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 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Men looking for Sex
Posted: 6/23/2013 8:13:54 PM
Asking anyone to be honest is like asking water to stop being wet. You have to vet and see what that individual is all about and trust your gut. If it doesn't feel right...most likely it isn't.
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 191 (view)
 
Celibacy - a more common choice than people admit?
Posted: 10/23/2011 4:24:36 PM
I'm celibate because I can't afford not to be with all of the STDs that are floating around and constantly going on dates with men who lie about what they really want. Telling me what they THINK I want to hear in hopes of getting me in bed. I want the whole package unless a man wants the same thing, then what's the point? If I am not good enough to date, get to know, love and marry; then I am not good enough to sleep with either. I tell men all the time, I am not a car; you don't get to "test drive" me. If you want to go on a test drive, then go to a fckng dealership! I rather live out the rest of my life alone than to give any of it to so low life lying ass dirt-bag. Life is hard enough and since I can do bad by myself; I can very well do without drama and bullsh!t.

I have been by myself for a little while now and it is wonderful actually; I'm n0t dealing with a insecure abusive man. I have everything and I mean absolutely everything that I could possible need. Just would love to have that special someone to share it with. But he must be the right one.
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 460 (view)
 
When does physical attraction stop being so important?
Posted: 10/23/2011 4:02:52 PM
Physical attraction hit the very bottom of my list by the time I was about 28. Seriously...looks are a bonus and nothing to do with character.
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 208 (view)
 
My gf won't even let me touch her down there
Posted: 10/23/2011 3:27:13 PM
Exactly...guys always btchng about not having a good woman yet whenever they get one, they waste no time screwing it all up...
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 175 (view)
 
Physically abused for the first time
Posted: 10/23/2011 3:13:23 PM
Now get a RESTRAINING ORDER for him not to come to your home, child's school or your place of employment. Also include the places of employment and or residences of family members and friends. You can file this under the domestic violence act and it will cost you nothing. Alert all of your family members and close friends of what's going on. Be clear, careful and aware of what is going on and be on alert of your surroundings and carry MACE or PEPPER SPRAY!
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 172 (view)
 
Physically abused for the first time
Posted: 10/23/2011 2:48:18 PM
Wow! I have ZERO tolerance for violence and cheating, that is why I am no longer married. My husband was a ****ing spaz! no respect and abusive. When I found out about his cheating I was DONE! I had to call the police when he went to attack me when I found out; I was in the kitchen and grabbed CAST IRON SKILLET and went to swinging at him when he took off onto the patio, I called the police! HE WAS TRYING TO BITE ME while he was attacking me in the kitchen and that's when I grabbed the skillet! I will not deal with a man that has a short temper and use violence to resolve issues. Unprovoked attacks makes it WORSE!

I know women that are DEAD because they STAYED with a violent man...no; not me. Thank goodness your sister got rid of him! Damn...threw her child across the room...my god...glad you mom rid herself of her loser too...
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 171 (view)
 
Physically abused for the first time
Posted: 10/23/2011 2:25:22 PM
Otherwise she will be carried out by six instead of walking or running out on two...
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 170 (view)
 
Physically abused for the first time
Posted: 10/23/2011 1:54:00 PM
Lemme get this straight; this dude KICKED YOU IN YOUR RIBS and you're asking what should you do? Like my father always told his daughters this: "if he do it to you once...he'll do it to you again" No way would I allow a man to get a SECOND opportunity to batter me. Ask yourself this, will you ask this question again after he say...CRACK YOUR HEAD IN THE NEXT TIME?!?!? OMG there is no way I would stick around for that. A LOVING, LOYAL MAN does NOT get drunk and then KICK THE WOMAN HE LOVES IN HER ****ING RIBS! A man like that is NOT violent! GET OUT while you still can...and with your ribs intact!
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 71 (view)
 
Girlfriend wants to get pregnant
Posted: 10/23/2011 12:39:28 PM
Mom knows best...you should let her go as it is clear that you two are not on the same page. She wants a baby now and you don't. That is a deal-breaker for real, a decision as this should be a mutual thing that you BOTH want. You two are definitely out of rhythm here. This proves that she is NOT the one for YOU. to the nearest exit; this is one regret you don't want!
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 100 (view)
 
STDs
Posted: 10/23/2011 12:15:30 PM
Oh yes, I had an attorney that gave herpes to his wife...she took him to the cleaners in their divorce. I also had a high school chum whose mom left his father after he gave her VD! It is really scary out here with people not being honest about something this important, when they can go on dating sites for those with STDS. People need to understand that you don't have to sleep around to contract something, all you need is an unfaithful spouse or significant other. When I found out about my now ex husband's cheating, I stopped having relations with him on the spot and got myself checked out and threw his ass out! I divorced him and would do it again. Cheating is very dangerous; downright life threatening. Since I was not willing to risk my health and life by staying with him, I was GONE! I the nearest court and filed. I didn't want any spousal support or anything, all I wanted was for him to be OUT of my life.
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 147 (view)
 
How Easily Can You Detect Red Flags
Posted: 10/23/2011 10:41:35 AM
Nasty attitude when talking about his ex. Blames her for everything. Next time it will be me he is badmouthing.
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This is one of the biggest ones...men that do this tend to be quite nasty, it always comes out. Also not wanting you to ask them anything...I stopped dating this man because he had a short temper and got pissed whenever I would ask him a question...
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 49 (view)
 
Ex husband coming to visit
Posted: 10/23/2011 10:32:43 AM
You should be thrilled ....at him staying in a HOTEL and not at your residence.
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 769 (view)
 
would you marry for money?
Posted: 10/23/2011 10:21:29 AM
Since I can and have always made my own money, no way would I marry for it. Marriage is to be enjoyed and filled with the person you married because you love that person. No point in being with someone and still being alone...naw...no thanks...
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 15 (view)
 
getting over dead fiance and his crazy family
Posted: 10/23/2011 10:16:19 AM
damn...what a nasty thing to say... gotta far away from you...
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Separated women
Posted: 7/25/2011 10:24:57 AM
They are no different than men that are separated and nothing comes out of it but TROUBLE! What kind of relationship with anykind of future could you possibly have with someone that is already MARRIED?

I avoid attached people like the plague. I have seen more than my share of people get hurt and damaged by involving themselves with separated people...if you are separated, that means you are MARRIED.
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Question for Girls.
Posted: 7/25/2011 10:11:21 AM
Let it go...while she is interested in dating...she is not interested in dating you...keep no biggie...
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Why do chicks block their page?
Posted: 7/25/2011 9:41:33 AM
Lots of men get the wrong idea whenever their page is viewed by women...some women use this as a "hassle free" way of fishing...
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Why Does He Still Do This?
Posted: 7/24/2011 9:54:22 PM
Because you let him...people do two things...whatever they can and whatever they can get away with...
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 19 (view)
 
I don't know what to believe
Posted: 7/17/2011 4:19:15 AM
Yeah...how cool is it to be someone's OPTION while you make him your PRIORITY. Don't you think you are worth more than some dude's stand-by chick? Give him the break that he says he needs and move on.
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 17 (view)
 
closed accounts?
Posted: 7/1/2011 4:04:05 AM
I had a guy on here just 5 days ago contact me; I replied and he responded saying we should meet, I'm like cool; when I respond back so we can set up a date and meeting time. While his profile is still up, he took down his pics! I'm like WTF??? I IGNORE PROFILES WITHOUT PHOTOS. I asked him what happen to your photos? It is clear to me that he is hiding from wifey, cops or some other lover. Told him I have zero tolerance for bs/games and blocked him from further contact.
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 86 (view)
 
Do women who engage in affairs w/married men deserve an apology?
Posted: 2/26/2010 2:40:43 AM
Exactly! unless she didnt know that he was married, other than that she deserves NOTHING let alone an apology.
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 48 (view)
 
Anger: A Barrier to Love
Posted: 2/26/2010 2:18:09 AM
with these issues; which clearly have CONSUMED you; makes you undateable. your anger and the sourse therein needs to be address. i steer clear of people that have issues with anger as they tend to or may be violent.
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Cheating V Monogamy
Posted: 1/22/2010 9:42:01 PM
I have never been on to cheat, if you must cheat then why even bother being in a relationship in the first place? Cheaters are insecure people; not to mention selfish; as a result, I dont deal with or tolerate cheaters. If I find out you are cheating on me; it;s a wrap!
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 50 (view)
 
Question about a call I got
Posted: 1/22/2010 1:25:22 AM
i read it to and was thinking the same thing...
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 48 (view)
 
Question about a call I got
Posted: 1/22/2010 1:16:35 AM
Has she ever asked you this while hubby was at home??? I would say think about it, but hey...if you have to ask; then well......you know.....
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 422 (view)
 
Fitness and attraction
Posted: 1/22/2010 12:47:41 AM
im willing to bet that he is some slob, as they usually are. if a man does not like me because of my size and i know im losing weight. i will continue to so so as i am not doing it for him. and post the after pics on my page and never contact him. if a man does not like or respect you, then he wont no matter what size.
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 162 (view)
 
astrology and potential mate
Posted: 1/22/2010 12:18:48 AM
i dont really follow astrology either, but for some reason, i dont click with earth signed people, especially virgos!
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Reacher or Settler?
Posted: 1/21/2010 3:05:35 AM
REACHER!!!!! not settling for anything and why should I? If you get what you settle for; they why not get what you reach for as well?
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 179 (view)
 
He lied about his age...only by two years....should i be concerned?
Posted: 1/21/2010 2:56:49 AM
Yes you should; if he lied about his age; then have to ask yourself, what ELSE is he LYING about? The fact that you are asking makes it crystal clear...
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 108 (view)
 
Girlfriend Is Still Close With Her EX...Please advise
Posted: 1/21/2010 2:47:44 AM
Tell her that she needs to make a decision; If she can't decide for herself then you should decide for YOU and bounce! No way would I stay with a man that is still keeping company with an ex. She's having her cake and eating it too. Arien't you worth more than that?
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 160 (view)
 
How long should a woman remain married to a controlling verbally abusive alcoholic?
Posted: 1/21/2010 2:41:01 AM
Putting up with an abuser is not something I will contend with; which is why Im divorced. You only have one life; why give it and spend it with some pathetic dirt-bag loser? Congrats for finally making moves towards a better life for YOU!
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 159 (view)
 
Having relations w/ a married woman
Posted: 1/21/2010 2:35:20 AM
Lemme get this straight; Her HUSBAND is fighting for OUR freedom and She's getting dckd down by you? You fckng degenerate nimrods are LOSERS!!!
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Men, what type of women do you find beautiful?
Posted: 12/29/2009 12:02:43 AM
COSIGN! lol

CTFU @ WTF???? Are you F'in nuts??? I see several beautiful black girls a DAY, and I live in a hugely "majority white" 'hood.

Rarely? You gotta get out more.
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Why did he stop calling
Posted: 12/24/2009 11:23:09 PM
Damn...Your BIGGEST mistake was getting involved with a MARRIED MAN...This is why I have it in my profile, MUST BE SINGLE, WIDOWED OR DIVORCED! SEPARATED means that they are still MARRIED. His divorce may be bitter and nasty and he realized that the last thing he needs now is another relationship or HE AND WIFEY MAY HAVE DECIDED TO PATCH THINGS UP. Too bad he didnt have enough respect and tell you what the true deal was. This is why I do not deal with men that are SEPERATED as they are in the middle; have lots of drama and are MARRIED. Women everywhere beware, there is no FUTURE in dealing with a MARRIED man as the only thing they can and will do is BREAK YOUR HEART.
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Deleted His Profile
Posted: 12/24/2009 10:44:06 PM
E mail him, at least you'll know what's up if nothing else.
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 67 (view)
 
So I got blocked
Posted: 12/24/2009 10:26:22 PM
It is kinda strange; there is this guy that's always on my page even now as we speak, I never would make contact. Well I did today and was told that he blocked me. Im like ok, then why come on my page all the time then? I just laughed it off; no biggie.
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 59 (view)
 
What if she fell asleep?
Posted: 12/21/2009 4:13:54 AM
I was dating this guy and he fell asleep while we were cuddled on the couch, He told me that me may fall asleep because I was sooo soft and comfty; needless to say he knocked out. lol. and since we were under blankets and pillows everywhere, instead of watching the movie on the dvd, I joined him and knocked out too. lol.
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 175 (view)
 
Any Virgins or those practicing Celibacy
Posted: 10/25/2009 1:13:42 PM
OP, I finally got over being so religious and figured out the (For ME - yes I know I'll get called out for this!) I believe God created us with sexual needs and I've denied mine long enough and frankly am sick of it. Like I said, not gonna turn it all the way around and be a tramp about it, but my days of denying my needs are OVER!

I agree with you too FlameNFire I feel the same way but until Im blessed with the right man; I'll remain celibate.
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 174 (view)
 
Any Virgins or those practicing Celibacy
Posted: 10/25/2009 1:09:30 PM
DAMN if I could meet someone like you! whew! Im practicing celibacy and feel damn good about it. Im so tired of men only wanting sex. I love romance and miss it dearly so I know what you mean. My if there were more men like you there would be alot more happier people in the world. Love your honesty! All you say here can be just what they are...with the right person. It's like you can't just kiss and hold each other without sex. DAMN!
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Does exclusivity applies in FWB relationship?
Posted: 10/25/2009 12:56:58 PM
FBW means just that and nothing more so what makes you think that exclusivity applies here? That's like saying is it ok to sleep around...duh!
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 1350 (view)
 
Cheating- can you forgive?
Posted: 10/10/2009 3:28:46 AM
Yes it is true, once a cheater, that is why Im divorced as I do not and can not forgive cheating, too many stds out there and I will not place myself at risk. If I'm not respected, I don't stick around.
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 106 (view)
 
Men & woman of a certain size???
Posted: 10/10/2009 3:08:43 AM
Your responses are too funny! she is a for sure idiot. lol. She has a fake profile? How pathetic is that? A fake profile on a dating site.lol.
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 103 (view)
 
Men & woman of a certain size???
Posted: 10/10/2009 2:06:50 AM
DIVISION77

In looking at your photo, you are in no real position to insult anyone here. You dont like big women so flipping what! If slinging insults to prove your point of your preference, shows you have a big problem. Just because a man prefers larger women does not mean he is some desperate chubby chaser. You are not the spokesperson for all men and who and what they prefer in a woman; yet you are the poster child of ignorance and downright STUPIDITY!
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 97 (view)
 
Should I stay with him?
Posted: 9/14/2009 8:10:44 PM
Im sorry sweetie but it is clear where your boyfriend stands and it is not with you. He has clerly moved on; he moved in with another woman and you asking what? Honey he has moved on and so should you. He did you a favor really; some women spend a lifetime with losers, thank goodness you're not one of them. Losing a loser is not a loss.
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 58 (view)
 
Boyfriend continues to get on POF behind my back??
Posted: 7/9/2009 11:15:10 AM
He blocked you? Soumds like you are asking a question that you know the answer to. I would definately move on. What are you sticking around for?
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 104 (view)
 
Why do we women do this to ourselves?
Posted: 7/9/2009 11:04:42 AM
Im speaking for myself, im not one of those women that do this, if the man does not want me, I move on, yes it is hard but it's tragic being with one that does not want you; that is like blocking out the one you truly deserve and is right for you. No not me.
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 50 (view)
 
My Buddy is Getting Married and I Want To Stop Him....HELP!!!!
Posted: 6/13/2009 3:16:05 AM
He should definately get a signed prenup PRONTO! she has a very long ride that she is planning on taking him on. But as far as his friends, they fell way short in not telling him the truth when the situation first arosed. Sleeping with one of his friends is foul; seperated or not. There are golden rules here and sleeping with one's friends is a definately NO! NO! ...TSK! TSK!
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Non-drinker..?
Posted: 5/23/2009 9:34:12 PM
I think it is grand that you dont drink, i too am a non drinker, getting drunk is a major turnoff. don't want to deal with a man that has to drink inorder to have fun.
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 16 (view)
 
AH Pregnancy scare, he won't talk to me. PLS help me save this!
Posted: 5/23/2009 2:16:54 PM
1. he wanted to be exclusive; you didnt.

2. you only wanted sex.

3. you have a drinking problem.

4 since this was a FWB situation, what is the loss?

5. you scared the sh!t out of him with your PSYCHO STALKER behavior.

cut your losses, sober up and complete your education. Question; how he being the jerk when it was YOU that is playing games? you are a walking tailspin!
 brownie360
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Girlfriend is amazing, but affection is lacking.
Posted: 3/22/2009 9:31:43 PM
What I see lacking here is you and your lack of restraint. What is your rush? slow down or you will end up pushing her away. Christian values, yet sexual desires out of control and comparing her to your previous girlfriend? This is why taking it slow is so important.
 
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