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 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 45 (view)
 
Warning women about a dangerous guy on pof
Posted: 3/19/2016 9:32:25 PM
Reese. sorry I am not buying your story, the catch is you are afraid for other women that they might date this man so you have to warn them ? A normal person is more afraid for herself, quit the dating website, move from her apartment that this man can not trace her. And the police let him go because he is just visiting?
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 44 (view)
 
Warning women about a dangerous guy on pof
Posted: 3/19/2016 9:05:31 PM
Msg.:1

The guy beat the crap out of you and put a knife on your throat ? What is the provocation you did to him ? Or is it you dated a derange man ? well don't be afraid of the next woman your ex date will date perhaps the next woman is smarter than you and blablablabla .
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 196 (view)
 
what is the deal with lesbians?
Posted: 2/4/2016 5:48:58 PM

what is the deal with lesbians? [ /quote ]

Hmm, let me think . My intelligent quitient is non MENSA but I will do my best on how I percieve lesbianism..

Lesbians thought they are men without D I CK S . They enjoy other women for intimacy and they think they are
ice cream on a cone for LICKING . They are like cobra with snapping long tongue.


Vannili

P>S>
Blunders are under your care,
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 77 (view)
 
What will you compromise? Or trade off?
Posted: 2/4/2016 5:20:01 PM

what will you compromise ? Or trade off ? we have been through the horror dates........ [/quote ]


Personally , when it comes to know a person socially , trying my luck that he is the one to share my life .

I don't believe on compromising or trading off anything, because it is not a Business venue, if we click to each other so be it..
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 60 (view)
 
Do fat women REALLY get offended when men respond back telling them they aren't interested?
Posted: 2/4/2016 3:54:51 AM

Oh Vannili I gotta say I love you and missed you ! [/quote}


I love you too coffetogo11127 , It has been a while I haven't visited the forums, I am glad that you still remember me..
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 62 (view)
 
When did men stop bathing?
Posted: 2/2/2016 10:06:12 PM
^^^^^

Why not ? The men in France douse their self on Cologne and if they swept me romanticaly , I will swoon and fainted like a Victorian lady...
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 60 (view)
 
That might have to wait until payday...
Posted: 2/2/2016 9:51:46 PM
Msg. #1 :

Quirky Teacher ,don't feel bad about the outcome of your date. Perhaps the guy is not enterested on Itailan food. Or the price is not on his budyet for two. I understand that it made you feel BLAH, but he is being honest and if I were you. I will respect him for that. On dating, I always follow the Etiquette of Miss Manners, if a man invited me for a dinner and ask me what restaurant I want to go, I' will insist that it is his decision where he want to eat..whether he takes me to MacDonald hamburger or an expensive French Restaurant it is okay with me. Now comes the second deal , I will ask him if it is a "dutch treat"( I will pay my own & he pays his own) if he said " IN this country the one who invited you is the one who pay. the third deal I will ask him if it is okay with him that I will take care of the tips. and I always select the cheapest on the menu.. Believe me there is no hustle on this... I also return the favor by treating a man, I gave him my money discreetly to pay for both of us. I will not disgrace my self paying a man's meals in public.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 61 (view)
 
be careful of JOY2678
Posted: 2/2/2016 3:46:05 AM

I think the OP is having a case pf sour graped cause this guy is a 10 inch personality


cooldog , I think so too, just his Title it makes me tremble, JOY 2678, is that 2,678 hours or 2,678 minutes ?
Just between us hush,hush, Perhaps the OP worned out his 10 inches personality, for having a good time and great joy with him and she warn other women .............. Well , on my previous post I mention I am hanging 25 % on a thread but if that thread snap I will definetly go for him and I promise I will not bad mouth the dude so that other women will experience what I experience I am saying this on straight face.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 58 (view)
 
Do fat women REALLY get offended when men respond back telling them they aren't interested?
Posted: 2/2/2016 3:03:29 AM
Msg. #! :

NOoooo, I will not be offended, if a man said he is not enterested of my sexual advances, but if I meet him eye to eye personaly and I greeted him a good day or saw his POF profile and notice something that is enteresting on the background of his photos, and mention it to him and his reply is I am not enterested , I am still not offended but he can not blame me of what my impression of him as a brain dead person..

If a man said I am a hot SEXY Babe . when I know that I am skin and bones I will be very,very very very offended.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 59 (view)
 
When did men stop bathing?
Posted: 2/2/2016 2:40:21 AM
Msg: #1 :

OMG !!! Perhaps those men did not pay their water bills, or they just got out from their work as a construction laborer or Garbage collector to meet you. Or a homeless man perhaps ?
A decent w/man won't even mention the hygiene of a person, they dated , because it reflect their kind of life they are into. Or is it like the wolf saying the grapes is sour any way because he can not reach it ?

No wonder , they want to kill POF Forum...
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Finding the Right Person is Hard and Getting Harder, Particularly, if You are a Person of Faith
Posted: 1/27/2016 8:57:18 PM
esadora, we are the same fish on the same pond, good for you you found a God fearing man 70 years old and his stick is frozen and not fresh. Well , I guess , he put it in the freezer and WILL thaw it out after his wedding ,for he is a God fearing man, no sex before getting your marriage licence for it is a crime in the Bible..

Just curious, it is stated on your profile that you have a 1 year relationship, were you married for a year or just boyfriend/girlfriend lovers or like brother and sister relationships ?



Jews for Jesus ? Jesus was a Jew, a Rabi Jew.
 vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 48 (view)
 
be careful of JOY2678
Posted: 1/20/2016 11:21:17 PM
Thank you Great Joy Great Times for the warning I will be careful for JOY 2678 . It sadden me to know that he is married unemployed and he has no licence due to a DUI, he is a drunkard.. I am only 75 % desperate for a man ,but I will hang to that 25% not to be desperate..

Vannili
 vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 6 (view)
 
If you're hotter than me....
Posted: 1/20/2016 10:25:29 PM
Message #1:

My take on this, is the quality of the mind (intelligence ) that makes a person beautiful on how s/he express and impress others by her/his physics and personality..
 vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 38 (view)
 
stealing debit card
Posted: 1/20/2016 10:11:05 PM
perfecta, I sorry to what happened to your bank account because of the goodness of your heart..I hope you will get back all your money by taking him to the court.
 vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Why are girls from Philippines mailing me?
Posted: 1/20/2016 9:42:52 PM
Message #1.

I was wondering too why some men from UK, Italy and Spain are emailing me, Perhaps they think I am a retired Gold Diggers from the Philippines very rich hottie older woman residing in the USA.. I hope ,I am very wrong thinking that they are Gigolo after my USD. that I worked hard for it ,working 2 jobs supporting my ailing late (white ) husband,until he passed away....
.
So what can I say craig2th we are on the same pond of a lots of other fish here at POF..
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 49 (view)
 
Income factor when dating women. Is money really an issue?
Posted: 11/10/2015 12:25:54 PM
south_ city


For some women, money is important. [//quote]

Money is important for both gender. I wonder how they can survive without money (job) ?? Oh Yeah , bartering might work ,he can barter me his Zuchinni and I can barter my a pair of Apples and a lovely pumpkin..


PS.LOL
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 55 (view)
 
Are on the men on POF crazy, or do I just attract them?
Posted: 11/3/2015 8:26:42 AM
I am not worried by not being kiss by a date. LOL
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Income factor when dating women. Is money really an issue?
Posted: 11/3/2015 7:31:25 AM
Money is a big factor on a person's life, on how he survive in this world, he may work hard to achieve a comfortable and fine living or work a low paying jobs with no hassles and live a peaceful mediocre life... There is no right and wrong on either poor or rich the name of the game here is you are independent,
I am in a middle class bracket ( I am very careful on my spending to stay afloat in other words to be independent )so I only dated middle class independent men, with a social culture. I learned a lesson ,dating a guy on very low income .he was not interested in me, but his situations a big factor in our entire conversation , I ended paying for our meals and he ordered take home to put on my bill..

Assumming everything is perfectly fine with the guy how much is his a factor is his income ? American Women are Heartless ??? [/ quote]

My take on this is don't gauge your income to the person whom you want to date , but gauge your income on how you want to live... I am not American Woman, and I am having a hard time supporting myself, I don't think I want a man who don't know what is the meaning of finances.. Perhaps your penpal in Paris want to come in America and her gambit is American women are Heartless LOL.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 79 (view)
 
Whats up with prayer?
Posted: 10/29/2015 1:53:18 PM
Msg. #1 :

Prayer makes you calm and clear headed
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 27 (view)
 
If you could ask God one question, what would it be?
Posted: 10/29/2015 1:49:33 PM
My belief is GOD is inside me and everywhere. I would ask GOD ,Have you eaten yet ???
 vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 29 (view)
 
getting messed around after 3rd date.
Posted: 10/27/2015 7:40:46 PM
Perhaps the girl is married or living with a boyfriend.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 463 (view)
 
What do 50+ men want?
Posted: 5/18/2015 9:21:07 AM
old_hag on :

Those 50 + REALLY ,REALLY WANT why they are here on dating website ?? They really really want a woman with a nice tits & ass younger than their grand daughters. ****es or gold diggers are okay to them ... old hag if you are lucky that some one fall for you, they move in with you and they want you to serve them hand and foot, be a good care giver on their declining years, and support them like you are truly a saint loving wife, their reason is good thing that HE fall for you, when you are not spring chicken and not a sexy young thing. It hurts but that is the reality of those dudes that are 50 + ... but I hope you will meet a nice man who will share his life with you , who will love you of who you are. God is kind ,God did not make all 50+ men users and unkind. There are lots of good 50 +men out there too.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 53 (view)
 
How do I get over my doubts
Posted: 5/18/2015 8:45:00 AM
Buschbabe, You are very attractive woman , what is the problem ?
Is it because you are not skinny ? These guys you met want to talk ? If you mean the kind of talk I have in mind then talk to them socially, using your mind through your voice.
Sophia Loren said : A woman who thinks she is beautiful is a beautiful woman.

when they ask for a full body pic, they run far far away.
If I were you ,I will not be bother with those of morons , they already know on your half body profile photos that you are a full bodied person, and there is nothing wrong about that..
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 106 (view)
 
Women and Fake Beauty
Posted: 5/18/2015 8:21:15 AM
Msg.#1:

As a woman , I believe that you have to enhance your looks, by grooming, by good status, and good morals. It is a big mistakes for some girls that showing their tits and ass , glamour looks , that they can retain the attention and love of a man, they sure look cheap as a person. They represent their self as good for nothing, but disposable sex objects.
I don't believe on fake beauty, like eyebrows ,eyelids, lips tattoos and cosmetic surgeries, I believe to be a true person "what you see is what you get".. I know I am not a candidate for a Beauty Pageant but my attitude surpassed my looks , I can motivate a person makes feel good about his / her self, and that makes me enchanting and attractive to people. In other word > using your mind to communicate, good representation ,is CHARISMA....
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 95 (view)
 
Talking about past relationships.
Posted: 4/30/2015 6:36:21 PM

I seriously can not judge his fast ( error corrected ) past , on a second thought , I judge him as a loose mouth,
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 94 (view)
 
Talking about past relationships.
Posted: 4/27/2015 7:39:53 AM
Msg. #1:

My experienced is , a date talking about his failed relationship is boring me to death , of course the story is he was the hero and woman is the villain.. I seriously can not judge his character by talking his fast ,on a second thought , I judge him as a loose mouth.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Players
Posted: 3/13/2015 2:55:19 PM
msg.#28:

I agree with you a 100 %
a no response already lets you know they are not interested.
Unless the person is asking the background of your photo if it is in Florida ect..
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 21 (view)
 
A nice little forum for discussing scientific and other intellectual issues
Posted: 2/14/2015 8:12:30 PM
Msg.1 :

I don't know if I am eligible to participate on Mensa discussions , I don't have a high IQ , I am street smart.
but it would be fun to know what they have in their mind about things.
Thanks for sharing , I will check it.

Vannili
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 27 (view)
 
When do we start to die?
Posted: 2/14/2015 7:59:25 PM
Msg. #1 :

We start to die even in young age if we don't use our mind to learn and experience negative and positive matters.
When we grow old like starting 55 ism our body is susceptible on desease and our mind is not as sharp as when we
are younger and our body decline on strength.


I am 38 and I would say my body has finally finished its growing and being full of energy, and from now on it's all downhill as I slowly die ?


For me My belief is as long as I am healthy and full of energy I am hoping to reach 104 years old. I may no longer a bikini hot babe, but I will be a full of wisdom old woman.

Have you read the book of Thich Nhat Hanb and the Holy Dalai Lama ? It inspired me to accept my age and feel young and enjoy life.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 78 (view)
 
Women who usually wear heels and men who lie about their height
Posted: 2/14/2015 9:16:19 AM
Msg.#1.

Some women doesn't care about the height of a man, ( they cared their masculinity and great personality ,good financial status ) what they cared is they lies they are single and pretending they have a personal elevated life. But the truth is they are uneducated and poor.

I have seen tall women with short men with charismatic and great personality..
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 85 (view)
 
How do you define compatability?
Posted: 2/14/2015 9:01:22 AM
For me ,compatible is wanting that person to bond with me harmoniously and we are on the same journey of life evoking each other to attach emotionally. It is not really necessary that we are clone to each other of like and dislike, .. These things doesn't really work to be compatible with each other , it is easier that the two person has the same aspiration and the same background.

What I observe on long marriages , myself , my parents, & relatives is a decision to want that person passionately, and embrace the reality that the other person is a human that err. Guide your partner to his/her best to treat as he /she wants to be treated.
Life is process of Give And Take , Honesty, Respect. My take is if you don't respect that person anymore let her/him go ,don't lower your standard to cheat or do things despicable.

Just my 2 cents
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 22 (view)
 
guy
Posted: 2/5/2015 4:25:21 PM

Tell him to you want to meet him. Put him in a position To ask you out. If he starts shying away, say" I'm in the mood for giving BJ's" I think he'll perk up right up, then . Even talk about where and when to meat ! : )


That surely got my attention on the words >>> "in the mood for giving BJ''s "
and where to meat.

Do you think you need an ice cold shower ?
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 64 (view)
 
Curious: Why are you still here if you have a relationship
Posted: 2/2/2015 10:03:02 PM

The forum section is not a Dating Site. that's why :)


Now you are talking my talk, but you have to be a member of the Dating Site for a profile to be a member of the social forums.. If you score on the dating site a lot or zero, You are not obligated to answer some busybody questioning you, about your PERSONAL BUSINESS..


I know I am a boring person, I kept myself to myself, whether I don't have any ACTIONS ,or I am sleeping around and looking for a fling, or I have a relationship but I am still on the MARKET .........
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 80 (view)
 
No connection, no chemistry, no passion...but....they're nice?
Posted: 2/2/2015 3:05:23 AM
Msg. #1 :


No connection, no chemistry, no passion but they 're nice ?


There must be some good reason, that you can't connect with them perhaps personality CLASHES
"being nice/POLITE is CIVIL ". it is not really a big deal but being BABARIAN is a big deal..

For a normal person if he met some one that he has nothing in common he would not even befriend that person he would politely exit and bid the person a good day.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 51 (view)
 
Curious: Why are you still here if you have a relationship
Posted: 2/2/2015 2:47:19 AM
Curiousity kills the Cat. that is an old saying,

Some people are still here for the POF forums, even they are already in relationship..
for most of them work on computer and they take a break on posting and answering post.
and for me this is like c ocktail party mingling with lots of people with out leaving your house.

VVVV it is a an education to learn people'spersonality through their mind and what they posted here
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 94 (view)
 
Weight difference in pics?
Posted: 1/28/2015 8:21:22 PM
Please be kind don't rub salt on the person's wound it is hurting her/him enough , That she doesn't feel beautiful
because of his/her over weight.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 93 (view)
 
Weight difference in pics?
Posted: 1/28/2015 8:03:06 PM

I don't understand why American men are so absessed of women's weight and make a BIG ISSUE ABOUT IT
and not their personality? People gain ot lose weight ,it has something to do with metabolism and tyroidor whatever,
some gain weight because of water retention or when they age like 40 +the become inactive, they gained weight.

I have encountered men in this forums that Asian women don't gain weight and that is a silly notion.
The big argument is American men mostly have a shallow mind , the thrash stout/chubby women ,that they will go to the Philippiness/ Thailand/ China/ Korea . Japan/ TO MARRY A SKINNY WOMAN ,That is not smart reason. No wonder divorce rate is high in the USA, American men don't on look on how the women's feelings, is she in love with him and how she will treat him ? I have heard this on the media/ or any interview to an Asian Men,
A Question-- What Did You Like About This woman ?

#1 A poor man answer.>> She is vey Kind and Sweet To Me, and she's pretty isn't she ?
#2 A middle class man answer >>>She is kind and sweet to me. she is educated,she has a nice job and she come from a good family.
#3- A rich man, She is kind and sweet to me, she is smart with a good career, she was once a Beauty Pageant of Miss Universe and of course she come from a rich family too.
The moral of my post is a person is not his/her weight. Of course there are some obese people not just here in the USA,, that is why every body is trying to lose weight to have a healthy and Sexy body and a long life.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 81 (view)
 
Weight difference in pics?
Posted: 1/27/2015 9:17:18 PM
I don't understand why American men are so obsessed of women's weight and make a BIG ISSUE ABOUT IT. and not their personality ? People gain or lose weight it has something to do with metabolism and tyroid or whatever some gain weight because of water retention or when they age like 40 + the become inactive. they gain weight


How should I ask about the difference in weight without sounding mean or judgemental ?


It is really a tough job questioning a person why her 3 picture is slim and the 4th one is not, perhaps some good hearted forumites can come with a good question, so one will say that you are mean and judgmental that is really bad.

Meh, I don't care being mean and judgmental, what I am worried is being dumb and stupid to question her for her photos,
I am rocking my brain hard>>>>>>>>>>> that perhaps the 3 photos was taken before she gain weight on the 4th photo or vice versa. Or the 4 photos was not taken on the same time/month/year. I have a headache , blow up doll Dora is a better choice.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 80 (view)
 
Should you always go through with a meet and greet?
Posted: 1/27/2015 6:01:19 PM

Then when we meet the woman 's 50-100 lbs over weight I walk right up and say " You know what my preference are and you lied to me, so I'm going to go".


A real personal trainer for fitness or fanatic on body building are very lean well muscled bicep and very trim waist not looking chunky and they show an aura of strength even on their lean faces, I guessed strenuous exercise and weight lifting is a pressure to endure . I was a dancer when I was young so body building is not my thing.
If I were you ,I will charm that over weight woman, for an" income" as her personal fitness trainer, and for sure I will not look down on FAT WOMEN but an opportunity to help them to have a lean,sexy, healthy strong ,energetic bodies , as a fitness trainer and that spell MORE INCOME. Hey maybe some romance too if the become chunky opps I meant muscled like you. just sayin,,,,,, no bad intention.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 78 (view)
 
Should you always go through with a meet and greet?
Posted: 1/27/2015 8:00:55 AM
msg.#74

Just wondering why don't you hit those women working out at the Gym, so you know what you are getting ?
Insulting women of their weight is not a CLASS ACT. Every body lied and being Lied for the purpose of "getting away with it or in their mind ,they think, they are Sexy even they are 50-1oo lbs . overweight or they think the man they are meeting is more interested in their personality /IQ not their BODY WEIGHT.

I think you are lying if you admit that You Never Lied In Your Life.

You may think you are an Adonis, looking at your profile did not even turn me on.

Sexy ness is in the mind on how your project your self ,and the words that comes out from your mouth. just my 2 cents
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 76 (view)
 
Should you always go through with a meet and greet?
Posted: 1/27/2015 6:42:18 AM

"You know what my preferences are and you lied to me. so I ,m going to go".


Sir ,I don't want to label you as a Mashogamist or what ever because you are a person not a pair of shoes.
My comment on your words is " it is cold as corpse". If I were in your body, I would say that too if I see them as a dead meat
not a warm human beings. Perhaps working in some Human Resourses , I can learn something to treat others like I want to be treated, with kindness and DIGNITY.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 75 (view)
 
Should you always go through with a meet and greet?
Posted: 1/27/2015 6:15:23 AM
Msg.#1:

Meeting wo/men through dating site, emailing , listening to his /her on the phone doesn't guaranty
that the person whom you form a great imagination through his/her pictures , words, voice, is the man you will be meeting. I come early on a meeting place ,mostly Casino bars,(cheap drinks) , and check the man's personality discreetly, for any reasons I don't want to meet him , I will ask a Co cktail waitress or a bartender to serve him 2 beers or whatever he wants, pay the cost of the drinks plus tips ,it is not from me but from my "boss ". And vanish as fast as I can, and call him that I can't make it with a silly drama alibi. Most men that are down on their luck spent time at public library with their portable computer using the outlet or using the library computer for 2 hours limit. I know this because I peaked on the screen ,OMG, Plenty of fish Dating Site. During summer I hang out at the library browsing and reading books, and to cool of, " can't afford air condition or swamp cooler in the house, even I save money on drinks I buy for these few guys that I stood up it is not enough... This is how I rock......
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 96 (view)
 
What if you found your soul mate was the same sex as you?
Posted: 1/27/2015 4:55:30 AM
MSG #1 :
According to Dr. Edgar Cayce ,there is no such thing as soul mate, and I believe his explanation. My belief is each of us already form in our consciousness the kind of person whom we want to spend our life one on one ,through our observation on people. I have so many friends, male and mostly female that we always bond, pot luck/party or going to some places, you may say we have great feelings to each other. what I observe is we are respectful ,giving and laugh a lot. But I don't call that we are soul mates.
I would like to share you my story, when I was young I was an expat , working and moonlighting to send money home for family, On my day off I clean houses, tourist guide and in the evening I dance in a club where those American service men from these huge ships hangouts. to make a story short, I was fighting with this girl {I can't remember the reason} verbal combatant , I geared myself like Manny Pacqiaow ready to give her a punch, This American guy sitting in a booth, said stop several times to me in a nice way, I guessed he was bothered drinking his beer by loud voices or my raining saliva is reaching him. He stand up and grab me and kiss me on the mouth for a long time, until I calm down. I was a topic of gossiped in the community > hah that is the girl kissed by AMERICANO. The truth is we don't hang out with American service men . we women think that only prostitutes hang out with them.... from that night I decided I will marry an American man by hook or by crook. Yes I married an American man 2 x divorce, it lasted 18 years until he passed away. I don't think he was my soul mate or maybe he was my soul mate who am I to argue with you.
We work it to have a good marriage that is all I can say. In this day , I still go for Americano for a partner.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 164 (view)
 
Men in this age group and money
Posted: 1/26/2015 8:33:22 AM

You just blew your own argument. You said women are either whores after a guys money or appreciate his character like. Now you are talking about "giving away free milk" which in 1920 meant a woman having sex without
the ringie the guy's money Tsk,tsk.


So this 2000 + you are implementing that women on the year of 1920 ish have sex with out the ring, what ever that means and it has something to do with "free milk" Vannili's quote. .now 2015 women having sex with out the benefits of marriage , they buy their own bling bling ring at Walmart. and the call their baby's father my boyfriend.


I've noticed your accent varies defending on the strength of your argument :D Just teasing.

One super stupid is enough , so I am not participating on this post because joining you makes me stupid , and there is no more room for another stupid

No comments and PEACE..
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 163 (view)
 
Men in this age group and money
Posted: 1/26/2015 6:49:48 AM
demidar

I have faith that you are civilize and kind man, losing your cool is not worth it for these provocations ,I understand
that the topic of debate went out of control. I apologize on my comment , about changing team instead of women go for men..
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 132 (view)
 
Why do so many men end up with unkind women
Posted: 1/26/2015 6:26:43 AM
Clooneystutor

Your argument is so refreshing , I agree with you, but let's tackle the root of what makes a woman intitled to insult a man, disrespect him as a human being. These women are from divorce family, They see Father as money/goodtimes/ materials things. They did not bond with father as a family; loving, strict, and disiplinarian. When Mom and Dad meet they are verbally combatant, if Dad lose his job, and can't sent money for child support, then mom hurls all the kind of insult in the book to him or sue him.. These women model is their mom on how to treat a man. Really and trully it has nothing to do with the stars Mars/Venus. I met a lots of divorce women at place work, >> new man-- is so sweet good, bought me this n that, and bad mouth the previous guy. that becomes a pattern, I am happy for them because my life is easier at work for awhile, then back to square one again.

"Let's stay in touch and see if we have a chemistry"
I define Girly Girl that she doesn't do the game of REALITY, that mutual interaction with someone is an effort and energy to make a chemistry.
Let me give an example my late husband was 2x divorce, and he is treating like his former ex wives verbal combatant, we did not go to therapy counselor or whatever, I put him in his place, to treat me kindly... I believe that people change for better, for they have that goodness in there inner core.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 154 (view)
 
Men in this age group and money
Posted: 1/25/2015 6:57:03 PM

As for getting your milk for free ,aren't we a little past this type of thinking ? Sunshinegirl ,you got told


Are you kidding ??? getting a free milk 1900-------2015 fukking with no legal string attach, it is a rampant common practice that the victims are children , baby mamas are fighting for child support.. Baby papas are having a ball, they are like Rooster that they can mate any chicks and lay Eggs for omellete hehheheh

Can't blame people who wants to become a Lawyer for it is a secured career.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 201 (view)
 
Paying for a date
Posted: 1/25/2015 6:23:30 PM
south_ city we are on the same page. But this day and age dating is sexual, I was confirming my dinner date to a transvestite neighbor He/she told me not to say dates , that is fukking, OMG in front of friends! okay appointment then.
whenever someone ask me if I have a boyfriend my answer is always I have no boyfriend but I am dating,
A young girl told me that she understand what I mean ,going dinners,dancing movies, picnic ect. that is the OLD time Dating means sex ,imagine, I was so open to people that I am big time slut, LMAO .. Now I change my lingo I say MEET &" this guy I am talking with.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 128 (view)
 
Why do so many men end up with unkind women
Posted: 1/25/2015 5:56:15 PM
Calguy14
I just a emailed a forumite who met her husband here on the POF
they are bf & gf for a while and finally married.
what I notice about her messages is she doesn't do personal insults to a man. or woman

I say please all the time ,do you think I am weak ?
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 126 (view)
 
Why do so many men end up with unkind women
Posted: 1/25/2015 4:15:02 PM
My post on #123 is sarcasm
please reread it again, there is no such dead brain man that is in a normal relationship, as you know .
I take that back , people with special needs goes with relationship with their own kind for I know
one nice a couple who work at a Thrift store that I use to volunteer.
 
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