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 Author Thread: what your favorite sex position?
 alphonseo
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 13 (view)
 
what your favorite sex position?
Posted: 10/2/2013 5:06:02 PM
I Have experianced the "Plastic in hand" position before, The EX liked that one.........Me........Not so much.


But doing her from behind while she is bent over the kitchen counter is Great!!
And she is doing dish's or making me a sandwich of course!!!
 alphonseo
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 59 (view)
 
paying for Cialis
Posted: 8/7/2013 12:13:54 PM
I have read that Cialis also works as birth control...... put one tablet in your shoe and you will go limp all day. :)
 alphonseo
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 17 (view)
 
How far will you go to please your lover ?
Posted: 2/13/2013 3:58:37 PM
What would you do for a Klondike Bar?
 AlphonseO
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Is it wrong to tell a guy right off the bat that you have no interest in sex?
Posted: 12/6/2012 5:58:59 PM
OP is it possible you recently over indulged in Wedding Cake??!! That has been know to kill a womens sex drive in my experiance.
 AlphonseO
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Weekend Getaway Gone Wrong :0(
Posted: 6/24/2012 6:58:01 PM
That sound crazy she is just full of shit!!!
 alphonseo
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Lets Roam to Rome – Fri Jul 6
Posted: 6/22/2012 7:39:43 PM
This is a great place out in the middle of no where, I have been there many times, great people. Don't know if I will make it, the ex GF lives just down the road.

Al
 alphonseo
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 30 (view)
 
What would you do? Is she a drunk?
Posted: 9/7/2011 8:57:45 AM
No, I am NOT seeing her any longer. After reading alot about Boarderline personality Disorder it seemed the drinking was just a small part of a much bigger issue. Seemed everything I read on BPD, was writen by someone following us around. Add to that the drinking and it became quite a volatile mixture.
I love her dearly and always will, but cannot and will not have contact with her again. Took me several monthes to get my head straight after that.

It's true, anything that appears too good to be true most always is!

I am currently seeing someone from POF and trying to see where a LDR may lead.
 AlphonseO
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 50 (view)
 
Vagina names...
Posted: 7/20/2011 11:16:28 AM
Breakfast
Lunch
Dinner
and
Midnight snack.
depending on time of day.
 alphonseo
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 653 (view)
 
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 7/14/2011 10:16:21 AM
Isn't Oral sex just talking about sex? Did I miss something,

 AlphonseO
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Ladies do u perfer 4play or striaght to the point.
Posted: 6/30/2011 8:47:11 PM
I love forplay, and believe in 3B4me, I like to make sure she has three be for me, not always but most of the time. Sometimes aquicky is good too.
 alphonseo
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 215 (view)
 
Dating someone with bi-polar ..............help!
Posted: 5/18/2011 11:08:43 AM
Yes, Bi-Polar is very treatable, IF they get help and take their meds.
The problem is alot don't even seek help, much less stay with it if they do.
Been there done that, still have the scars for that ride.
Not going there again, treated or not.
 alphonseO
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 465 (view)
 
Have all the really older guys given up?
Posted: 4/17/2011 4:17:16 PM

So, do YOU show interest in the women who are lower income, fat, and un-athletic?

Oldladypurple, to answer your question, YES. I prefer that a woman be finacialy secure as I am not looking to suport anyone but need not be wealthy, I like curvy, and Un-athletic is prefered as I am not much into athletics.
 ALPHONSEO
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 458 (view)
 
Have all the really older guys given up?
Posted: 4/13/2011 1:48:51 PM
I don’t know what defines "Really Old" But YES, I'm ready to give up. It's been my experience that if you are not wealthy, slim and athletic, it's "sorry not interested"
So point me toward the Monastery, besides the Monks brew great beer.
 alphonseo
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Have you ever dated someone with Borderline Personality?
Posted: 4/6/2011 12:44:06 PM
OH YEAH!!!
Been there, done That! I keep the ticket stub to remind me to NOT do that ride again. Add that alot of Bipolar personality disorder, OR Narcissistic personality disorder people often use Alcohol to help them cope and you have a very nice mix. The woman I dated also consumed copious amounts of Rum. She tossed me to the curb several times, and then called and wanted to get back together, never apologizing, always telling me a day later how lucky I was that she was willing to take me back. She often would fight with her family over the littlest things, and then not talk to them for days accusing them of being drama queens. Never allowed me to talk to her family unless she was present, and often talked to my family without my knowing, doing preemptive damage control so if there was a fight my family would think it was something I did to cause a fight. She could charm anyone if she wanted/needed to. But was a self proclaimed mean nasty **** to me, her son, her Ex, and her father. I still miss the person I originally met and fell in love with. But that was not the person she really was.
So all I can add is RUN AS FAR AND FAST AS YOU CAN AND NEVER LOOK BACK!!!
 alphonseO
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Crazy girls are better lovers?
Posted: 4/3/2011 7:33:35 PM
Oh Yeah! Crazy in the head, Crazy in the bed!
Been my excperiance with a Narcisisst!
Could not deal with her thought, she had to go.
 ALPHONSEO
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 33 (view)
 
narcissists
Posted: 3/25/2011 7:06:03 AM
I read the following; http://shrink4men.wordpress.com/2009/01/12/crazy-****-quiz/ Which I found very enlightening. Explained about my last relationship. Now of course this can be used to describe males as well as females with the exception on the lipstick. The relationship started out Incredibly fantastic, she was more than perfect, I could not believe how great life was. Never ever felt so happy and in love, then things began to change. This article described changes to a tee. She would just flip out! She went from wanting to get married one day to becoming very belligerent, mean & nasty, with a very foul mouth over nothing the next, or if it was something I was never informed what the issue was. Could not believe this was the same person. I still wonder why her husband left her? Duoh!! I don’t think it was for reasons she explained, as she blamed her EX as being narcissistic! She always projected her issues on to others.
I will need to order the above mentioned book, Sounds like something I should read for further closure. I still can not believe what had happened, my life with her went from PERFECT to an unbelievable mess. And always my fault. I tried to ignore her outbursts, hoping it would blow over but the more I tried to ignore it the meaner she got, until she garnered a negative response from me justifying it being my fault. The last episode lasted 3 days of her calling and texting profanities.
 alphonseo
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 408 (view)
 
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 1/24/2011 7:12:38 AM
I just heard about this woman.

Last week, I checked into the Four Seasons in Palm Beach and was a bit lonely. I thought, "I'll call one of those men you see advertised in phone books for escorts and sensual massage."

I looked through the phone book, found a full page ad for a guy calling himself Tony Tender-a very handsome man with assorted physical skills flexing in the picture. He had all the right muscles in all the right places,
thick wavy hair, long powerful legs, dazzling smile, six pack abs and I felt quite certain I could bounce off his sixpence a well oiled bum .... you get the picture. I figured, what the heck, I'll give him a call.

"Hello, ma'am, how may I help you?" . . . Oh my, he sounded sooo sexy!

Afraid I would lose my nerve if I hesitated I rushed right in, "Hi, I hear you give a great massage, I'd like you to come to my room and give me one.
No, wait, I should be straight with you .I'm in town all alone and what I really want is sex. I want it hard, I want it hot, and I want it now. Bring implements, toys, rubber, leather, whips, everything you've got in your
bag of tricks. We'll go hot and heavy all night tie me up, cover me in chocolate syrup and whipped cream, anything and everything baby.

Now how does that sound?

" He says, "Oh my God ... that sounds absolutely fantastic, but you need to press 9 for an outside line."

 alphonseO
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 16 (view)
 
how do you get over the concept of someone?
Posted: 1/23/2011 7:32:59 PM
Oh I'm not saying the good was a Fake personality, she is a Great person to everyone. The "Mean Nasty ****" is only shared with very close friends and family. She told me on several ocasions "don't feel special, I am nasty to everyone in my family, My Dad, Sister and especialy my Ex". she should have also included her adult children. I aske donce that if you know you are being mean and nasty why noy do something about it? She said that is just who she is and not going to talk to anyone about it. She was Bipolar and in denial. She is a great person if you don't get too emotionaly attached.
 alphonseo
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 230 (view)
 
Is there a good reason not to date someone who is bipolar?
Posted: 1/19/2011 7:13:27 AM
All right, I need to vent on this subject. I dated a beautiful woman for over two years. at times early on in our relationship she would just seem to snap, and **** at me for no apparent reason. I assumed it was that she was going through an ugly divorce, and was just overburdened, and stressed. But as her divorce became final, and we became closer thing worsened. Since she no longer was able to direct all her anger at times toward her Ex I became the recipient of unmanaged anger issues. After doing much reading on the subject of Bipolar, I am quite sure she suffers from this, and drinks a lot. All of her children have moved out as soon as they were able, leaving her with a big house with three empty bedroom and the kids living in friends basements all close to home. They only visit for short times as she always starts something with them about why she needs to drink. One night we would be talking of marriage and spending our life together and the next day I would receive hateful nasty mean text messages from her and mean phone calls, for no apparent reason. And she would never offer an answer to why, Just that I was so F**king stupid if she really needed to tell me why, projecting all her issued on me. I had recently discovered she had tried to commit suicide in the past. Claims everyone of her family has issues and all create drama in her life, and that she is the only one normal. In her manic state she was the perfect person, caring and loving. My family adored her until I let them read the text messages and listen to voice mails she left.
I love her and feel sorry for her BUT in no way am I willing to hitch my wagon to that. I hope she gets help, as I fear not the she is divorced and family members have moved out she will get worse, but she will not seek help.
 alphonseo
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 14 (view)
 
how do you get over the concept of someone?
Posted: 1/13/2011 11:24:15 AM
Strider866, have we been dating the same person? Same deal. Meet a old friend never dated before, but now 30 years later we meet fell in love. after 2 years thinks got to the point I could not handle the Dr Jekle and Mrs Hyde. I thought it was me at first, this can't be this beautiful happy person I knew. But becane to relize it was her and she was a self proclaimed "Mean Nasty ****" But only to me and her family. My friends and family could not believe the text and emails she sent me. I love and miss the person that most people see,The person I thought she was, but glad I left the person I know she is.
 alphonseO
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 20 (view)
 
How to cope with a breakup?
Posted: 1/12/2011 8:42:02 PM
^^^^^ Walts,
I totally agree with your philosophy!!!

Althought right now it is a couple headaches. But I'm working on it.

Thank you for your insight.
 alphonseo
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 43 (view)
 
Dumped him but still miss him ..
Posted: 1/4/2011 8:56:07 AM

Good for you minnow! We can do this. Each day gets better, I stay focused on what she did and said to me and for the time being block out the good and the "what could have beens". We must be true to our self! I know she will always hold a special place in my heart, but not right now. New year new me. No Looking Back. Not going to accept being treated poorly by anyone, much less someone that claims to love you!!
 alphonseO
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 12 (view)
 
falling out of love
Posted: 12/25/2010 8:23:25 AM
Merry Christmas All!
How sad that we are here didsucing lost love on Christmas morning.
Womaninblack,
Thank you for your insight, and how very true. It has been a dificult holiday since I parted with what I felt was my true and only love. But to much fighting her ego was always in the way. LOve her very much with my heart but the brain finally engaged and said enough!!!! Now comes the hard part of picking up the pieces of my life and moving on. I need to focus on me, and when I alow my self to reflect i must remember how the bad over shadowed the great.

Thank you all,

Now get off the computer and have a Merry Christmas!!!
 alphonseO
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Hindsight
Posted: 12/24/2010 11:07:01 AM
Kit28,

Good for you. So many times we lead with the heart and never engage the brain. I know what you are going thru. Throw the rear view mirror away and don't look back.
Why settle for someone that does not bring you true and complete happieness.

Good luck with the future.

Meery Christmas to all.
 alphonseo
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Hindsight
Posted: 12/20/2010 9:01:50 AM
How very true^^^^^



Also consider that for the bulk of humanity, goodness in people is the norm, not the exception. I think that, as we stumble through life, emotional maturity takes a lot of leesons and tests and remedial training, and we often find ourselves at our worst with a loved one. Once two many mistakes are made, there seems to be no going back to that first blush of all forgiving blind love. Thus, good people behave badly, and it seems to skew the statistics that there are more bad people than good.

Two good people who are a bad pairing can make the other think they married a bad person, when that just is not the case.


I know the 2 year relationship I was just in was GREAT 95% of the time, but the other 5% or less of the time she seemed to be able to bring out the worst in me, she was so mean and nasty I could not believe I was with the same woman. Maybe some mental issues, There are mental inssues in her family. And I will admidt to her being able to bring out a side of me I am not proud of.
But I also think people are not willing to sit down, talk to one another, and work through problems. So many of use run at the first sign of difficulty, we want instant gradification. No one is willing to work for that perfect relationship.

Good luck to All

 alphonseo
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Hindsight
Posted: 12/16/2010 2:44:11 PM
Good For You!!!!
Makes me feel better too just know that someone else can be strong!
Then I can Too!
I did give the ex a second chance just as you discribed your's wanting. The second time I broke it off, just two weeks ago has caused me more heartache and pain than the first time. I knew better and went back for more.

I'm throwing the rearview mirror away! Not Lookin back!
 alphonseo
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Dumped him but still miss him ..
Posted: 12/15/2010 11:04:13 AM
Dear Minnow and Energetic,
I too know the feeling, I ended the relasionship with a woman just two weeks ago, for the second time with her. She has issues, ruined her own Thanksgiving by starting Drama with her grown children, they left her with her turkey dinner by her self, and 2 bottles of wine. Some how it was all my fault she ruined her hoiliday, I wasn't even there. Nasty texts and emails for two days. Told her I'm done. 95% of the time we were great together true love, talked of marrige. But that mean vulgar, and nasty 5% not going to settle for. She projects all her problem onto the ones close to her, always someone elses fault. It's been a very difficult two weeks especialy with the holidays. Feeling very lonely, even with friend, hard to stay focused on things right now, But I know I did the right thing. Need to lead with the brain not the heart at this time. I also let myself think that I will never find another, but hell I found her, there has to be something better. We will feel better, just need time. Can't wait until the holidays are over, I know that will help.

Best of luck.
Have a Merry Christmas All.
 alphonseo
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 74 (view)
 
Gold Fish???!!!!
Posted: 12/6/2010 2:08:09 PM
WTF?????? I thought this was a free site. This just ended my interest in POF.
If I'm going to pay I'm going elsewhere. this totaly sucks.

It should be "Gold Digging Fish".
 alphonseo
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 8 (view)
 
All right, where am I going wrong
Posted: 10/15/2010 6:40:41 AM
Added some photos, be honest are they alright?
I get like NO response's.
What Da heck????
 alphonseo
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 429 (view)
 
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 9/21/2010 2:03:14 PM
^^^^^^ YEAH!!!!
You tell'm MsMicki!!!!
I agree!!

Any job worth doing is job worth doing right.
 alphonseo
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 187 (view)
 
Is there a good reason not to date someone who is bipolar?
Posted: 9/15/2010 12:15:00 PM
Oh I have been doing research.
Like I said she has not seen any type doctor in 17 years and refuses to. I first thought PMS maybe, but the bipolar describes it, and what she says happened in her past marriage, i can understand why her husband was as she says if she treated him anything like she does me. I give him credit for hanging in 25 years.

I love this woman dearly but cannot deal with the wild ride weekly.

I'm pissed at my self for being sucked in, But Love is blind...Leason learned.

If I were only so smart so young.
 alphonseo
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 185 (view)
 
Is there a good reason not to date someone who is bipolar?
Posted: 9/15/2010 11:04:59 AM
Okay, Interesting Read. I have been dating a terrific woman for 2 years but like others have said there are for the most part great day then out of the blue she calls and breaks up and blames me for what she can't explain, has not seen a doctor since the birth of her last child 17 years ago. The last 6 months have been pure hell!! I am convinced she is Bipolar, it all fits, even after she described her now ended marriage. what does the affect of alcohol have on this? mind you she is not taking any meds for anything. but does drink allot. Her brother died 4 years ago of alcoholism due to depression.

This thread has shown me that I am not crazy with what has been happening, and do not intend to continue this relationship any longer.

I'm getting to old to have to deal with that. I just the love of a good woman.
 alphonseo
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 6 (view)
 
All right, where am I going wrong
Posted: 9/3/2010 10:10:27 AM
So How often can one expect a inquiry from a profile?
 alphonseo
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 5 (view)
 
All right, where am I going wrong
Posted: 9/1/2010 9:23:09 AM
Okay, Thanks for all the great input. I have made several revisions.
I guess a Picture with a smile would be in-order.

Please give me your input on the latest.
I am terible at selling my self, I must be asking to much, maybe an end of season sale.

If a person is what they eat, im fast, cheap, and easy!
 alphonseo
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 2 (view)
 
All right, where am I going wrong
Posted: 8/31/2010 1:52:54 PM
Thank you to the both of you. Your criticism is well taken, I shall revise accordingly

Any other comments are certainly wlcome.
 alphonseo
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 1 (view)
 
All right, where am I going wrong
Posted: 8/31/2010 10:09:25 AM
I seem to get people to look but not bite, so I assume I am using the wrong bait.
I have sent numerous note to members of the opposite sex and none respond.
Where am I going wrong? I realize I am a big Guy, but that can't be a turn off to every woman. So Tell me where am I going wrong?

AlphonseO
 alphonseo
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 314 (view)
 
What words would you LEAST like to hear after sex?
Posted: 6/22/2010 8:41:47 AM
Next time try staying in the saddle longer than the 8 seconds!
 AlphonseO
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 41 (view)
 
Sneaky/sexy ways to seduce your partner
Posted: 5/7/2010 6:11:09 AM
[Leave a trail of clothes for him to follow.....]

OH NO! Not falling for that one again. Last time I followed a trail of cloths it lead me to the laundry. Something about a huge pile of dirty cloths just ruins the moment.
 AlphonseO
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 23 (view)
 
What is too kinky?
Posted: 4/27/2010 7:00:48 AM
The Baaaaaa Baaaaaa Baaaaaa isn't bad. But when you hear Daaaaaad Daaaaad Daaaad. I think you took the small fury animal kink too far!

And, it could not be proven in a court of law, and I will deny it until my dieing day!!!
What Could I say but " I Love Ewe"
 AlphonseO
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 8 (view)
 
What is too kinky?
Posted: 4/26/2010 7:30:27 AM
It's been so long I'm going to have to take the ropes coarse all over again, and can't remember who gets tied up.

Jumper cables? Hummmmmmm, Makes me think.
 alphonseO
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 22 (view)
 
What would you do? Is she a drunk?
Posted: 3/20/2010 6:22:20 PM
Thanks for the insight Funnyone.

You have spoke volumes.
 AlphonseO
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 20 (view)
 
What would you do? Is she a drunk?
Posted: 3/19/2010 8:49:48 AM
Now I'm getting texts at night. "Don't want Drama!" then 10 minutes later, "why must you constantly talk to your EX?" (because we need to raise our children, school homework, sports) and "why don't you call?" I think it was inebriated texting?
Sound like she is in it for the drama.

Stay with someone a few days and discover the dark side.

And why is it that the heart can mess with what is otherwise and intelligent Mind?
someone quick, Hit me with a big stick!!!
 AlphonseO
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 202 (view)
 
I have a great looking girl but............
Posted: 3/18/2010 6:15:39 AM
What a Douche Bag!
Cut her loose now! so she can find someone who appreciates her.
 AlphonseO
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 14 (view)
 
What would you do? Is she a drunk?
Posted: 3/18/2010 5:54:05 AM
Thanks, All,
It has also explained some of the late evening phone calls over the past year. Always being needy and clingy, needing me to tell her I love her, seeking confirmation. She always seemed distraut on those calls, never could tell she had been drinking forsure, but thought so. Now I sure she was drinking. Never want me to call after 9:00 pm, What I now believe to be the witching hour, where one would have known forsure she was drinking, or she was afraid she would not remember the call in the am.

I'm very disapointed. She is such a great person, even in public keeps it under control, I was very impressed with reluctance to have more than 2 drinks any place we went, only at home.
 alphonseO
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 6 (view)
 
What would you do? Is she a drunk?
Posted: 3/17/2010 8:28:14 PM
Kind of what I was thinking. Just wanted to make sure I'm not nuts. You Know sometimes you cant see the forest thru the trees. I'll try and give it some time as friends, see if it is her divorce, and keep the track shoes out.

I was thinking the same with the kids, her and my girls get along great, My daughters love her, But I sure would not want to expose them to Mrs. Hyde.

I was also thinking may depression, I know some people with depresion and when not treated can hit the sauce pretty good, otherwise, under control.

Thanks all for you opinions.
 alphonseO
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 1 (view)
 
What would you do? Is she a drunk?
Posted: 3/17/2010 7:14:05 PM
So, I meet an old friend, never dated but were best friends from 30 years ago. Reconnected and discovered we are both going thru a divorce, both seperated. We have dated for over a year and both have got our divorces moving forward. A trying time for both no less. I love this woman, she is the greatest, says she loves me, we talk many times daily and have dreams of our future together, a true soulmate if there ever was. I was forced to leave my house for several days and she invited me to stay with her for the time being. we have never stayed at either house because we both have childeren and felt it improper to sleep together while the kids are around. So first night they we have a few drinks and she breaks out the shot glasses, time for shots. She gets pretty drunk, and starts to berate me comparing me to her no good husband. I thought its the drinks talking, one time thing. Any time before we stopped for drinks she never had more than two or three, now at home no stopping. Dosn't remember anything the next day. No habgover what so ever. Well second and third night the same. Forth night it started and i quitly left without saying a word, didn't want a fight. Now she says Im a coward. I said I don't like to drink like that, she said she likes a couple drinks, well couple is a half of a bottle. Is she an alcoholic? Can they control drinking in public, I know she dont drink like that every night. I love her except for the Dr Jeckle and Mrs Hyde. I tryed to talk to her about it she says thats how I am, I like a couple drink once in awhile. Do I run like hell? I could understand while trying to deal with the stress of divorce, and kids. but she get angry. Mean drunk.

What would you do?
 AlphonseO
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 19 (view)
 
sex drive in women over 40
Posted: 8/26/2009 7:37:51 AM
I have noticed that there is one think that significantly decreases a woman’s sex drive, and that is the consuming of Wedding Cake!
 AlphonseO
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 23 (view)
 
man who doesn't sleep with wife??
Posted: 10/3/2008 11:07:28 AM
I believe that does happen. I've just recently connected with a very good friend from 25 years ago. She has confessed that her Husband has not shown any affection towards her for 7 years. She stays because of the kids. Unfortunately we are both married.
 
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