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 Author Thread: Not attracted towards you
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Not attracted towards you
Posted: 4/29/2019 5:48:40 PM
He has been taking me for lunch every Sunday for many months and a walk after. We have become good friends.
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
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Not attracted towards you
Posted: 10/20/2018 10:49:21 AM
Met a man on my daily walk and we chatted for one hour and before he left he said he is NOT attracted towards me but loves my personality which is always happy, bubbly and positive.

He asked me if I would go on a lunch date with him one day soon. He gave me his phone number.

I am always honest and straightforward so asked him why he wishes to take me on a lunch date when he is NOT attracted towards me.

He responded he enjoys chatting with me and spending time with me.

So, should I go on a lunch date with him?
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Why is so Tipping/gratitude so expected in Vancouver ?
Posted: 7/18/2014 7:00:22 PM
My friend pays cab drivers and restaurants by credit card and in that way she has control as to whether she wishes to tip or not.
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 2 (view)
 
POF Mixer Burnaby + Complimentary Drink
Posted: 7/10/2014 10:14:57 AM
Is that the "Grand Villa Casino" in Burnaby?
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Oh Good Lord... Valentine's Day
Posted: 2/16/2013 12:58:51 PM
I went to "Harrison Hot Springs" with a friend who owns a limousine....We took the long scenic drive there....walked tons there and ended eating chinese food smorgasbord and then went dancing and had fresh whole wheat bread and tea for brekkie the next morning and came back on Friday noon time.

Had a blast...Nice "Valentine Day" for sure.
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
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Family Lawyer in GVRD
Posted: 2/27/2010 11:41:52 AM
perhaps the internet/yellow pages might help you

Bentall Centre has some lawyers too but I have no experience with any lawyers regarding child issues.
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 119 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 2/17/2010 11:09:02 PM
OP..it seems your ex has a more aggressive lawyer as she seems to get her way with your son. Your son is growing up and you are missing all that. Interesting how she takes the child support from you and yet denies you , your son.

Perhaps you need to change your lawyer as everything you are doing is still not allowing you to see your son.
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Name that vegetable!
Posted: 2/10/2010 9:29:50 PM
artichoke? do i win anything
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 113 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 9/21/2009 10:38:45 AM
OP..no comment from you in a while and hope things are better and you are getting more visits with your son.
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 111 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 8/24/2009 7:30:10 PM
OP...it seems your ex is giving you a hard time and very limited time with your son.

Hopefully the judge will see all that (and how diligent you have been in paying child support monthly), and give you more days to be with your son .

Your ex is using breast feeding as an excuse but your son is growing and she could easily express the milk and you can feed your son., and thus have longer and frequent time with him.
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 109 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 8/19/2009 8:48:10 PM
since OP is paying monthly child support and his son is 3 months old now, I am sure he will get more visits and hopefully be able to take his sons pictures too and visits will become unsupervised.
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 108 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 8/16/2009 7:25:32 PM
OP is just being a father who loves his son a lot and savouring every minute he can with his son.

Good for you , OP, you are the dad for your son so you enjoy your son every second you can as your son is growing and changing fast.
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 106 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 8/16/2009 6:19:01 PM
Another 2 weeks will soon go by and you can hold your son again.

OP...how old is your son now?
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 103 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 8/14/2009 5:29:13 PM
Time moves slowly so you can enjoy your son growing up slowly...best time for you and him.
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 101 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 7/31/2009 1:26:43 AM
OP...very glad that you can see and take pictures of your son.

Patience is a virtue and hopefully as weeks go by you will get unsupervised frequent visits with him.

Just have to focus on the positive and enjoy and love him.
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 99 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 7/27/2009 4:43:51 PM
OP...so happy that you are indeed the dad.

however, not fair that you dont get much time with your son at this time.

you do need a lawyer who will get you more visits and why do you need supervised visits?

you are missing out on your sons everyday life by having limited visits.
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 97 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 7/20/2009 5:03:40 PM
OP...did you get to see your son again today? Hope he is healthy.
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 96 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 7/17/2009 11:00:49 PM
OP...congrats...I am extremely happy for you...enjoy your son...you are already a good dad and the rest will come easy now.
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 94 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 7/17/2009 5:45:59 PM
OP...so how was it meeting and holding your son today?

will you get to see him frequently now?
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 93 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 7/16/2009 8:58:39 PM
OP...tomorrow is a big day for you.

Good luck and hope it all goes well for you.
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 91 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 7/14/2009 11:05:22 PM
OP...congrats on being the father of your son...very happy for you...enjoy your son...you are going to be a great father.

what a great gift for your birthday.

"Happy birthday".
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 89 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 7/13/2009 10:27:16 PM
OP...you misunderstand my comments completely.

I just do not want you to be disappointed if the baby is not yours.

It is very easy to say you are preparing for the worse (that the baby is not yours), but in your inner heart you really want to be the father of this baby.

I wish you all the best and if the paternity test does prove you are the father, then you are truly blessed and will be a good father.

This baby will be blessed and lucky to have you as the father.
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 85 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 7/10/2009 11:28:42 AM
OP...you keep on saying "your" son...lets hope that is the result of the paternity test, as it seems you really want to be the father of this baby.
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 82 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 7/9/2009 9:43:53 PM
OP...has already got a lawyer and it has been many days that he has not responded as to what is happening.
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 81 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 7/8/2009 9:19:08 PM
OP...hope your ex did not use cocaine and alcohol (as you stated she uses) during her pregnancy and also she is not verbally abusive (like you stated she verbally threatened) to the baby.

Hopefully the baby will remain healthy (physically, emotionally and mentally).
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 79 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 7/4/2009 3:22:44 PM
OP...be thankful you did not get married to your ex.

Too bad she is acting so difficult regarding the baby.

Hope your next update here will be positive for you and the baby.
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 78 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 6/29/2009 10:40:37 PM
OP...if you can get "character references" from your boss and other adults that know you (not related to you).

Make sure you make copies of it and write down everything that happens between your lawyer and in court .

Do not trust your ex or her friends or her family members and dont discuss this issue with them....as they could twist your words and jeopardize your chances in court.

Be very cautious/smart who you trust and share this issue with.

Good luck!
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 77 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 6/29/2009 10:20:49 PM
OP...has the paternity test already been done and if so when do you get the results?

Also when she had the miscarriage was that your baby?

Seems you have a long road ahead of you in legal matters regarding the baby...so sad for you and the baby.
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 75 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 6/26/2009 10:00:49 PM
OP...any news about the baby yet?
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 74 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 6/17/2009 10:33:51 PM
OP...best for the court to decide.

seems like your ex does not wish to co-operate and is not very fond of you.

get the paternity test done ASAP.
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 72 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 6/16/2009 10:24:59 PM
OP...you mentioned your ex already had one miscarriage...was that your baby too?
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 71 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 6/15/2009 7:17:52 PM
OP...congrats on being the father and might as well change in your profile that you have children.

Hopefully you will hold your son very soon.
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 69 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 6/15/2009 1:31:50 PM
OP..."fathers day" is coming up...wonder what that means for you. What was the result of the paternity test?
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 68 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 6/9/2009 7:02:32 PM
OP..save some tears for when the paternity test comes back.

OP..if the baby is yours, are you planning to marry her or she is not interested in that?
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 66 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 6/2/2009 9:55:26 PM
OP...guess you are not allowed to hold him yet till the results of the paternity test come. That is sad as you are already missing out on so much with the baby.
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 64 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 6/2/2009 8:18:57 PM
OP..what was the result of the paternity test? have you seen and held the baby yet?
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 55 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 5/29/2009 3:28:32 PM
OP...perhaps you have read msg # 116 and msg #118 and have some answers.
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 53 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 5/28/2009 6:45:47 PM
days are passing by and soon you will get the results.

OP...hope the answer is what you want it to be.
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 51 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 5/27/2009 5:26:47 PM
OP...wow! you sure are working fast with getting a room ready for the baby.

what happens if you are not the father?
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 49 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 5/26/2009 3:27:22 PM
OP...only two things can happen now...

DNA test will say baby is NOT yours and your ex can pay for legal fees /test and you can get a closure and move on.

DNA test will say baby is yours and you can love and enjoy him for the rest of your life and also be responsible for him (which is what you want) and remain on good terms with your ex for the sake of the baby.

You are going to be a great dad...you sound very matured and responsible...kudos to you.
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 47 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 5/25/2009 11:45:53 AM
OP...keep us posted once the paternity test results come.
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 41 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 5/24/2009 11:17:41 PM
OP..have you already had a paternity test to prove that you are definitely the father of this baby?

Babies are always a blessing and once the test proves you are the father, then the rest follows with visitation rights and child support.

congrats, if ur the father of this baby son. Hope you get support from your parents too.

you sound like a good man and hope things work out for you and the baby(if he is really yours).
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 39 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 5/24/2009 6:41:43 PM
hope baby and mum are doing well.

now to find out if you are the father of the baby.

OP...do u want to be the father of the baby?
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Stunned & Blindsided
Posted: 5/24/2009 6:34:55 PM
you are already on this site and looking for "other relationship"., so it seems you have already moved on!
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 37 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 5/23/2009 9:04:58 PM
baby should be born soon...yeepee!

hope OP will update once baby is born.
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 5 (view)
 
dating...but still married
Posted: 5/18/2009 6:18:53 PM
OP..i would borrow the money and get a divorce...that way you can start a new life and have peace of mind and get it over and done with.
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 15 (view)
 
should I leave her
Posted: 5/10/2009 1:39:12 PM
OP...You do NOT have to leave her, as she has already left you.
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 36 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 5/8/2009 6:09:46 PM
hope the baby is born healthy
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 33 (view)
 
PLANNED PREGNANCY GONE........????
Posted: 5/2/2009 12:03:44 PM
OP is no longer responding here, so who knows what happened regarding the baby.
 alwaysyummy
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Subconscious signs of giving up
Posted: 4/30/2009 6:54:17 PM
i dont think you are throwing in the towel. I think as one gets older, one becomes more contented in life and are not much into stuff and just want and need the basics.

i downsized from a big 3 bedroom house to one bedroom apartment a few years ago and that was the best decision i made...less stuff and less cleaning to do.

best of all no out of town relatives/friends can stay overnight at my place and hence less stress.
 
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