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 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 22 (view)
 
why do only overweight women look at my profile?
Posted: 9/20/2018 6:07:09 PM
ksuser:

I looked at your profile, and I would never want to meet you either.
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 21 (view)
 
why do only overweight women look at my profile?
Posted: 9/20/2018 6:05:51 PM
whiterose0 says:



Many women your age (58) are likely seeking men whose children are already grown. Yours are under 18.


I don't know where you came up with this, but I just looked at my profile and nowhere on it does it state my children are under 18. They have been out of college for several years now.




Even though you claim to want a relationship, your profile intent says you aren't looking for anything serious.


I've gone into too many relationships trying to get into a serious one, only to be burned by the women who claim they wanted a serius relationship but later admitted that they "weren;t ready for a serious relationship right now". Because of that I've decided to protect my emotions right off the bat, and will go slowly until discussions lead towards seriousness and exclusiveness.
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 20 (view)
 
why do only overweight women look at my profile?
Posted: 9/20/2018 5:56:42 PM
johnfromzelie says:



I would ditch the trump thing. stating 'liberal' is enough. not bashing your views (can do that in off topic) but your choice of words screams extremist. if that is truly a major concern, put snowflakes only. any profile containing trump haters only or trump supporters only would be bypassed by me. it isn't the left/right thing, it is that you exclude because of it. again, if this is a big part of your life, certainly worth mentioning but if it is just a small part, leave it out.


Remember: this thread is about hing my profile ignored by a significant minority of female members her. They never see my "extremist" (as you call it) views on politics. However, any women who supports Trump, a male who has cheated on all 3 of his wives, who is a serial adulterer, who has sex with porn stars and then pays them hush money, who has been accused of sexual assault by almost 20 women (so far), is not the kind of woman I want in my life. As my father said, "Son, life's too short to spend it with stupid people".
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 19 (view)
 
why do only overweight women look at my profile?
Posted: 9/20/2018 5:50:33 PM
MeramacRiverRat says:



Your choice of "date but nothing serious" is the biggest factor in turning away women who seek a monogamous relationship.


Countless women have that on their profiles. Nobody seems to have a problem with that, but if a guy has it ...? I have no problem becoming serious and exclusive with a woman over time, but I don't put pressure on myself right off the bat hoping that "this one is the one". I take things at their own pace and see where relationships go.




Telling someone to message you won't increase the number of messages you get


This thread isn't about messages - it's about barely getting any views and being ignored by average sized women. Thin ones are ignoring me and I can handle that. It's being ignored by the average sized women that is frustrating.




Maybe thin girls don't want to be with someone who chows down on deep dish Chicago pizza and hot dogs while she eats healthier?


It's not like I eat that way every night. I've lived in this state for over 20 years and have yet to find a pizza worthy of competing with what I had earlier in life. I eat healthy all the time but will not deny myself culinary pleasure on occasion.




Vague professions apparently are a turnoff. They assume the worst: unemployed, criminal, on disability, etc.


Do you know how many women say "I work" for that item? Why can't I do the same as them? And from what I've heard at POF functions over the years plenty of men post it too. Maybe I should just change it to "Ask me".
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 18 (view)
 
why do only overweight women look at my profile?
Posted: 9/20/2018 5:34:39 PM
Strawberry_Jello says:



You are out of shape yourself. You have a potbelly. Why would athletic or average women be attracted to you?


And yet her images are private so no one can see what her physique looks like. As the fortune cookie says "Physician, heal thyself!"

According to this web site from February 2018 https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/321003.php the average woman today weighs 168 pounds. Since Strawberry_Jello says she has "a few extra pounds" I'll bet she thinks 15 - 20 pounds count as only a "few extra".

According to this web site from February 2018 https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/320917.php the average man today weighs 195 pounds. Since I currently weigh 205 I'm 10 pounds above average. I'll keep plugging away at it, but I'm certainly not "out of shape" as Strawberry_Jello implies.
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 17 (view)
 
why do only overweight women look at my profile?
Posted: 9/20/2018 5:22:42 PM
mahwahgirl339114 says:



Because it's a problem your state has! Fat is average!


Sadly, she speaks the truth.
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 1 (view)
 
why do only overweight women look at my profile?
Posted: 9/15/2018 2:54:15 PM
What is it in my profile that makes average sized or athletic sized women pass me by?

I by no means have a bias against overweight women, whether by a little or a lot. I lost my virginity to a chubby woman, almost every woman I've ever date were chubby or heavy, and I married a chubby woman who became heavy as the years passed. But on my bucket list is have a relationship, preferably one that includes sex, with any average sized or slender woman.
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 18 (view)
 
How to attract women for serious relationships and not casual sex
Posted: 9/1/2018 2:20:54 PM
Send all information on women who only want casual sex my way. I'm tired of dating women who have no more interest in sex.
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 239 (view)
 
sugar mommy?
Posted: 9/1/2018 2:15:13 PM


A lot of guys are horny and just want to get laid quickly.


Too bad that so many women on here don't feel and act the same way.
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 83 (view)
 
What things turn people off when viewing profiles pics?
Posted: 8/30/2018 12:23:24 PM
- pictures of their pets, without the owner holding them

- pictures of "witty" sayings, not of the person

- pictures of groups without the person identifying who they are in the shot (sometimes there is only 1 picture in a profile and it's a group photo)
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Triggers in profile photos
Posted: 8/30/2018 12:18:40 PM
- Pictures of animals without their owner holding them

- Pictures of "witty" sayings, not of the profile's owner

- Pictures of group shots without identifying who the profile's owner is
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 80 (view)
 
One night stand...any chance he'll call?
Posted: 8/30/2018 12:13:48 PM
So what prevented the OP from calling him? This is the 21st century after all.
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 131 (view)
 
Married people on POF...
Posted: 6/8/2018 9:45:37 AM
Well, when the Ashley Madison web site got hacked a few years ago it was proven that almost every woman's profile on there was fake. Men had to pay to message women so employees would respond to string men along - and keep draining their wallets. Craigslist shut down their Personals forums because they were accused of supporting human trafficking. Backpage got taken over by the feds for the same reason. I don't know where else married men and women can go to have their casual relationships or hookups, but married people deserve love and sex too, so somebody has to help them out in their situation. If a married woman wants a FWB type of relationship and we get along, then I'm willing to be that friend.
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 202 (view)
 
Mature and oral sex
Posted: 6/8/2018 9:33:45 AM
Sadly, I've encountered too many women in my age group who think that oral sex is "been there, done that, not doing it anymore".
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 27 (view)
 
My dating advice blog.
Posted: 6/8/2018 9:27:58 AM
What a load of tripe.
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 1 (view)
 
why do do many women have "body type = thin"
Posted: 6/8/2018 9:07:09 AM
when in reality they should put "average"? Or, since this is Texas, they really mean "a few extra pounds"? They demand honesty in the men they look for but don't offer it themselves. I have no problem with chubby women but say so up front - it won't scare me off.
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 60 (view)
 
You know you are getting OLD when...
Posted: 6/2/2018 9:26:23 AM
You know you're getting old when all of the women you date from POF have a "Sex ... been there, done that, not doing it anymore" attitude.
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 66 (view)
 
Any expectations of who would be attracted to you?
Posted: 5/15/2018 1:56:40 PM
The women on POF who have been attracted to me have been women who outweigh me. I can handle that, although I wish I'd get responses from women closer to average size. It's when they think they look like 21 year old Playboy centerfolds and treat you like they're doing you a favor by just meeting them are not women that I'm attracted to.
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 317 (view)
 
Do you hide your political affiliation on dates?
Posted: 1/24/2018 4:09:39 PM
Nope. I have it right there in my profile so that you won't waste my time or yours by contacting me knowing that we have different political views.
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Hooking up
Posted: 1/24/2018 3:50:40 PM
I wish you'd tell me what those sites are.
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 346 (view)
 
3rd date really?
Posted: 9/28/2016 7:59:31 PM

Men liking sex need to find women liking sex.


Too bad most women on this site think sex is something they used to do when they were younger but have no need to do it now, and the men that date them just have to put up with it.

If I wanted a relationship with no sex I just could have stayed married and not lost tens of thousands in the divorce.
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 78 (view)
 
Marriage
Posted: 9/28/2016 7:56:09 PM
In my experience, far too many women on here are totally focused on getting the "right" man who will eventually marry them. I got burned in my last marriage so I'm gun-shy about it. A few weeks ago I received an email from a woman who has her goal as "finding someone to marry" and she was ****ing because mine is "wants to date but nothing serious". She accused me of just being here for sex and/or being married but wanting to play the field.

Facepalm.
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 4 (view)
 
username search/advanced search
Posted: 9/8/2016 5:43:27 PM
Now that they've taken away the Search By Username to make you pay for it, this becomes a moot post.
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 44 (view)
 
How far would you travel for sex?
Posted: 12/5/2014 9:04:10 AM
Since I haven't gotten any sex in months, as far as I have to!!!
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 175 (view)
 
Mature and oral sex
Posted: 12/5/2014 8:57:04 AM
I'm 55, and have loved it all of my life. Unfortunately for me, most of the women I've slept with refused to give it to me. And in my experience over the past few years, mature women 50 and over refuse to give it. They have the attitude of "Been there, done that, never again".

No wonder I'd love to meet someone under 40...
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Cowgirl position
Posted: 12/5/2014 8:46:33 AM
I like it; however, it is a difficult position for me to enjoy. Most men have an erection that sticks straight out from their body; mine comes up following my body, like a coat hook. For me to have pleasure requires her to lean forward at a 45 degree angle, which is very tiring for her. If the woman leans to far back, basically perpendicular to me, I don't bend that far without discomfort - which causes me to soften. If she leans too far back, it hurts!
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 82 (view)
 
Older Woman Younger Man
Posted: 12/5/2014 8:41:51 AM


I am not sure why women my age have this crazy insane desire for sex---(Post Menopause) frequently...but its true for me and nearly all of the women I have spoken to that are my age.


You are a freak of nature. I'm 55, the equipment still works and I want to use it with a significant other. However, EVERY I've dated in the past few years (all 50+) have had the attitude "Sex? Used to do it - NOT doing it ever again!" So, obviously, I'm picking the wrong women. Sure could use some help in picking the RIGHT women!
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 60 (view)
 
Guys/Ladies have you ever hired an escort?
Posted: 4/28/2013 1:02:36 PM
I would if I knew where to find one that was safe (DDF) and didn't cost an arm and a leg.

It's hell living in a city where people give you crap all the time because you were born in a different state and they automatically assume your political leanings based upon wherre you grew up.
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 50 (view)
 
Mature and oral sex
Posted: 5/16/2011 3:35:14 PM
I love giving and receiving, preferably at the same time (69). however, I've been living in San Antonio since August 0f 2011 and have yet to meet a woman who likes it even 1/10th as much as I do. Oh. I've met several who talk a great game, but when it's time for the rubber to meet the pavement, then they start hemming and hawing...
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Dear ladies of POF: please critique my profile
Posted: 5/16/2011 3:23:35 PM
I would like to hear the opinions of the ladies here on POF as to why my profile appears to be working against me. Sure, I love to have fun, enjoying comedy and not taking life too seriously, but I take having a successful relationship and making a women happy serious enough.

TIA!
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 210 (view)
 
Why would anyone want to date you?
Posted: 9/23/2010 4:22:16 PM
Because
I'm fun to be around
I don't take the world too serious
and I give great cunnilingus!

 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 15 (view)
 
The truth about SIZE guys
Posted: 6/24/2010 10:12:25 AM
I've read that the average male has a 6" penis, and the average female has a 8" vagina.

This means that, right now, there are thousands and thousands of miles of unused vagina right here in Chicago (not to mention the rest of the country!)

 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Ideas for a 1st Anniversary
Posted: 5/20/2010 11:34:31 AM
Pretend it's March 14th and ...

http://www.steakandbjday.com/

 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Can't see my Outbox anymore
Posted: 4/7/2010 12:36:03 PM
Back in the old days just a few weeks ago, I could see my Outbox. That way if I sent a Fish an email and she commented on it later on, I could go back to review it if I wanted to. Now I can't.

Will these capability return?
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 206 (view)
 
Is it wrong for husbands to sexually neglect their wife...but still expect commitment and faith??
Posted: 4/3/2010 2:12:17 PM
It is just as wrong for women to sexually neglect their husbands but still expect her commitment and faith as it is for men who sexually neglect their wives but still expect her commitment and faith.

I mean, isn't this just blatantly obvious?
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 32 (view)
 
kinky question about come disposal
Posted: 3/30/2010 2:41:10 PM
1. Inside vagina
2. Inside mouth
3. Inside rectum

In that order.

 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Tell me what you think...
Posted: 3/18/2010 4:38:40 PM
Based upon what I've read in other threads, it sounds like she's cheating on you, so the smart thing to do is cut her loose NOW and get someone that truly deserves you.
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 103 (view)
 
How many others here are trying to have a relationship with a dead body?
Posted: 3/18/2010 4:35:01 PM
My ex was like that for the last several years of our marriage - that's why she's the ex now.
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 254 (view)
 
oral sex on women
Posted: 3/18/2010 4:25:29 PM


Here's a question ...do more white people like oral sex than black people ? i love it myself but not many black people openly talk about it as much as the white people i hear talking about it


I can't speak for anyone other than myself, but I love receiving and I love giving it too.

However, I remember reading a study that Playboy magazine did in the early 1990s on the subject. The outcome was that white males gave oral sex much more frequently than black males did, and black females gave oral sex more than white females (don't remember the percentages).

 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Honesty in the sexual issues forums...
Posted: 3/9/2010 11:24:07 AM
I'm glad that they removed the links to your recent forum posts at the bottom of your profile: I've been blocked twice by women who I met for coffee. Then after they read what I've posted in forums they slammed the door on me PDQ.

 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Bad Sign If Saturday Nights Are Untouchable?
Posted: 2/4/2010 12:49:23 PM
This woman wants her Saturday nights free so she can date and sleep with other men.

Dump her. NOW. Before you get badly burned.
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 113 (view)
 
If you like it then you should have put a ring on it.
Posted: 2/4/2010 12:47:28 PM
My ex-wife was in a sorority in college. One of her sorority sisters was very beautiful and dated a lot of guys, all who wanted sex but were told she wouldn't sleep with a guy unless she was engaged to him.

According to my ex, she got engaged 12 times during her college life.
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 106 (view)
 
A question of discipline...
Posted: 2/3/2010 11:50:20 AM

Why is it okay for men to sleep with a woman 'just for sex'.

Because that's just the way it is -- accept it.


Isn't that evil if the woman doesn't think of it that way?

No, because she's the one with the incorrect view of the situation.


Surely the majority of men aren't that stupid that they think most women sleep with them 'just for the sex'?

99 44/100% of men already know this.


Surely, it must be obvious that most women do not want it to be only about sex?

Yes it is. Didn't you know that?


So, what happened to the days (about a half century ago) when it wasn't considered gentlemanly to USE women for one's own gratification?

It was left behind 50 years ago when men got tired of being used by women for their own gratification.


Do men ever walk away sleeping with a woman feeling dirty because they used her?

I wouldn't know since I can only speak for me and no one else. I've never felt "dirty" for telling a woman the truth upfront.


I know many women who feel dirty because they felt they have been used.

Then they need to start thinking rationally and not seeing the non-existent fantasy.


Of course, there are some women that enjoy sex in the same way that men do. But it's the exception, not the rule!

It should be the other way around.


So, what's with those men who simply want sex?

That they were born this way.


Is there not a conscience inside?

Yes, but it's not yours, so stop projecting.


Is there not an understanding that going out with a woman, just to see if she will sleep with you, is wrong.

No there isn't, as long as you're upfront about it. Then she can choose to accept of reject it.


What happened to the 'cold shower', to the discipline, to the self-control?

Hugh Hefner created the Playboy Philosophy as part of the sexual revolution a half century ago. Mankind is a sexual animal, or do you want a world where men and women only have sex during a mating season?


Has the acceptance of sex outside a relationship now become so casual, that men simply don't care if they are hurting or destroying women?

Women should quit trying to make relationships into their fantasy world dreams and stick with reality; that way, they'll be better prepared to deal with dating in this world.
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Owning one's anger
Posted: 2/3/2010 11:08:20 AM
Why are you wasting your time with someone who is acting like she's 6 years old? Don't you deserve better?
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 14 (view)
 
How to give a good gift for Valentines?
Posted: 1/23/2010 12:30:35 PM
Ask him to come to your place. Wear nothing except some cake frosting covering your nipples and labia. Ask him if he wants a home-cooked meal or skip it and go straight to dessert.

Problem solved.
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Girlfriend Question
Posted: 11/13/2009 10:14:08 AM
Why are you wasting time on this lying drama queen? Dump her, forget about her, and then MOVE FORWARD with your life. You'll be better off, and you know it.
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 84 (view)
 
Men in diapers
Posted: 11/13/2009 10:00:50 AM
If I wanted to wear diapers I'd be a Republican senator from Louisiana!!!

 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 157 (view)
 
A Twist on EXPECTING Sex by the 3 rd date. Would You Date Her/Him ?
Posted: 11/11/2009 12:02:05 PM
I'd give anything to date a woman who expects sex from me by the third date.
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Is it acceptable to date/marry a Man who is a stay-at-home Dad?
Posted: 10/23/2009 12:48:59 PM


Are women accepting of Men who are unemployed or become stay-at-home dads?

No.


Do women prefer to be stay-at-home moms and have the husbands work full-time?

Yes.
 winfieldbrian
Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Brown eyed Men?
Posted: 10/23/2009 11:38:24 AM
OP: Your friend is an idiot. If she thinks that men having a specific eye color means that all of these men will act in a certain way, please give me her name and number so I can avoid her like the plague!
 
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