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 Author Thread: Take a look - Got some questions
 ohhrobby
Joined: 12/1/2014
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Take a look - Got some questions
Posted: 12/7/2014 1:39:41 PM
Okay, I agree with the suit picture and getting rid of it and I just uploaded a picture of me preflighting my old plane. I got rid of some of the description on the profile but I guess I am kind of confused about the old car commit and not trusting me. How do I build that trust or make it seem more realistic?
 ohhrobby
Joined: 12/1/2014
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Take a look - Got some questions
Posted: 12/7/2014 12:59:34 PM
I am going to add a section in my profile of what I am looking for. Guess I kind of missed that. Thanks

I am not looking for FWB at all. I have had several long term relationships and am looking for a long term relationship again. What I was getting at is my form of dating/relationship is a lot different than the sweep them off their feet thing. I don't believe in a lot of the chasing women around buying them food/drinks and pretending to be Romeo. I believe in treating them as equals from the get go and that means we split everything equality from the activity to the cost. I really think the dating culture has really gotten out of whack to where guys have to do these kinds of things to get a woman’s attention and it’s almost expected. Well I guess I’ll be the guy waiting on the sideline for when women wake up and realize it’s not working for them...
 ohhrobby
Joined: 12/1/2014
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Take a look - Got some questions
Posted: 12/7/2014 12:19:36 PM
haha yeah that helps and I see what you are getting at. I’m definitely not the romantic type is the problem and I’m not looking for the romantic type in a girlfriend. It’s actually a huge turn off for me. I am looking for a best friend that we can enjoy being together yet still have our own independent friends/personalities. I guess online dating probably won’t work out real good for my kind of personality type. Thanks for taking the time for the review. Back to the frats….
 ohhrobby
Joined: 12/1/2014
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Take a look - Got some questions
Posted: 12/7/2014 11:32:56 AM
Hello,

So I have been on here for about a week so far. I have messaged several women and I can see they are looking at my profile but I'm really not getting any messages back. Now when I message them I make sure to read their profile completely and always include some questions/conversation starters. Is my profile lacking or are they just not attracted to me? The only reason I am so curious is in everyday life I tend to be very successful at getting dates and just building friendships in general. It seems I’m kind of struggling here so any advice will be appreciated.

Thanks,
Rob
 
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