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The rules Posted: 1/8/2013 10:35:35 AM
I'm just wondering if they bothered to ask blokes what they thought before they wrote this book.. Just seen the updated version for internet dating..'.don't answer too quickly'..well i'll delete you if you're really slow....'only short answers'...i'll think you're not really interested..again delete 'don't answer after midnight'...what? have you turned into a pumpkin..'never message first' ..what? the perfect looking person hasn't seen your profile yet but because of the 'rules' you shouldn't message him and miss out on your potential soulmate?...unbelievable..i agree not being to upfront is good but a just a bit of help please ladies..as if it isn't hard enough to find the 'damned' chemistry?

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Classical Music Posted: 11/24/2012 10:47:07 AM
Nooooo! i'm a Mozart addict.. don't get why people are hostile to it.. there's nothing like it! I'm not an expert,just love it!

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Ever think someone is out of your league and not messaged them? Posted: 10/28/2012 11:23:42 AM
Too many times to mention...the women on here are snowed under with messages..some good,some bad and the upshot is your confidence is sapped when you don't get a reply and i for one don't message half as much as i'd like to..

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meet me/flirt option for women only Posted: 10/28/2012 11:14:18 AM
Yes know what you mean..i've had women want to 'meet me' AND made me a 'favourite' and then no reply from a friendly/humorous message..what's that all about?

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Just want to send a flirt? Posted: 7/10/2012 4:46:56 PM
"Get rid of the 'meet me' altogether " I get fed up of seeing someone nice to find she lives 100 miles away why don't they just show local women?

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The Right Signals Posted: 4/25/2012 10:07:59 AM
You're right! i'm have no idea and scared of taking anything the wrong way I'm afraid womens subtle behaviour baffles me..

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Love At First Sight! Posted: 4/22/2012 1:14:08 PM
Ok emotional overload...beautiful face,lovely figure,elegantly dressed,lovely manner....an absolute dream. For example.. How do you stay cool if say, your absolute movie star idol comes over to talk to you and is seriously interested in you? it felt like that..

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Love At First Sight! Posted: 4/22/2012 1:03:30 PM
Thanks..she's contacted me a couple of times but its not there from her side and i accept that.. she said i was lovely too but to me that says 'you're real nice but i dont fancy you' Maybe i'm overreacting and there just wasn't any chemistry but she'd contacted me and she suggested we meet so i guess i was more shocked it didn't work out.There's no wonder..after a nice meal we went shopping and all i could do was look at her when she was browsing...i was totally and utterly smitten and i can't believe it but i guess thats not good..lol. The worse bit is i don't know what the cure is....

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Love At First Sight! Posted: 4/22/2012 12:56:21 PM
No its fine,appreciate your comments.She messaged me and after a few txts she asked to meet me.. i never get worked up too much,excited,you know..If you can imagine going to meet who you think is Miss 'Quite Nice'and Miss World turns up... i don't seem to be able to cope with it..i can imagine it might happen again... i think i need a couple of pints first..LOL

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Love At First Sight! Posted: 4/22/2012 10:40:50 AM
Nothing really had been invested...in fact it was the opposite to rose tinted glasses...she was so much better that it was a shock!..a pleasant shock until i had to interact...and thats where it went wrong..not a bumbling mess but not my usual self...i definitely blame myself and my overwhelming regret is that i didnt give a good account of myself and she will always be the one that got away..yes it may not have worked anyway but it will haunt me forever...

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Love At First Sight! Posted: 4/22/2012 10:29:15 AM
Ok i take your point..emotional overload then to the point where you can't function.. i felt like i wasn't taking part and worse than useless...total nightmare.. just not dating beautiful women seems to be avoiding the problem but whats the answer?

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Love At First Sight! Posted: 4/22/2012 9:52:42 AM
Thanks MJR, I do try but it was the visual overload that i just couldn't handle.. you know..like bumping into Gwyneth Paltrow or similar.. and her seeming to be interested in you!! Just tobmake it worse..her photos on here were poor so it was an even greater shock that she was so beautiful.. i know..theres plenty of you shaking your head saying 'whats your problem?'....me included..

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Love At First Sight! Posted: 4/22/2012 5:40:14 AM
I suffered that fate....as soon as i saw her! and of course i was bloody useless after that so there wasn't a cat in hells chance of any chemistry etc and ive never experienced anything so painful on a date. The last half hour was excruciating agony..i have an acute sense for body language etc and could tell what was coming.. To watch your hearts desire walk away as though you'd just given her directions was crushing beyond belief...you'll know what i mean if its happened to you If anybody has any sensible suggestions i'd love to hear them please....

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