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 Author Thread: When does like turn into love?
 yngbld3
Joined: 7/21/2008
Msg: 35 (view)
 
When does like turn into love?
Posted: 6/28/2009 5:06:09 PM
It's my belief that Like turns to love from quality time spent together , & when two wonderful people bring out the best in each other. That can only be derived through trust , coming from the building of a solid foundation based on integrity & (caring what your partner says & feels) letting them know how beautiful & special they are.Sometimes less is more , just be you , because without self love you are incapable of truly loving another. Harry
 yngbld3
Joined: 7/21/2008
Msg: 51 (view)
 
Why are there so many young single mothers aged 18-22?
Posted: 5/21/2009 6:55:26 PM
Well it takes two to make a baby , & the problem isn't in age as much as responsibility. When we were young there was no real means of learning responsibility & knowing of std's & other complexities. But ignorance & the couldn't happen to me aspect clouds their minds.
 yngbld3
Joined: 7/21/2008
Msg: 130 (view)
 
Guns...how young is too young?
Posted: 5/21/2009 6:52:04 PM
I was taught early & responsibly like your son. Handling a gun is a big deal & teaches everyone the responsibility associated with it. Tell him (or yourself )to go on google & show the boy some pictures of hunting "accidents"& gun carelessness seeing as it is so widely avaliable for your teaching him awareness. Good luck!!!! Harry
 yngbld3
Joined: 7/21/2008
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Single Mother of 4
Posted: 5/21/2009 6:46:34 PM
Well you seem very intelligent , sincere & having four kids will only weed out the losers .My mom had four of us @ 22 & I have always been big brother /man of the house....I feel you will find " The One" but don't settle kk?,,,,Harry
 yngbld3
Joined: 7/21/2008
Msg: 52 (view)
 
When To Tell My Girlfriend I have Been Married Before?
Posted: 5/21/2009 6:07:04 PM
Wow a month of togetherness & no inquiries into each others past , that's either sad or stupendous. I hope it all works out bro.Don't make a big deal & just incorporate this into a conversation.....Hope this helped!!!!!! Harry
 yngbld3
Joined: 7/21/2008
Msg: 32 (view)
 
a young girl interest in a older male
Posted: 5/16/2009 9:55:17 AM
My X was younger than me & we got along great. Had it not been for a few problems ( her stealing my discovercard & going crazy) we would probably still be together. I enjoy doing fun stuff & age never came up as a valid point , except in others eyes. But I feel if you are old enough & mature enough to handle a real relationship then have fun! Good luck on your excursion..........Harry
 yngbld3
Joined: 7/21/2008
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Getting back together??
Posted: 5/16/2009 9:50:21 AM
I'd say it depends on who hurt who bro. If she wants to hook up , is that all it's going to be? I have a new outlook that going forward means leaving the past where it is " ago ". I have gotten back together with X's & they say I love you & missed you & it feels ok at first , but goes right back where it left off. I hope it all works out for you! Good luck fishing Harry
 yngbld3
Joined: 7/21/2008
Msg: 108 (view)
 
Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..?
Posted: 5/6/2009 8:23:26 PM
I have never cheated & am an all or nothing type of guy. If you need to be with another , be honest & up front before doing something you can never take back. I feel for the kids stuck in the middle most. I was one of them . My father looked like James Dean & was a serious womanizer. I lost respect for him & vowed to never be similar. Just me I guess.
 yngbld63
Joined: 7/21/2008
Msg: 183 (view)
 
What is great sex
Posted: 9/7/2008 2:48:46 PM
Oh & I meant startle she is beautiful & has an amazing persona
 yngbld63
Joined: 7/21/2008
Msg: 182 (view)
 
What is great sex
Posted: 9/7/2008 2:46:14 PM
God I love the way this lady thinks.The last two women I was with were extremely multi orgasmic , & I think part of it came from my attentiveness & knowing what made them tick like a time bomb. My x had a 30 min O & it was freaking amazing , other than the fact I wasn't allowed to move lol for fear of her losing the intensity .It usually takes me at least 45 min's to achieve mine , but hopefully by then my lady will be on her fourth or fifth & I will still be hard & want to continue with maybe different formats or positions & try to keep a spice & no stress is allowed in the bedroom or on the kitchen table or any other place you deem acceptible.Three hours of sex isn't always like a porno , but more about reading each others wants & needs , because they change with the seasons.There's nothing like making love & looking out the window at the heavy snow fall or making love on the deck in the middle of a rainstorm. Wow talk about some memories.Well that's my 2cents & I don't know if many men are as lucky as I am to have experienced these wonderful things, but good luck to all the fisherpeople Harry
 yngbld63
Joined: 7/21/2008
Msg: 6 (view)
 
wast of time
Posted: 8/30/2008 10:54:29 AM
I have chatted with a few women , & talked on the cell with a few & it seems that it depends on your attitude & where you live. This is not a prostitution ring , it gives people the ability to look at ( hopefully you've posted pic's) & choose whether you might have things in common , yet have the ability to just say nah , without hurting your feelings , or bruising your ego.A waste of time is expecting everything to just happen with no effort on your part.Be honest & see if you've really tried to your full potential.I have seen a few that made my heart skip beats , only to get , sorry but you are too far away or something else.Life goes on , if it's meant to be it will my friend.Have a great fishing trip....Harry
 yngbld63
Joined: 7/21/2008
Msg: 208 (view)
 
Has anyone ever broken the bed?
Posted: 8/24/2008 8:25:58 AM
Oh my what a funny topic Me & my x of about twelve years broke three beds in six years & also broke the passenger seat on my probe gt (long story but a good one) & my sweetheart from this year also . We decorated my spare room for her kids , when they'd visit & one cold snowy night we ended up in there & got busy , ended up breaking all the welds on the frame lol & & broke the frame in three places . We just laughed & went back to our big bed with satin sheets . I actually put cement blocks under the bed to help strenghthen it & we laughed about that one for quite some time.I don't want to get too personal , but this topic certainly conjured up some wonderful memories , broken dishes , spilled drinks lol .....Hope others enjoyed this as I have....Harry
 
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