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 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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interracial dating
Posted: 12/17/2014 9:31:06 AM
I have no problem with interracial dating. Bit of a bonus as far as I am concerned
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 36 (view)
 
long tongues
Posted: 3/8/2014 10:14:55 AM
I don't have long tongue but do the best I can and never tire LOL
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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Is my girlfriend bi-sexual?! Please help...
Posted: 3/8/2014 10:00:47 AM
Bi is best

I know as friends two couples where the woman is actively bi and the guys - one in his 60''s and the other in his 40's - just love it. They enjoy hunting for prey for their partners,. No cheating here because both know and both want it. If the ladies play just the two of them or it becomes a 3some they guys still love it

I should be so lucky
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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Endless messaging
Posted: 2/20/2014 5:38:43 PM
Meet early at a safe neutral place, coffee shop or similar. Not a time for alcohol or parties. Sometimes people read into a profile what they are looking for and not what the poster intended

If there is a mutual connection go forward - if not forget it,
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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Ontario Men
Posted: 1/19/2014 7:31:37 PM
You only need one so the ratio may not be that significant. I automatically exclude anyone young enough to be my daughter or heavens-to=Betsy granddaughter. One advantage of being a senior is so long as they are still breathing they are not to old. I seek love so what's critical is the meaning of love

Louis de Bernieres said it best

"Love is a temporary madness, it erupts like volcanoes and then subsides. And when it subsides, you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion, it is not the desire to mate every second minute of the day, it is not lying awake at night imagining that he is kissing every cranny of your body. No, don’t blush, I am telling you some truths. That is just being “in love”, which any fool can do. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident.?

I challenge anyone to say it better or give a more worthwhile goal.
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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Ontario Men
Posted: 12/15/2013 7:39:45 PM
No shoes
I agree with many of your post on Lemon.

I don't bother to read his braggadocio description of how wonderful, distinguished and wise this chap presumes to be
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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Raxx POF Singles Bash - Friday October 25 2013
Posted: 10/17/2013 8:39:19 PM
Would love to come but at my age (85) I probably wouldn't fit in unless someone brings their mother or grannie
Senior widower
LOL
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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Ontario Men
Posted: 8/19/2013 8:55:16 AM
so you find 50 'a and 60's stodgy. LOL
My goodness I have had too many adventures and been teo close to death too many times to think that I have a stodgy or judgmental attitude. 'course I have to much to do in my life to get hooked up with someone who owns a poop machine. Mind you I do like dogs but have too much to do to follow a dog around with a plastic bag,

We he people are all unique in both who we are and the partner we would like to have, the conditions of our love if indeed we want a committed relationship. Know who you are, what you want and go for it.

Me I just want age appropriate 'til death do us part. That's everything for me
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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Sloppy Seconds: Acceptable or no? For older daters.
Posted: 8/19/2013 7:02:12 AM
For you young folks that think 40 is older consider a few words for someone who really is older i.e. 85

YOLO - as some say. You Only Live Once. At times it may be wise to live for the moment and forget grand ethereal schemes that may never come to be

Of course I would like on committed - 'til death do us part relationship and jump at the opportunity.

But until and unless that happens I must live for the moment and the day.

Balance the odds and remember YOLO
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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Wandering eyes
Posted: 4/12/2013 4:57:05 AM
Short and and sweet - move on
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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What do women/men seek in a partner? Regional differences, also?
Posted: 4/10/2013 3:15:53 PM
French or English - make no difference to me

I can be courteous in several languages though English is the one of greatest fluency
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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What about laundry and cleaning ????
Posted: 4/10/2013 8:56:54 AM
No pets in my home so cat litter not problem

I have a housekeeper and someone to look after grass and snow. What's the worry?
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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Cooking a deux ? Or not ?
Posted: 4/10/2013 8:54:10 AM
I love to cook so not a concern for me
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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What do women/men seek in a partner? Regional differences, also?
Posted: 4/9/2013 5:30:22 PM
Just go with the flow and don't worry about differences whatever the cause
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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What do women/men seek in a partner? Regional differences, also?
Posted: 4/9/2013 5:50:11 AM
Don a fable with a lesson
Fable of the
Porcupine
It was the coldest winter ever. Many animals died because of the cold.
The porcupines, realizing the situation, decided to group together to keep warm. This way they covered and
Protected themselves; but the quills of each one wounded their closest companions.

After awhile, they decided to distance themselves one from the other and they began to die, alone and frozen. So they had to make a choice: either accept the quills of their Companions or disappear from the Earth.

Wisely, they decided to go back to being together. They learned to live with the little wounds caused by the close Relationship with their companions in order to receive the heat that came from the others. This way they were able to survive.

The best relationship is not the one that brings together perfect people, but when each individual learns to live with the imperfections of others and can admire the other person's good qualities.

The moral of the story is:

Just learn to live with the Pricks in your life!
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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What do women/men seek in a partner? Regional differences, also?
Posted: 4/9/2013 5:44:46 AM
Are the people of Quebec different? Of course but so are all other Canadians. I have photographed and written on Canada from BC to Nfld and north to the high Arctic. Each region is different as each city or town is different as each community is different as each person is unique.

I was raised in Ontario so my main language is English. I was born in Montreal but left before I was a year old. My language may be English but my heart is French. Like many people on earth I claim my place of birth as mine - a special place - but also part of a larger whole called Canada. My Quebec is by birthright part of my country. It's people are unique as are people in other parts of Canada.
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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PETS
Posted: 4/8/2013 7:50:26 AM
Sorry Scintillance Saying no pets means no pets. It doesn't mean I hate or dislike pets but when I clarify in subsequent correspondence that I live in a pet free home and wish to continue that way - no pets means no pets.
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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Voyage de célibataires
Posted: 4/7/2013 10:38:37 AM
Parce que je suis nez a Montreal mon coeur est Francais mais je parle Anglais. parce que je demeure a l"ontario
Have had Francophones stay at my house on many occasions and am ready to offer hospitality to people traveling in or through Kingston
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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PETS
Posted: 4/7/2013 8:54:37 AM
no pets for me ever.

Talked to a lady in Toronto who "had no pets." Drove from Kingston to Toronto to meet her - a three hour drive each way.

When I met her she had a cat in her arms. "I just knew when you met kitty you would love her."

Don't people understand that no pets means no pets. I don't hate pets. always have dog treats in my car and on my person, but no pets in my home means no pets.

You're in a wheel chair - no problem. You have a grand child or some other person you have to look after - no problem. But no pets means no pets.
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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younger men vs mature men....
Posted: 3/28/2013 2:47:17 PM
Pick me! Pick me!
35 mature? 35 is still wet behind the ears

Now for maturity I repeat Pick me! Pick me!
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 3/27/2013 11:22:21 AM
Is there anything finer of funner?
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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men and viagra?
Posted: 3/16/2013 2:35:24 PM
Viagra fails to work for three out of 10 men, according to Pfizer, the company that makes the drug. And, even when it does work, it does not always make impotent men feel and function completely normal.
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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Your Love Language
Posted: 3/15/2013 1:25:44 PM
SweeHappyNSexy What a wonderful posting, what a wonderful profile and you are geographically close to me. Only problem is - damnit! - I am old enough to be your father..

I can do nothing but wish you all the best
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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phone calls
Posted: 3/3/2013 1:25:31 PM
Hey Greanize
if you weren't young enough to be my daughter and you didn't own a cat -or does the cat own you? - I'd call you back

Like your photo's and profession. I to am a photographer. done this country from west to east and north to high arctic;

Wishing you all the best
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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phone calls
Posted: 3/3/2013 9:25:11 AM
Have fun with this posting, don't be mean spirited and vote to delete

Consider it a bonus to get this location if you are looking for a chick or a hunk


http://youtu.be/ghrD­IQ-K8mg
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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phone calls
Posted: 3/2/2013 5:40:29 PM
some times we click some times we don't

Some people might not like me because I wear a beard. might not like me because I don't want pets.

No value in speculating, just move on
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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Your Love Language
Posted: 2/15/2013 8:31:46 AM
My love language for love of all humanity is to greet them in their heritage language. Mandarin,, Korean, Japanese. Hebrew, German, Italian, Spanish, French Arabic or whatever.

IMO to love one person as a special person can be much richer if you love many in a general and accepting sense. Xenophobia deprives mankind of the richness other cultures can add to our own lives.
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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pets yes or no
Posted: 2/13/2013 3:37:41 PM
petsAmust
I agree if you don't want to take the pets with the partner then you shouldn't get involved in the first place.

I specifically state no smokers or pets. If a pet owner decided to trash their pets I would have no respect or interest in that person.

A home without a pet may be a home that is quite capable of human love and relationships with no need for a surrogate.

The nose can become desensitized to smells. People whose house smells of pets may not be able to smell it so their house is no longer a home but a smelly place.
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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Need Vs Want !!!!!!
Posted: 2/12/2013 9:43:27 PM
Need vs want?

I don't need a woman to cook for me, I'm a fair to middling cook

I want someone to share meals and life with

Depends on the subject or role you are talking about.

I don't need anyone to go to bed with but I sure as H*** would love to have one
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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First contact settings
Posted: 2/12/2013 9:33:42 PM
It wouldn't take long to have the common courtesy to send a note "I don't think we would be a match" Much better than letting your hurtful prejudice show.
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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Relationships
Posted: 2/12/2013 9:28:29 PM
You severely limit yourself by saying anyone writing must live within 75 miles

The geography is not a problem for me

our age differences would likely be a problem fore you.
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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Players
Posted: 2/9/2013 12:59:22 PM
OP it may be a matter of perception. For example you say you have no pets and your photo includes a dog on your lap.

And revenge is the key?

I never allow my character to be formed by the bad character of someone else but if revenge is your game go for it.
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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why do kids ages matter when your chatting
Posted: 2/8/2013 4:53:36 AM
OP I think the self confession in your pen name should supply the answer

Kids do matter to people looking for a serious relationship
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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manulife one mortgage accouts
Posted: 2/6/2013 11:24:44 AM
My advice is to go debt free, use only one credit card with preauthorized payment in full every month.
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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pets yes or no
Posted: 2/6/2013 11:22:04 AM
You nailed it for me wysong
I think a a care giver of my late wife for over 17 years of multimple illness might demonstrate a degree of compaswion.

Why someone like KER6969 thinks a non pet owner could hate pets is beyond me. Life can be enriched and enhanced much more by caring for other humans than by caring for pets.

To each his/her own but a person depending on a pet for a wholesome relationship with life is someone I would look askance at.
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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pets yes or no
Posted: 1/31/2013 6:26:54 AM
Thanks onefreeguy
In my opinion anything living and breathing is a pet so yes that includes fish.

Caring for my wife through over 17 years of multiple terminal illnesses is IMO much more demanding than caring for pet of any kind. I never skimped on or complained about her needs and took only two respite breaks during those years.

Now I am free and reluctant to surrender that freedom to giving a pet the deserved attention

As for pet people - I have seen pet people kinder to pets than to their own children or other humans

And of course cats are bird killers driving some species to the point of extinction

Cat owners think their cat would never kill but a cat outside on it' s own will hunt and kill
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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Circumcision
Posted: 1/30/2013 4:20:56 PM
I'm only 84 and I'm keeping mine
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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pets yes or no
Posted: 1/30/2013 11:35:21 AM
I don't dislike pets but my home is and will remain pet free

If you own a pet and it passes into pet heaven would you get another pet?

would someone owning pet be a deall breaker for you as it is for me?
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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my son had cancer
Posted: 1/30/2013 10:33:48 AM
No problem for me. I had three bouts of cancer while I was a patient advocate and care giver for my late wife for over 17 years after she had been told she might not last six months, six years max. My last bout was Oct /97 so considered cured

I do have problems with smokers - which is less and less concern as fewer people smoke

I also have problems with pets. My home is and will remain pet free

Pets are equivalent to having children, can be expensive, require food exercise, are a travel impediment etc etc

I neither need nor want a pet.
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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What's worse... lame excuse or no response?
Posted: 1/25/2013 6:10:32 PM
OP your profile states "But I do need a man who will be willing and able to be honest, loving, supportive and understanding, as I would be willing to do the same."

Be understanding yourself without reading more into his remark than he's honestly not interested. Not an insult, just the way the ball bounces.
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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When he doesnt want to touch anything but your nipples
Posted: 1/20/2013 4:06:45 PM
How about I come down and show him how?
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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Damn foot in mouth... again
Posted: 1/20/2013 4:04:00 PM
Simple OP stop being a dork and get used to being alone
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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Being direct
Posted: 1/15/2013 3:39:22 PM
If I were a woman and saw your profile wanting intimacy but no commitment I'd block you quick as a bunny or just ignore you
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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How do you feel about mfm and/or ffm threesomes?
Posted: 1/14/2013 2:18:27 PM
I was in a MFM relationship for years. it was her idea and all about pleasing her. Both she and her husband had no problem .. There was never any MM action. My wife was essentially asexual so I never felt I was giving away anything she wanted

I know two couples where the F is a practicing bi and both guys are happy with this.

It's not cheating if you're doing it in the same room


Would I go into a MMF or FFM. In s heart beat.
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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Pure, wholesome & reserved sexual partners...
Posted: 1/14/2013 1:48:37 PM
For whatever relevance you may find I can only quote the chief psychiatrist of a major hospital I will not name

'show me a woman who has saved it for her husband and I will show you an unsolvable marital problem."

I suspect a similar maxim may apply to a man.
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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Why exchange phone numbers immediately
Posted: 1/8/2013 5:05:16 PM
I readily give my phone # - a land line- so people using a reverse directory can check to see I am a real person and where I live.

A little more security for the ladies.

I don't need or ask for a ladies # until some trust has been established in me by her.
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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Dating and Cellphones
Posted: 1/6/2013 1:40:54 PM
Don't have, don't need and don't want a cell phone. When I leave my home with my land line in it I am fully engaged with the real world and the people in it.
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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sober/recovery dating
Posted: 1/5/2013 9:39:17 PM
OP
Many of us have our wills and wont's. very lovely lady posted a reply, she probably wouldn't date me because at age 84 the age difference would be a great hurdle. Lovely as she is I wouldn't date her because she smokes. That's a deal breaker for me. As is pet ownership. For another human being I could work things out so if you are looking after kin folk or a friend I could be a great asset. But your poop machine aka pet, sorry I don't need or want a pet in my life.

I gave up on one lovely lady as the last time I saw her she was so drunk she could hardly stand up

Stay with AA and keep looking. look within the ranks of AA for a potential partner. And look elsewhere.
















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 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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The talk on exclusivity
Posted: 12/17/2012 1:27:15 PM
I would not seek or offer exclusivity until there was sufficient dating to discuss and agree on what it should be

I know a couple of chaps - one married one common law - who are exclusive to their lady partners who are not exclusive to them. In both cases the ladies are bi and have lady friends with benefits. This is approved and encouraged by their men partners who do not feel it is a threat

I think I could go for an arrangement like that
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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bi people
Posted: 12/17/2012 11:13:26 AM
Hey aGent Lemon Don't worry about what people may or may not be thinking about you

Chances are they are not thinking seriously about you or me.

Would be nice to have someone thinking seriously of us wouldn't it?
 
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