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 Author Thread: Two questions for the ladies.
 kali2008
Joined: 7/31/2008
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Two questions for the ladies.
Posted: 11/30/2012 9:49:53 PM
I have yet to have someone just start a chat session. Everything Red said is so very true also. After a couple of emails things seem to stop. Loved watching Dr Phil tonight about catfish and I do not mean fish fish. Did anyone else see that show? I want to see you on webcam or in person before I tell you my life story. I want to know who I am speaking with/to.
 kali2008
Joined: 7/31/2008
Msg: 42 (view)
 
what do you think?
Posted: 11/9/2012 9:21:12 PM
I think it is rude to answer the phone when you have company. That is what voice mail is for. You are showing the person that someone else is more important, more exciting or whatever. Same goes when you are at dinner with someone and they spend time talking on the cell phone. I have almost gotten up and left. I have hung up on someone who feels the need to talk to their family while I am on the phone. Adults should have some manners and realize when someone is on the phone it is rude to interrupt. You don't allow children to interrupt you when conversing so why would you do the above mentioned. RUDE RUDE.....Just saying.
 kali2008
Joined: 7/31/2008
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Friends
Posted: 11/8/2012 5:02:14 PM
Possibly you are prettier and sexier than they are and they find you get the men and they are tired of competing? People only need people when they need something. I find true friends are hard to come by. I sit by myself most of the time and simply tired of it but dating just isnt happening either. Life sucks,
 kali2008
Joined: 7/31/2008
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Hows Is The Economic Depression Changing Online Dating?
Posted: 11/8/2012 4:45:38 PM
On line / off line dating is dating....everything costs money. Its all about courtesy. Strike up a conversation people. DO we have to do all the worrk?
 kali2008
Joined: 7/31/2008
Msg: 145 (view)
 
Dating after 45...
Posted: 11/8/2012 2:24:06 PM
It is all about personality. Serioulsy. After awhile we all have grey hair and glasses.....lol....looking forward to dating at the nursing home.
 kali2008
Joined: 7/31/2008
Msg: 9 (view)
 
REALLY?????
Posted: 11/8/2012 2:18:03 PM
I hope time does heal. I miss my son and grandkids. I need to date now to fill in the time and the pain but POF is not helping at all.
 kali2008
Joined: 7/31/2008
Msg: 30 (view)
 
I almost missed a gem.
Posted: 11/8/2012 1:56:06 AM
I am wondering if this is such an amazing thing that has been found, WHY are you on a dating site?
 kali2008
Joined: 7/31/2008
Msg: 93 (view)
 
The bathroom mirror pic; why so bad?
Posted: 11/7/2012 7:18:31 PM
people are going to complain no matter what you do. simple as that.Not everyone wants people to know they are putting themselves out on dating sites so they take the best pic they can of themselves. At least they are current and not hiding behind their harley or pet. Just saying someone is always going to complain
 kali2008
Joined: 7/31/2008
Msg: 56 (view)
 
Are you having success on this site?
Posted: 11/7/2012 6:40:26 PM
Why cant a guy just message a woman and start and maintain a conversation?
 kali2008
Joined: 7/31/2008
Msg: 61 (view)
 
What's the awkward mojo with POF?
Posted: 11/4/2012 7:24:25 PM
Simple , people are afraid of rejection
 kali2008
Joined: 7/31/2008
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Hows Is The Economic Depression Changing Online Dating?
Posted: 11/4/2012 5:31:07 PM
I do not mind paying for myself...I just want to go out.lol
 kali2008
Joined: 7/31/2008
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Are you having success on this site?
Posted: 11/3/2012 10:43:47 PM
I am trying to have success. So far one actual conversation that I thought went very well, exchanged phone numbers but did not hear from the man.Working on another. The problem is men do not seem to initiate as the olden days. I would like to date. I do not need to date. I will not settle. I rather be alone than settle. People are unrealistic. enough said.
 kali2008
Joined: 7/31/2008
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Its all a numbers game
Posted: 11/3/2012 10:36:56 PM
I do not think do you want a hook up needs a reply! It deserves a delete..lol
 kali2008
Joined: 7/31/2008
Msg: 19 (view)
 
WOMEN WHATS UR DEAL? seriously.
Posted: 11/3/2012 8:07:51 PM
Maybe the reason so many of the women are fake is because the real women are tired of the same old same old....all we hear within the first few sentences is sex sex sex...yes we know you have strong sex drives...but we have morals perhaps and want to be treated with the respect we deserve...so all that is left are the bots or fakes or the unreals....think about it....why not try to message someone and have a conversation.....hmmmm to tell you the truth after one week of this site I feel it is no better than any other horndog site.
 kali2008
Joined: 7/31/2008
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Chat Question
Posted: 11/3/2012 7:47:37 PM
What ever happened to the day when men initiated a conversation without asking if you want a hookup.....
 kali2008
Joined: 7/31/2008
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Dating experiences
Posted: 10/31/2012 8:55:48 PM
Hey at least you are getting conversations. I am feeling this is a bit Jr High Schoolish
 kali2008
Joined: 7/31/2008
Msg: 27 (view)
 
SUV drivers & dating
Posted: 10/31/2012 8:42:29 PM
My only request in regards to vehicles is that is looks nice. I have an image to uphold and wont be seen in a dumpy car. Plus is says a lot about a guy if he drives a piece of crap. Regarding SUV's...I have one, I love it. It works for hauling camping equipment, animals, etc etc. Nothing wrong with SUV as long as it isnt all rusty
 kali2008
Joined: 7/31/2008
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Chat Question
Posted: 10/31/2012 8:37:59 PM
I think POF needs chat rooms like Yahoo. This is to had to follow.
 kali2008
Joined: 7/31/2008
Msg: 5 (view)
 
any success stories here?
Posted: 10/31/2012 8:31:30 PM
Success at this point would be to keep a conversation going..lol
 kali2008
Joined: 7/31/2008
Msg: 131 (view)
 
Dating after 45...
Posted: 10/31/2012 8:19:20 PM
Totally agree with you. I would not feel comfortable having someone spend lots of money on me. My idea of great first date is window shopping thru town so you have time to chat as you go. Sipping on hot coffee would be a plus. Simple life, simple times. A touch of reality. Expensive dates dont happen much after your attached. Life is not the Bachlorette.
 
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