:39 PM

I have been on Match.com (several years), Chemistry.com (briefly), e-Harmony, Singlesnet, Perfect Match, Lava Life, J-Date (a brief stint when I studied Judaism), Catholic Singles, Mingle2, Brainiac, 4ppl, seriously, and on and on. I have never dated anyone off of these sites.

All this screams desperation yet undecided. You've been on ALL of these sites at one time or another yet NOT dated anyone from them? Wow, maybe your standards are set far too high.

AND LASTLY, IF YOU DON'T HAVE A PICTURE OR YOU WRITE ME AND DON'T FIT WHAT I'M SEEKING I'LL JUST DELETE / BLOCK YOU

And this coming from someone that has no posted pic for the men to look at, makes me wonder what it is you "don't" want them to see. Seems to me if you want to see a pic you should have one/some to see as well.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Can't get guys interested...
Posted: 8/30/2009 6:58:02 PM
First off I'd like to say after looking at your profile I'd say you're very cute and secondly you should try to find out what it is about yourself that makes you feel so insecure and shy. You sounds like a nice girl and without actually talking to you I can't say whether or not you're interesting. You will find however many guys in your age range might not be looking for the same things you are and so it makes it difficult to find a good guy. I don't really have a lot of advice to offer for your shyness other than trying to find out what it is that makes you so shy then work on that, but as I say you are quite attractive and should have no problems attracting guys.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 6 (view)
 
hemp necklaces
Posted: 8/30/2009 6:43:53 PM

Rastafarian wannabe, or alternatively, a mindless bro

Really? All that over an insignificant piece of jewelry or something along those lines? If those thoughts come to mind then she is definitely NOT worth getting to know. I wear one because a dear and close friend made it for me as a gift and I have never considered myself any of the above. If it were vise versa I certainly wouldn't give it a second thought, it's really not that big a deal geez.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Have you ever felt intimidated by a woman?
Posted: 8/30/2009 6:26:05 PM

They mean "inaccessable".
"Have you ever felt a woman was "inaccessable" to you?" Well, yes, of course!

Yes I have felt this way many a times. I find many women out of my league looks wise and feel they'd never give me the time of day much less a chance at an actual date. But imtimidated? Never.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Who knew
Posted: 8/28/2009 2:58:27 PM

Everyone deserves the benefit of a doubt until they fvck up.

Well I'd say a NO call, NO show is a pretty serious fvck up IMO, unless he was in a coma in the hospital, then someone should have called for him....not, but still. A call, text or something would have been better than just standing her up like that, sorry to hear OP your "great guy" turned out to be a tool.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Why do I usually attract men that I'm not attracted to? Annoying!
Posted: 8/28/2009 2:54:36 PM

You're probably not as attractive as you think you are and you are attracting what you are "worth".

I tend to agree that maybe she is wanting a Brad Pitt or George Clooney and since he/they haven't dropped in on her she is becoming cynical.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Gaving up on dating.
Posted: 8/28/2009 2:51:13 PM

if you talkeding the way you're typeding, then I says.... you're darn lucky to even gottening a date.
gaving up .... huh? then maybe you should gave it up....

Hehe, ya pretty much what I was thinking too, wow.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 14 (view)
 
When at a party and...
Posted: 8/23/2009 6:57:58 PM

Men are attracted to thinness.... let's not make this complicated.... THIN WOMEN.

Do NOT generalize, not ALL of us men are attracted strictly to thin women, just as not ALL women are looking for thin men, although most are. That is a road that goes two ways!
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 41 (view)
 
Does not want kids!
Posted: 8/21/2009 3:18:58 PM

I hate kids and have zero desire to ever have one

Then thank GOD you never made the mistake of having any, I can just picture the insanely horrible life they'd be living with someone with an disturbing attitude like yours. But I for one choose not to date anyone that doesn't have children because then that tells me they chose NOT to have any and in most cases aren't willing to accept others, mine included. It also says that cannot understand the needs and priorities that parenting requires therefore would not make an ideal SO to someone that does have kids, grown or not. Plus to me at least, it says they feel life should be all about them and don't want kids intruding on "their" time or life.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Need Guys Perspective
Posted: 8/12/2009 1:13:30 PM
From the pics OP all looks good, but what I see in the profile is someone that is a workaholic and might not have time for someone in their life. Granted it would most likely have to be someone who also doesn't want/have kids, but your profile just makes it sound like you're far too busy traveling and working to make for a stable and long term relationship.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Should men be bolder in dating, sex and relationships?
Posted: 8/8/2009 2:44:14 PM

I think women need to be more bold too

Amen there sister, and with all this equality being touted it would be a nice welcome change of pace.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 18 (view)
 
A Dead Serious Question about the Importance of Breasts
Posted: 8/1/2009 5:18:32 PM

If a dude who is a possibility for a relationship doesn't accept you with just one real boob, then don't see him as a possibility for a relationship

Exactly what I was thinking, a "real" man would not make such an issue of it and accept you "AS-IS" and not worry about a missing boob. It doesn't change WHO you are and besides, no one is perfect, we ALL have flaws of some sort, so if a guy makes an issue of it or has a problem with it, move on he isn't worth your time. There IS a guy out there that will be very happy with you.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Site FORMAT issues
Posted: 8/1/2009 5:08:29 PM
If you have threads you do not want to appear on your profile then you have to keep posting until they disappear, but no, you cannot eliminate them all entirely.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Just a question...
Posted: 7/31/2009 12:59:45 AM
OP, as some have said many will react differently but I'd surely not have any problems with you contacting me with any questions at all and I'd totally be open to chatting with you. Oh and let me say I am sorry to hear about your loss.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Sex and Dating topic gone...
Posted: 7/31/2009 12:48:58 AM
I logged in and went to the forums page and this topic is gone on my page too.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 10 (view)
 
dating or long term?
Posted: 7/23/2009 5:16:59 PM
I put long term because ultimately that is what I am looking for. Naturally it has to follow the natural progression of the process, dating, friendship and then if all goes well exclusivity with the ideal goal of long term. I'm not looking to "hang out" or for dating as a way to pass the time or "sample" who's out there, I say it as I want it to be, LONG TERM, and so that is why "I" chose what I did. However others might see it differently and might even go about it differently, but we're all individuals and will see it from different angles.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Where Are The Good Guys??
Posted: 7/23/2009 5:09:09 PM

They're the ones you're rude to and ignore

Exactly, and the ones you most likely won't give the time of day to because we don't fit the mold of what "society" has deemed as very acceptable. Most women these days I see/hear complaining about this are all looking for the same thing, that Brad Pitt looking dude, with Bill Gates money and Collin Farrels personality, a.k.a the "bad boy" type that also look "hot" to them then whine when they get treated like shit. So where are the good guys? Right under your nose, if you chose to actually look for them and not blow them off.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Do you enjoy watching porn with your partner?
Posted: 7/23/2009 4:50:41 PM

Being in our 50's we really like the older stuff from the 70's - 80's

YEAH, when the women looked great and NATURAL before all these gross huge implants, piercings everywhere and shaving every bit of pubic hair became the rage, when porn was good! But when I am with someone I enjoy watching it with her, a great way to also help get things going.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 22 (view)
 
best way to shave it?
Posted: 7/23/2009 4:46:48 PM

Anyway - why not simply trim - much nicer and you will look like the adult you are supposed to be! Bald is gross! IMHO

My thinking exactly, I just don't get this need to be completely bald down there where a simple trim will accomplish the same thing. Besides, bald just looks to prepubescent anyway and sorda creepy.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Can you change your personality?
Posted: 7/23/2009 4:41:00 PM
Can I? Possibly, should I or will I? Never in a million years, I feel I am who I am take me or leave me, I am who I am like me or not. I would not nor would I ask/expect anyone to change me or for me.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 24 (view)
 
self consious
Posted: 7/22/2009 6:16:42 PM
What's to worry about OP, I looked at your profile and you look great! Has something happened in the past that has caused you to become so self conscious? You just need a boost of self confidence and you will find the right guy, don't sell yourself short, again you look great, so get out there and enjoy yourself.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 12 (view)
 
How long do I keep waiting?
Posted: 7/21/2009 5:25:36 PM
I am a firm believer in the saying, "It is a bad, bad, bad idea to date where you work" because if things fall apart the fallout can be overwhelming and to have them come up at work? No thanks!
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 15 (view)
 
what was my ex boyfriend thinking?
Posted: 7/21/2009 5:22:55 PM

He's a chicken-shit and you are handling him just fine

My thinking exactly. He handled the breakup in an immature and chickenshit way and now that it too has fallen apart he's looking to come crawling back to someone he "hopes" will take him back. In most cases a guy that is into someone will NOT end a relationship that abruptly unless there is someone else involved, which was most likely the case with him, and now that she has bailed on him seeing him for the prick he probably is, he is now going to try to sweet talk his way back into your life and hopefully you won't fall for his BS, because surely he was cheating with her to begin with to leave the way he did. If he did it once who's to say he won't do it again, you're much better off without him and your coldness was completely justified. You've moved on and so should he, without you!
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Why do women use me for sex???
Posted: 7/21/2009 5:08:00 PM

Wahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!

Exactly, sounds to me like a troll/attention getting post. I don't think there are too many men, me included, that would be too put off by being used for sex, and if it bothers you OP then tell them you're just deiscovered your true feelings and it's time to come out of the closet, that should get them to leave YOU alone and concentrate on someone that WILL enjoy it.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Nipples!
Posted: 7/21/2009 5:03:15 PM

Since getting them pierced, they can no longer be sucked on, twisted, pinched, or anything of the like. Hell. They can't even be licked.

My two little girls are special. Special enough to get pierced.

No man's tongue is more special than that.

And that is just one of the many reasons I'm NOT a fan of pierced nipples, but OP, that totally rocks and I'd LOVE to find a woman like you. I think it's a lot more common than you think for women to enjoy that yet just won't admit it. It's perfectly normal from what I hear and have been told by a few of my female friends, so go with it and enjoy it!
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Double bagging.
Posted: 7/20/2009 4:19:06 PM

i thought this was going to be a question about how i like my groceries bagged carry on

Hehehe, that is pretty much what I was thinking...LOL, who'd have thunk it to have other meanings.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 3 (view)
 
sweetest thing anyone has ever done for you?
Posted: 7/20/2009 4:17:07 PM
Walked out on the kids and I, she was a mean, verbally abusive bitter **** that was developing some very bad control issues, so leaving was one of the sweetest things she did for me/us.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 57 (view)
 
Do men ever say I love you first ?
Posted: 7/20/2009 4:08:14 PM
Yes, to those women we no longer want to see b/c once we do they typicall run to the hills and BAM, we never see or hear from them again, problem solved. Seriously tho, most men won't because it tends to freak women out then they start seeing us as "clingy, needy and too affectionate" so on the few occasions it has been said first it was by HER, then I knew the feeling was mutual.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 22 (view)
 
What would you do?
Posted: 7/17/2009 10:27:59 AM

I wonder: what if he wasn't "cute"? What if it had been an ugly guy who did this?

Guaran-f'n-teed had "I" pulled a stunt like that she would not only have rolled up her window and sped off like she'd been shot from a canon, but would have been on her cell phone to 911 reporting me as some sort of deranged stalker or psycho. But b/c he was "cute" he was allowed to not only get away with this, but also engage her in conversation. My thinking is that if she hasn't already called, she will soon.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 11 (view)
 
GOTCHA!
Posted: 7/17/2009 10:17:44 AM

I would tell her shes your friend.... if she found out any other way and knew that you knew she would be livid. What I would do is go over to her house one day and say that you need to show her something get on the computer and bring up his profile and messages. I would want to know if my significant other was cheating...... he must be dumb if he didnt recognize you!!!!!

I so totally agree here. I can say from experience I only WISH one of our "mutual" friends would have dropped a line or an anonymous note letting me know, or confirming my suspicions, of my ex's cheating. But ya, as a friends you should do the right thing and let her know before he brings something home to her she won't want (STD). And as it was said above, if she finds out later that you know and said nothing you might loose her as a friend forever, so speak up!
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 29 (view)
 
i really need help!
Posted: 7/16/2009 4:27:06 PM

NO CONTACT make him realize he lost a good thing, make him think!!!! Everyday you will become stronger

Exactly, and trust us OP many of us have at one time or another in our lives been EXACTLY where you are right now. It WILL get better with time and I have to agree with some of the others and the quote above, if you ever want to get over him, which you NEED to do, you must have ZERO contact with him for a very long time. If you keep having any sort of contact with him in any form you will never heal and get over him. Also as many have said too, you're still quite young and this is just the beginning of a few more of these heartaches to deal with. Just give yourself time and it will get better, trust those of us that have been there/done that. Live strong OP!
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 13 (view)
 
question for the men
Posted: 7/16/2009 3:57:11 PM

sounds like he has control issues and may want to keep you alone in the wings in case he changes his mind or needs a booty call.

Almost what I was thinking or one of those, "if I can't have her or be with her no one will" sort of deals. But I agree with the restraining order idea of it can apply to your situation OP, oh and by the way LOVE the ink. Good luck and be careful.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 6 (view)
 
First Message
Posted: 7/15/2009 5:38:48 PM
Well OP that is typically how I used to go about my introduction letters, when I bothered writing, and thought it was a decent ice breaker as well as make a few references to something in their profile and a tad bit of humor, but rarely ever got a reply so I bagged the whole messaging first deal. Now if someone takes the time to message me I at least show the common courtesy to reply back, but your way seems fine and I'd not mind it a bit to get one like that. Keep on doing what you're doing and the right one will appereciate it and will write back.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 7 (view)
 
what do guys have against tomboys?
Posted: 7/15/2009 5:35:09 PM

Heavy metal girls cut themselves, and only chicks dig scars.

WRONG, and I call bullshit on this one, heavy metal chicks rule and do NOT cut themselves you MUST be confused with the emo types.

Well not all men have something against Tomboys . Myself would prefer a woman who was a Tomboy and not afraid to get dirty

Gotta agree here, OP it's not that "guys" have any issues with tomboys, it's the "boys" in your age range that do NOT yet know what the hell they are looking for and are missing a chance to get to know a great girl like you. Try looking around for a different type of guy or in a slightly different age range and good luck
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Would you date someone who wore braces?
Posted: 7/15/2009 5:22:00 PM

Whoa!!! if someone is shallow enough not to date you because of braces then you're probably better of not meeting them in the first place

Exactly, I see it as something someone is doing to improve themselves and have NO problems with it at all. I wore them many years ago and I still made lots of friends and still hung out with the girls on occasion in Jr High, so that shouldn't be a factor. It's most likely their immaturity OP for not sticking around and not taking the time to get to know you, look at it as THEIR loss.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 49 (view)
 
Men that taste test
Posted: 7/14/2009 2:11:29 PM
Can't say I've ever done this, much less even considered doing it. In most cases one can tell if going down is going to be a pleasant experience or not and no "finger licking" needs to be done to determine this. If it's not going to be very good one can usually tell once they get down there and therefore there is no need for the "taste test" to tell you. That was not only very rude but quite insensitive. Hmm the OP having baby powder smell, now that I can truly enjoy as well.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Just wondering how others feel about body art
Posted: 7/13/2009 6:18:53 PM
I think they're pretty cool on most people. I have however seen some that made me want to go and ask them WTF were you thinking when you "paid" someone to do this to you, and yet I have seen some fantastic artwork. Within the last, oh 5-10 years I have come to change my thoughts and opinions on this. These was a time when I thought a woman with a tattoo was nasty and easy, but as I got a bit older and began seeing some great work my thoughts and opinions changed, drastically. Now I think they're kinda sexy, no matter where they are, on most women. And some guys have some cool shit too, still not quite on the nipple and genital piercings bandwagon yet, but am very slowly beginning to think differently about them.
 
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