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 Author Thread: Lasagna questions
 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Lasagna questions
Posted: 10/1/2008 11:56:44 AM
I use Dry Noodles uncooked with the layers of goodness, and I make mine up the night before so the moisture from the ricotta and the sauce soften the noodles before baking. Add about two tabelspoons of good olive oil to the pan before adding noodles and cleanup will be alot easier! Daaang! Now I'm hungry!
 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 28 (view)
 
The I'll Call You Line
Posted: 2/22/2008 4:32:41 PM
I feel like its a graceful way to tuck tail and run for some folks.
Instead of being honest and saying I wish you well, instead out comes the "I'll give you a call" and sometimes that rates up with "This will only hurt for a minute".
But one thing seems to ring true is that a warm truth sure hurts less than a cold lie.
I'd rather tell someone that I'm not ready for another date than lie.
And you never know, you might have time to reflect and want to try it again.
If you lie you shut a door and it may never be opened again.
 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 23 (view)
 
What do you do when you meet the right one but their to far away?
Posted: 2/18/2008 4:53:29 PM
I get a kick out of history,
look back a couple hundred years and less before the PC online dating and even phones.
People used to get hooked up via family and friend by...... letters!
And look how it turned out! A lot of us wouldnt be here if it hadnt been for
some intercontinental shelving!
If you meet someone and it klicks, make it work or be kind to yourselves and
move on without the heartbreak. Life is short! Love is wonderful!
 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 112 (view)
 
Why Doesn't God Speak Anymore?
Posted: 2/17/2008 3:06:11 PM
^^^^ Gotta agree with you on this one!

I work with Pastors from many different denominations and I see some
carry the anointing.. some carry the annoying but the ones with the good
stuff learned to be still and be patient. If you want to see him smile.... Hush up!
 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Did I do something wrong here?
Posted: 2/17/2008 2:53:43 PM
Seems like people think a cold lie beats a warm truth. But it doesnt and we all know it.
I've seen some really hot looking people that are nasty as heck on the inside. And I've met some rough looking people who are amasing inside, in fact the inside makes up fo any loss of attraction when it comes to looks.
Anyone can get plastic surgery and be a hottie but be a friggin mess inside.
I think Brit showed that to alot of people. and yeah i could go off on the tangent that the pappas made her insane, but my point is beauty is in the heart not in the eye.
make any sense?
 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Question about a date I was just on (guys only)
Posted: 2/17/2008 2:48:00 PM
Coulda , Shoulda, Woulda....
Did you have a good time?
was the conversation good?
Was she driving around in circles and covering her tracks?
Sounds like you had a great date, why not ask her out again?
That will be your answer mate!
 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Do women find a sensitive men a turn off?
Posted: 2/17/2008 2:44:16 PM
Ya'll stop talking about us guys or I'm gonna go eat something deep fried and covered in chocolate and have a good cry!
 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 2 (view)
 
How come single mothers don't want single fathers
Posted: 2/17/2008 2:41:59 PM
Its surprising to hear you say this because i used to feel that way too. But
its more of what the person is willing to commit to, not that they dont like you.
I find women tend to stand off more than men when it comes to kids.
I work around a lot of single parents and guys tend to accept more thean the ladies do from what i've see so far. there are some great ladies out there. When yours comes along it wont matter if you braid your back hair or have twelve kids, she'll like you for you!
 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Cutting boards
Posted: 2/17/2008 2:25:00 PM
I've got the plastic and the wood boards, the plastic is reserved for poultry. But the wood works wonders for everything else. Olive oil and Mineral Oil are excellent for restoring the wood when it starts to dry, mineral oil doesnt get rancid but costs more, olive oil washes away but is an easy fix. Clean the board with a mix of 50% black tea (like iced tea) and 50% olive oil and it will look good and stay water and soil resitant.
The wood is easier on my knives and plastic just is... plastic.
 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 106 (view)
 
Why are you here? Seriously...
Posted: 2/12/2008 2:46:27 PM
I figured when I first logged on here that I'd spin the wheel, make a deal and
find a perfect mate.......
Ummmmmm ........ now I havent given up on the idea and
stranger things have happened. But I'm enjoying some amazing friendships.
learning more about people (Some more than I wanna )
And enjoying my time around the pond.
Pull up a lilly pad, relax and be yourself.
we all have junk in the trunk and life goes on......
I'll be kickin back and wigglin my toes in the pond hoping to meet
that one woman who is looking for that one man...... and its gonna be incredible when we get things together. So meanwhile its an earful of sweet music, an eyefull of forums and a longing that she has a sense of humor and likes the bait!

 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 488 (view)
 
full-time single dads
Posted: 2/2/2008 5:40:01 PM
Single dad with two at home.
My greatest Compliment?
My stepson is 25 and still calls me dad!
Doesnt matter if your a male or female were all
doin the doo! So hats off to single parents in general !
We deserve a lil pat on the back!
 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Snoring!!
Posted: 2/2/2008 5:31:29 PM
hmmmmmmm Jumper ........

I know that overweight people sleeping on their backs tend to sound like fog horns......

that sounds like a wee bit harsh sentence. My old girl weighed in a 98 lbs soaking wet with jump boots on and she could make the shingles rattle!
When she slept on her side all was well..... but wait theres more! .......
I've had problems with my wee one snoring and nope shes not overweight and she is 8 y.o. but it boils down to allergies that make her gizzard swell up.
a dose of zyrtec syrup and things get much more peaceful.
some you might look into allergies like dust, lint, linty dustbunnies... or anything fuzzy...like my ex..... (kiddn)
Even trying a new pillow can make a diff.
 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 12 (view)
 
I told my son (9) I pay his child support
Posted: 2/2/2008 5:09:51 PM
Hmmmmm...... my two and a half cents worth (inflation) ...
My kids are 8 and 11, they have the big ol wish list just like every
kid does that is ever influenced by mega media and wantin to keep
up with the Gusipeies. Sometimes things get a lil tight and there is
too much month at the end of the money. I just try and explain the
things we are responsible for and that if we save together we can get
what they want except for the life size Barbie Corvette
I had the gulp of guilt a while back when I was a wee bit too tired
and I brought up the support issue, I think it made all of us real
uncomfortable. Kids love thier parents... for good or bad until the day
comes that they make a choice about their lives and the ones that their
parents lead. If you complain that your not getting something from the ex
or that the ex did this or didnt do that, the kids feel confused and hurt.
They veiw it as an attack on someone they care about. So in my case I dont
want my kids in the middle. I'd rather they just learn to help get what they want
the good old fashioned way...... whine and cry and scream!
 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 58 (view)
 
Guys in supermarkets......
Posted: 12/9/2007 1:20:19 PM
Gosh.... if women are going to judge me from what is
in my shopping cart, I guess they are going to think
I'm Fast... Easy and Cheap!
 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Yummy Funnel Cakes
Posted: 12/9/2007 1:18:05 PM
MMMMmmmmmmmmm......... Funnel caaaaaake,

I have experimented with the expensive mixes and homemade
batters and beleive it or not if you use a complete pancke batter
and add a teaspoon and a half of Vanilla and a hefty pinch of
sugar it turns out quite well! I like to surprise my munchkins
every now and then with funnel cakes for breakfast and its a
gaurantee you'll get a sleepy headed grin! ....Extra powdered sugar on mine
okay?
 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 59 (view)
 
Where is everyone from?
Posted: 2/3/2007 12:52:56 PM
Winchester...By Gaawd.... Virginia!
Used to be a Swamp Billy... Point Lookout Maryland!

sniff..... sniff.... gets me thinking of hot steamed crabs and ice cold beer.......sniffle ...sniff
 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Why do you live where you presently are....
Posted: 8/19/2006 1:39:54 PM
Cause I landed here and now I'm happily awaiting the return of the mothership!
 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 2 (view)
 
How many times have we agreed to meet the person in the Photo, and find out different.
Posted: 12/6/2005 11:04:45 AM
Even if the attraction is there and you have talked, IM'd emailed called and then ...taa daah.. finally met up, when you meet a lie it still is one.



 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 15 (view)
 
There is so much more to me than how I look. Sound Familiar?
Posted: 12/6/2005 10:28:26 AM
That is awesome on the third date mystlw hope it keeps working for ya!!
and sorry to hear about the scary man....why did you tell on me? Now every body iz gonna know


 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 26 (view)
 
3 Things you look for in a mate
Posted: 11/30/2005 9:51:07 AM
A pulse is a good thing

A female is a great thang

A job would be fargin incredible

 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Thanks For The Memories
Posted: 11/28/2005 7:56:14 AM
see nobody can leave once you get this polluted water in your veins!!


 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 839 (view)
 
what you doing this weekend
Posted: 11/28/2005 7:53:24 AM
Maria you paint the hottest visuals


Just make like Red Green and bring the duct tape!
besides M'lady you wont need the truck upon arrival, your carrige awaits <<<<<<<

 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 838 (view)
 
what you doing this weekend
Posted: 11/25/2005 2:04:50 AM
Take a quick jaunt to Virginia ?????



Shop and Eat, Eat and Shop, eat and watch movies, sleep and eat, and maybe the leftovers will be gone


 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Some of us are making a triumphant return!
Posted: 11/24/2005 4:40:59 AM
Gotta Love the

as for the rest of you bottom feeders!

sniff....sniffle...sniff.....I missed ya



 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Singles Event in Winchester Va
Posted: 11/24/2005 4:39:08 AM
Dang....I missed it........

Anybody got a buck twenty seven?
I iz cheap

 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 40 (view)
 
when are are mad at someone close to you
Posted: 11/13/2005 10:36:49 AM
stupid azzed goggle eyed snot nosed waste of oxygen is a tru endearment

 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Big Guys In Northern Virginia
Posted: 11/13/2005 10:33:05 AM
Aww Indigo hunny I loves ya!
You should write me once a day and stuff sunshine up my arssszzz
Hope your doing good stranger !

 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Big Guys In Northern Virginia
Posted: 10/26/2005 9:36:16 AM
I'll be your huckleberry!
 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 90 (view)
 
Introduce Yourself Here.
Posted: 10/19/2005 7:33:08 AM
Its Okay Now.......I'm here!
Watch out ladies I have a keyboard and I'm not afraid to use it!
 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Dating Epiphanies
Posted: 9/17/2005 8:26:56 AM
Okay that,

Sounds to me like you are trying to get some player 101 lessons, Why the hell be someone your not or something your not?
Are you trying to get laid or build a relationship? Its not always both.

Theperson who likes you for you wont give a dang about moves, or chit chat,
They will like the person for who they are, the ones wanting moves and mui personality are acting looking for actors and playing the game.

You have to decide if you want to be a player or have a relationship because other players arent really looking for a relationship, they just want to play.

[qoute "Chilvary. I have a habit of holding open doors for women, handing over my coat or a sweater if it's cold, etc. Remember folks, chilvary isn't dead. It's just surreal."]

LOL and I have never heard a sinle woman complain when I have done this for them, usual it always brings a smile so why quit?

 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 3 (view)
 
How to deal with the first big disappointment?
Posted: 9/17/2005 8:03:35 AM
Hey txguy....
same here, my ex didnt bother to call send a card or anything for the girls birthdays, shattered two little hearts. And they will always remember that.
Open up a big ol can of forgivness and let them have it all, when the ex doesnt participate in any part of a kids life it boomerangs back, someday they will reach out to the kids and the kids will be thinking...yeah right....where were you.
Breaks your heart too I know but you have to love harder and work harder because the absent one wont. Its all good as they age, but some counseling wouldnt hurt either. Helps them keep thier self esteem.
 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Need Some Support Plz
Posted: 9/17/2005 7:57:52 AM
Hi Misty,

A lot of us share some of the same problems and feelings. And its a part of seperation when the other finds another.
Its hard to trust the untrustable but you have to try.
My ex wandered from guy to guy for four years one live in situation after another. Now she has remarried and has another on the side she runs too when it gets rough.
All through this the kids have been dragged through guy after guy home after home foe thier visitations. The upsaide?
Well stability and familiarness are importatnt to kids, they apreciate the stability they have at home, they love knowing dad is here and that things will always be uhh...abnormaly normal here.
It brought us closer healed some wounds and they thrive on knowing this is home.

You dont have to like someone else bieng around your kids, and if he doesnt want to step up and be a dad, though it will hurt him, it will heal a bit as he grows older. My stepson never knew his dad, had issue with it all through his teens and is a great young man now.
He even thanked me for bieng there for him and that was the best feeling ever.
So hang in there, love the bambino and try to carry on with or without him in the picture.
As for the step monster, you can communicate your feelings with her and it may wind up that you can be friendly about it, I know several ladies who are active in kids lives as stepmonsters and live ins, and they WORK WITH the birth mom , actually having fun with it.
Okay I'm shuttin up

 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 63 (view)
 
How much of a Freak are you?
Posted: 9/16/2005 9:59:42 PM
You scored a 69.62%.
For this test, the average percentage is 33.610100229629%.
359275 people have taken this test to date.


How intresting that 69 is my favorite number!!!

 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 119 (view)
 
whats worse, being a fat woman, or a fat man
Posted: 9/16/2005 9:49:37 PM
Dont worry Red, Dr. Rams patient care program entitles you to express delivery.......

The world is full of shallow people.... and the pond is too.

 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Dad trying to fight for his rights any advice?
Posted: 9/16/2005 8:53:39 PM
Here the kids get thier own attorney a guardian et litum appointed by the court for the kids .
That can be a blassing or a curse just like everythinhg else.
Its all been coverd here pretty good from one single dad to the rest of ya'll God Bless!
 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 115 (view)
 
whats worse, being a fat woman, or a fat man
Posted: 9/16/2005 8:42:33 PM
redmama your prescription is ready

And I know some really hot and sexy people that others like to call "Fat"
They like the skin they are in, are happy with themselves, give and except love so WTF! Leave other peoples stuff alone.
It really makes no difference what you look like or what you have, its how you feel about yourself. That is what makes attraction not some plasticised bimboloney with a bucket o bling bling.
Its the person. Nuff said.

 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Daycare name!!!!
Posted: 9/16/2005 6:36:07 PM
2nd Swings

 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Do women still believe in stand by your man or do they just jump ship?
Posted: 9/16/2005 6:33:49 PM
Hey you two...GET A ROOM!

oops sounds like ya did

 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 78 (view)
 
Well hello everyone
Posted: 9/16/2005 6:30:41 PM
Is this The SS Minow?????

 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 83 (view)
 
something is wrong with some of men on this site
Posted: 9/16/2005 5:37:45 PM
Soooo you like it rough ehhh?

Sorry darlin I'm a lover not a fighter


 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
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Any guys successful in getting ex-Mom to pay child support?
Posted: 9/16/2005 5:25:36 PM
The whole Child support system is flawed and in a lot of cases unfair, and that means both ways.
I have seen women getting 1500 a month plus another grand in alimony so they can live thier lifestyle.
And I have seen decent folks who dont get a dime and dont beotch about it. They just keep on.
Its easy for the courts and lawyers and agencies to say you get X ammount, but its a whole nother story about actually getting it.
Its supposed to be Child support not luxry tax, cant understand why its fair to some and unfair to others.

Kitkat I like the way you think, but some moms arent

Just as some dads arent

 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 80 (view)
 
something is wrong with some of men on this site
Posted: 9/16/2005 5:14:43 PM


Like my pearls Red??



 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Vulture??
Posted: 9/15/2005 5:00:20 PM
If you have a ned then go for it, if its for greed than let it go.
I get pride in doing the best I can with what I have.

 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Ex late on spousal support - time for maintenance enforcement?
Posted: 9/15/2005 4:57:58 PM
Welll what about the women who dont pay?
I'm owed a bunch a deadbeat is a deadbeat lets not be sexist and arrogant abot it okay? We have a top ten deadbeat list here and 4 are women so it workd both ways.
I bust my azz and work over and do sidejobs, if I didnt we wouldnt make it.



 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 4 (view)
 
What makes a band good?
Posted: 9/15/2005 4:53:25 PM
Original music, original sound, and the ability to actually play and sing with out bieng computer enhanced.

 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 15 (view)
 
When the ex wants back
Posted: 9/15/2005 4:52:02 PM
~ opens door sees the ex standing there, soft music is playing the crackiling of the fire in the living room can be heard, the sent of manicotti drifts out through the doorway,

I smile and hand her a candle.....slowly light it and smile softly gazing into her eyes.... knowing its the last time because that was a stick of dynamite painted white! Bang dat baby


 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
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Ex late on spousal support - time for maintenance enforcement?
Posted: 9/15/2005 4:46:19 PM
Geeesh I could only wish mine would pay
Then I could have a life again!!
Its a token dished out by lawyers that most never see, and if you do your one of the lucky ones. My sis has 18 years of back support owed to her, she wouldnt have to work three jobs anymore!

 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 5 (view)
 
single parents ok here
Posted: 9/15/2005 4:41:17 PM
Nuttin like a shameless plug ehhh softball?
Sheesh!


 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 19 (view)
 
I am Sick of hearing 'nice guys' complain.........
Posted: 9/13/2005 9:24:40 PM
Seems to me from the original pist your doomed anyway because you are blowing way too much smoke up your own a$$, Get off your high horse and live.
Not every "Nice" guy is
These are words on a screen and your interpitation is what you have the meanings get misconscrewed all the time, that is what emoticons are for, no wait ....thats what Jack Daniels if for


 ramcharger
Joined: 6/5/2004
Msg: 8 (view)
 
jumping to conclusions
Posted: 9/13/2005 9:20:39 PM
But many let the past rule thier future,
thus never escaping the past and royally screwing up the present.


 
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