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 Author Thread: What's your favorite secret ingredient?
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 179 (view)
 
What's your favorite secret ingredient?
Posted: 5/4/2017 2:37:34 PM
Montreal Steak Spice. Started using it as an alternative to salt,now I use it in pretty much everything. Except desserts.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 166 (view)
 
Do women really get wet panties without getting physical?
Posted: 5/4/2017 1:14:12 PM
One woman I dated got very wet just talking about sex. A little bit of kissing and she'd be soaked down to her knees.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Facebook
Posted: 2/26/2015 9:51:33 AM
I like Facebook. Good for keeping in touch with old friends and family,and have managed to make some cash through some of the groups I've joined. I've even managed to win a few prizes through promotions.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 70 (view)
 
Ways to Reduce Sex drive
Posted: 2/8/2015 5:04:02 PM
My God! Just jerk off a lot more. Enough of that will take care of the sex drive!
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 4 (view)
 
masturbation remorse/guilt
Posted: 1/6/2015 7:17:17 AM
Nope. Never. It's a fantasy thing,and it's easier to picture someone you know well than a celebrity or some other faceless person. What sometimes gets me is when I have an erotic dream about someone I know,because I'll smile or chuckle when I next see them.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 4 (view)
 
I live with my grandmother
Posted: 1/5/2015 9:54:19 AM
Not having a place of one's own can cause problems for certain meetings. Think of getting busy knowing that granny might not actually sleeping in her room.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 5 (view)
 
orgasmic breasts
Posted: 1/5/2015 9:51:19 AM
My girlfriend orgasms from stimulation to her breasts and nipples,and in some other ways that some might not consider sexual. Sometimes I can get her off by rubbing the back of her arm just above her elbow. She says I'm the only one that's ever been able to do that. Apparently she's extra sensitive to my touch.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 554 (view)
 
Why don't tall men choose to date tall women?
Posted: 12/29/2014 11:56:59 AM
Most men just prefer women shorter than themselves. I'm one of the exceptions in that I like very tall women. Something about long legs,I guess. I've dated several women close to or over 6 feet,and my current girlfriend is 6'4",2 inches taller than me.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Canadian museum for human rights.
Posted: 12/19/2014 7:14:31 AM
Somewhat true,but the plains peoples could use the rest of the buffalo for food and get trade goods for the hides. Killing of the buffalo by White hunters denied the Natives the meat.

Haven't been to the Museum yet although I've been in the area a few times. Honestly it doesn't interest me.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 21 (view)
 
One Thing..
Posted: 12/19/2014 7:07:08 AM
Overall I'm pretty happy,but I would like to get my lazy left eye fixed. It would make posing for pictures a lot easier as I currently have to stare to the right of the camera in order to bring it over a bit.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 9 (view)
 
age set in Search ignored
Posted: 12/12/2014 10:30:40 AM
Check out the "My City" category. You'll probably be able to see profiles of all ages. I'm not sure if you can contact them though.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 41 (view)
 
Sex drive of men over 40
Posted: 11/16/2014 5:29:26 AM
I'm 49,and my sex drive is as strong as ever. My girlfriend is 36 and he has a high sex drive as well,and I'm able to keep here well satisfied. The only thing that has changed is my recovery time. I now need a couple hours to get ready for the next session.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 18 (view)
 
How can I spice up my chili?
Posted: 11/9/2014 12:10:58 PM
It's often hard to get fresh peppers up here,so I like to use ground red chili peppers in mine. About a heaping tablespoon for a 4 quart pot. That's good hot,work-up-a-sweat-but-don't burn-your-mouth chili.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 38 (view)
 
size doesn't matter its not the size of the boat
Posted: 10/12/2014 7:36:34 AM
I'm about average,maybe a bit below. A lot of women have told me that I hit all the right spots for them,and judging by their reactions I was. I seemed to have been with several ladies who were multi-orgasmic,and then they'd tell they weren't,at least not to that point. But everyone has their preference.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Why do men keep in touch after break ups?
Posted: 10/12/2014 7:26:39 AM
Beats me. Personally I know when to give it up. If a woman says she's not interested or things didn't work out I don't give it another try.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 43 (view)
 
What is the oddest thing someone has said to you on a first meet/first date?
Posted: 9/4/2014 2:22:30 PM
"If you'll pay for the U-Haul rental we can be living together before the end of the week."

Seriously!
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Talking to a girl in an Open Marriage looking for fun...
Posted: 8/26/2014 3:15:16 PM
Make sure it's an open marriage. Ask to talk to her husband. That way you know it's honest.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Looking way younger than 30
Posted: 8/10/2014 5:56:07 AM
My girlfriend is 36 but still gets asked for ID at the bar. She has a babyface. I'm 49 and look older with the grey in my beard,so I really get some dirty looks when people find we're a couple.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Question about the viewed me section
Posted: 6/28/2014 6:26:10 AM
No. The line of people on top are sorted by the last time they were online . No matter how many times you look at at a profile you stay in the same place in the order.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 35 (view)
 
whats with young russian women emailing me for a relationship-
Posted: 6/28/2014 6:08:01 AM
Yeah,I had one a couple years sago. Quite gorgeous and 20 some years younger. I told her I was attached and would only be interested in e-mail chatting which she said was fine,and then the next thing you know she was talking marriage and planning our life together. Once I helped her get to Canada of course. I told her to send me a few nudes so I knew what I'd be getting and never heard from her after that.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Not seeking a relationship - Then why be here?
Posted: 6/20/2014 4:54:53 PM
What else do you put when you're just here for the forums? You still need a POF profile so that works the best.

Also,some people like myself might believe that actually looking for a serious relationship might not work,and it's better to just seek friends and casual dating with the hope that one might eventually grow to something more. That worked for me.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Have you met someone IRL that you spoke to on POF?
Posted: 6/20/2014 4:47:12 PM
Yeah,since our capital city is smaller than some I've seen a few people from POF. The funniest on was when I started a construction job with a new company two years ago and one of the lady packer operators looked very familiar,even though I knew I'd never seen her before. Then I found her profile in my matches one day and realized I'd seen it before. We had a good laugh about it one day.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Any men use a prostate massage toy during sex or a bj?
Posted: 6/11/2014 6:41:43 AM
My girlfriend picked up a toy for me that we use once in a while. The best blowjob I ever had though was from a woman who knew how to massage the prostate gland all the while. People in the next province probably heard my scream when I came.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Women with facial hair...
Posted: 5/27/2014 6:32:20 AM
As long as she hasn't got a better moustache than me there's no problem.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Sorry but you live too far away !
Posted: 5/27/2014 6:23:00 AM
It's a perfectly valid excuse. Everybody has their limits and a 100 miles would be too far for me. I live in a rural area 20 miles from our capital city and that drive was fine,but I wouldn't be driving more than that to date someone.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 4 (view)
 
What political things makes Canada and the US much different countries?
Posted: 5/26/2014 7:41:14 AM
Two differences that I've noticed:

We Canadians tend not to move around less. I've a lot of friends in North Dakota and Minnesota who were not born there,while probably 90% of the people who have graduated from the local high school still live within a 100 miles.

Canadians celebrate their ethnicity more. We're not a "melting pot". Most people like to talk about where their ancestors were from and it's often a topic of conversation. I've met many people in the States who had no idea of the origin of their last name.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Eczema management tips?
Posted: 5/26/2014 7:30:58 AM
Pumpkin is supposed to help eczema. Try a soap containing pumpkin pulp. There are a number of companies that sell handmade soaps that contain pumpkin for the treatment of eczema. I suggested one to a friend some years back for the eczema on her arms and she swears by it now.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 31 (view)
 
YOUR BIGGEST TURN ON - WET AND WILD
Posted: 5/6/2014 8:27:05 AM
Just simply me being the cause of all that moaning.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Condom Conundrum
Posted: 2/28/2014 9:09:15 AM
If you're just worried about getting off there's other acts that can accomplish that. Keep at intercourse with a condom and maybe things will even out eventually. I also could never orgasm with a condom on,but eventually things worked out and I was able to.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 20 (view)
 
what oil to use for deep fryers?
Posted: 2/26/2014 7:44:04 AM
I stick to Canola oil. Just have to change it a little more,but it's less expensive and for me that's a big one. I don't use an electric deep fryer though; I prefer a deep cast iron skillet for all my deep frying.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Caught on camera
Posted: 1/28/2014 3:10:53 PM
No. My favorite place to makeout or have sex in public was in the great outdoors and the odd roadside park. I never saw the Goodyear blimp go over so I am pretty sure I am safe.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Ideal length of time between dates/hangout?
Posted: 1/21/2014 7:24:16 AM
Two weeks seems like way too long an interval. Kind of makes me think you'd not be very much into one another if you could wait that long.

If things are just getting going,at least once a week,like a weekend date. After that,as often as you'd like it to be. When my girlfriend and I were dating 3 times a week was the norm,and sometimes that wasn't enough. We were really into one another.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 10 (view)
 
After how much sex do you feel Sexually Compatable?
Posted: 1/18/2014 4:16:30 PM
I've usually known after the 1st couple of times,in most cases. I've been fooled a few times though,including one long term girlfriend whose sex drive decreased the longer we were together.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 67 (view)
 
Guys, do you find you attract younger women out than online?
Posted: 1/8/2014 11:58:11 AM
There's been a variety depending on what I was looking for. I used to use telephone chat lines at one time,and there it was younger to much younger(more than 10 years) women that were usually contacting me. Online when I was seriously looking the interested women were approximately my age,and now that I'm just looking for chat friends they tend to be a few years older.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 30 (view)
 
The aftermath .......
Posted: 1/6/2014 3:29:24 PM
Have him exercise his PC muscle. He can flex and hold it in sets. That may help him last a bit longer.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 71 (view)
 
Why do some women have a problem with male masturbation
Posted: 1/4/2014 10:08:04 AM
I've only been with one woman who had a problem with me masturbating to porn,and it was more likely it was the porn that upset her. She didn't like it all,even wanting me to give up my subscription to Playboy,feeling that it just another type of vile pornography. She would say sometimes that I shouldn't be masturbating at all because she should have been enough for me,but then her idea of a proper amount of sex was once in a blue moon.

The only real effect all the masturbation had on me was to make me last a lot longer. After the two of us broke up and I got into relationships with other women I discovered a lot of ladies loved the fact that I could for a long time. I've slowed down on the masturbation in the last few years and I'm still able to go for 20 minutes or so,which my LTR girlfriend thinks is pretty good.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 75 (view)
 
Have you ever dated a nympho?
Posted: 12/31/2013 8:37:37 AM
My girlfriend was pretty a much a nympho when we first got together. I had a high sex drive myself so it worked out well. Things slowed down after a while,but there's still plenty of sex to keep us both happy.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 25 (view)
 
How long will you communicate via email/phone before you lose interest?
Posted: 12/29/2013 7:50:22 AM
It depends on how much I'm interested in the person. If we seem we could be a good match then I'm quite patient. My girlfriend and I started chatting on the phone in September of 2001,but we couldn't meet until mid-November. We just kept missing each other. And we've been together ever since. Where would I be if I'd given up after a couple of weeks?
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Never Had Many Complaints
Posted: 12/29/2013 7:44:02 AM
Sometimes it just depends on the night. We're all human,and sometimes things just don't work out. I've been that night of great sex for a number of women,and I know I've been that night of horrible sex for a few. You could complain about someone and spoil his reputation,but maybe it was just an off night.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Gift cards are a SCAM!
Posted: 12/26/2013 11:00:30 AM
I'm a hard person to buy for,so I'll take a gift card anytime. Restaurant cards are great because I can then take my family out. I don't give a lot of cards,my girlfriend being the exception,unless I know she needs something. Usually she gets a card from a clothing store as she's hard to fit(being so tall) so she can pick out something that fits better.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 74 (view)
 
Moving too fast stories?
Posted: 12/15/2013 7:46:49 AM
The ultimate one for me was back in 2000 when I used telephone chat lines a lot. I struck up a conversation with a lady in Calgary,Alberta(14 hours away) and after a 20 minute conversation she said she could rent a U-Haul the next day and move in with me in less than a week. WHOA!
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Simultaneous O's
Posted: 12/15/2013 7:38:29 AM
It's nice if it happens,but actually trying to make it so can be difficult. I've always found that it just worked better to try to get her off a few times before worrying about my own orgasm. I'm very lucky now in my current relationship because my orgasm generally causes her to orgasm. Of course,she's multi-O so she's usually climaxed several times already.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 123 (view)
 
Orgasms from penetration alone
Posted: 10/30/2013 2:06:42 PM
I've been with a good many women that orgasmed from penetration alone,and a few could have multiple orgasms. My girlfriend is one such.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Loud women
Posted: 10/12/2013 7:39:58 AM
Depends how much they get caught up in the moment and how much they're enjoying the act. I like a moaner.but for me their body language is even more important. When a woman is meeting my thrusts,hugging me tighter,tossing her head,etc,now that''s a huge turn-on.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 109 (view)
 
Too Tall?
Posted: 10/12/2013 6:59:55 AM
I'm 6'2 and while I've dated shorter women I prefer taller. My current long term girlfriend is 6'4". Yup,you read that right. But then I am a leg man and taller women tend to be all legs.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 48 (view)
 
I've dated both sides...
Posted: 10/12/2013 6:40:15 AM
Many men are threatened by a bi woman who seeks to date other women. They seem to feel that suddenly there's less women for them to have a chance with.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 13 (view)
 
How often do you go out?
Posted: 9/6/2013 7:34:32 PM
I'm a laborer for a heavy construction company. After a 12 hour work day with a half hour drive each way I don't usually feel like doing anything in the evenings,so it's on the weekends that I like to get out. Do my shopping,go for dinner with the family,that kind of thing. I wait for long weekends to go camping and the like.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
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what was the main mode of transport in the wild west era?
Posted: 8/28/2013 3:55:19 PM
Around here it was the famous Red River cart. The axles were ungreased because the dust would gum them up solid so a person could hear them coming for miles because of the screeching.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Do you care about a womans number ?
Posted: 8/25/2013 7:33:21 AM
I don't give a crap how many men a woman may have slept with. I've just thankful if I'm the most recent.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 64 (view)
 
For Bisexuals: Do Males Give Better BJ than Females?
Posted: 8/24/2013 12:39:26 PM
It depends on the person. I've had great from women,and I've had terrible head from women. I've had great head from men,and I've gotten head from men that nearly put me to sleep. At no time have I ever gotten a blowjob from a woman that made me just fall asleep.
 
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