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Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 8 (view)
This guy is 10 years younger than me
Posted: 5/17/2007 1:08:43 PM
SO !! If i was so lucky to get a girl 10 years younger.......Heck.......
I'd probably marry her.
NAaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.!! I wouldn't.
Be fun tho.

Enjoy the young buck.
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 57 (view)
Whats a decent amount of money to spend on a first date
Posted: 5/15/2007 8:42:17 AM
Who cares.? Money isn't everything.Whatever it takes. All depends on what you do.
Are you a cheepstake.....or are ya out for fun. Sometimes a coffee date costs nuffin....
Sometimes if the mood turn out to big bucks.
Why worry about it.have fun!!
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 23 (view)
Why do men get a pat on the back but women get labelled?
Posted: 5/3/2007 11:21:13 PM
AHhhh..........Times ..They are a Changing.
Not just the girls that get taken for a ride.
If we were to generalize... ...some ladies are famous for taking the poor helpless GUY for a ride. ..Then laff about it with there friends.

It's old as time ..(tell me if you've heard this).
Buy me a drink saylor??
When the drinks does the luvin.!
Replace drinks ...with money .
Some Not so good lookin fellas....get hosed by some woman
who's only intent is the free ride.

Sorry O/P for your bad experiances.
With'll see the signs and be able to steer clear.

Now.... get out there and raise hell.

A bashful batchlor.
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 9 (view)
a pic-is a MUST
Posted: 4/19/2007 12:48:28 PM
To many ladies hide their pictures..( well...guys to)..SHAME !!
Pictures will tell you 1000 storys.
Get them up......!!!!
Guys and Gals.
Put your pic's up.

Otherwize might as well date with a bag on your face.!!
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 77 (view)
Did i just set back the women's movement?
Posted: 4/15/2007 5:45:11 PM
Typical....... Just typical.
If i read the O/P properly......
You want someone to see you as a productive female.....not just cuz of your big boobs....
BUT.then your pissy when he say's boobs don't thrill him.

Go figure.....
Just like the ladies who get plastic boobs to give themselves more self esteem......but then get pissy when guys say ..hey.nice rack.

Never ceases to amaze me.
Figure it out ladies......Do you want to look like a sex object......or be treated with respect. You cant have both!!!!
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 25 (view)
Back off the fat girl....OMG!!! I know he didn't!?!?!?!
Posted: 4/9/2007 9:00:40 PM
Sorry to hear of the lack of cuth of some gents on line.
On the other hand.....Men's sort of a lingo.
As you (while talking with your g/friends on you nite out).....may have certian words for those who have just bought a round of drinks. AWww.he's such a loozer.
Women i'm shure use slang for discribing men.
(That would actually be a good forum question.)
Here's my take.....
Lay off the fat girl.....*translation*.....Back off the pretty one i've got my eyes on.
Quit makin time with your date...Cuz i ain't getting any here.
The word fat......may have been said with a male type of effection.
Lay off the "PHAT" girl.....

I could of read the original post wrong.... But it's somthing we ALL have to take with a grain of salt. There is no need to have this type of drama.
If it pissed you off that much......blow the guy off ....NEXT !!
Easy cheezy.

Another hard core batchlor.

( editors note)..Those who know me...
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 13 (view)
Never married...and THAT is a problem
Posted: 4/7/2007 11:18:42 PM
Married people ....are like people that went to collage.
They have more skills (if you'd call them that) close the blind eye ovious signs that the relationship may not be as good as it should.
Married men..may turn a blind eye to a womans behaviour in a bar or afternoons out with her"friends"......
While a woman.....may turn a blind eye to the hubby working late every friday and saturday nite.
People who HAVE been married..have a different set of values than those of us who never married.
Single people get to see more of this wonderful dating world.....filled with sort of married women .....and men.
We get to see more of the fresly and women.....and get to see what REALLY happens after dark.

My 2 cents.
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 9 (view)
why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 4/6/2007 11:19:45 AM
Men like to drive the car....before they like to buy it.
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 68 (view)
why every man has to be funny
Posted: 4/5/2007 10:51:17 AM
I think it's more about personallity than funny ha-ha
The confidence , Take on life,
In general ..good humor about his Stupid Man traits. !

Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 85 (view)
Men that wear expensive cologne vs no cologne
Posted: 4/4/2007 2:38:26 PM
Always go out smelling nice...
Don't bathe in it....but .definatly....Cologne for me
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 8 (view)
q for the guys--Tattoos on women--yes or no?
Posted: 4/3/2007 6:23:31 PM
I'm with Bikeman on this one....
to each his own....but people should relize that after a few years.those wonderful colors and pictures eventually turn to a grey unrecognizable blatch of skin....
The way i see it....there will be a ton of old saggy ladies in the old folks homes..with a grey blatch of skin on their backs....arms....legs. attractive.
Let me kiss your back.....ewwww...what's this grey thing
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 12 (view)
First date was scary
Posted: 4/3/2007 8:51:14 AM
To the O/P...
First off........NICE BRA picture. Yea.....shure looks like a bra....'s a bra. quote your profile.

""I 'm looking for a partner, friend and a lover...The whole package..""
"People who are comfortable in their skin is a major attraction."
"ready to give a hug " i've never met the fella you talk of....
But give him a break.
sounds to me he's much more comfortable in his skin than yourself.
Holding hands.........WHATEVER. Gosh...that's like going the whole way.

I'm shure...and have heard of guys being wierdoo's on the first and only date....
but it bothers me when prude women want a knight in shining date them for months before they even talk of anything relating to close contact. get much as you put in .
My 2 cents.

A P.S... is in order.
if it don't feel don't have to do it.
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 5 (view)
What does it take to keep a women ?
Posted: 4/1/2007 1:29:13 PM
A HUGE doodle.....
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 39 (view)
Is on-line dating going down the drain?
Posted: 3/28/2007 1:45:00 PM
Here's my take.
Night out for yourself.
Dinner and few drinks. $60.oo
Drive to bar , Drinking at the bar $80.oo
Couple rounds of shooters for cute ladies. $30.00
Have great time but Some guy wants to fight cuz you talked to his girlfriend .
Leave car in parking lot,
Leave bar, take cab to next bar $20.00
Drink some late nite snacks $50.00
Cab to hotel by yourself $20.00
Get hotel room $80.00
Breakfast next morning...$12.00
Cab ride back to car...$20.00
Car was stolden $5000.00

As Compared to....
Get micky..drink $10.00
Cook live lobster.....$20.00
Sign on place to chat with ladies........
Pass out , face on keyboard......
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 61 (view)
Should women stop wearing sexy underwear at age 35 ?
Posted: 3/28/2007 10:09:58 AM
If the lady has the goods....Package them approperatly.
Sexy bottom Sexy undies....Mmmmmm....Swoon

With the same breath....If your just plain FAT...
Please DON'T wear thongs or spandex.
It's like lookin at a FAT guy at the beach .....wearing a speedo
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 31 (view)
Men who wear a T-SHIRT with a statement on it for a 1st date!
Posted: 3/14/2007 1:40:38 PM
Haha..I always do. Of course i wear a nice shirt over it.

some of my faviroite statments:
I may not be Mr Right....But i'll F**k you till he shows up.
Willing to do stupid MAN tricks .....for sex.
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 2 (view)
Anyone out there actually single?
Posted: 3/8/2007 7:32:38 AM
HELLO.....Yes..True single here.
No trickery...nothing up my sleeve.
Only when my heart goes a flutter .....
and i get the total feeling of calm and happieness with that someone special....will i say
" This is my better half"
Till's nice to be single ....and have friends to share time with.
Sorry What was the question???
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 9 (view)
men are confusing
Posted: 3/7/2007 11:27:31 AM
Guys don't feel like waiting in line for the ladies to
burn through the countless other guys that are fighting for your affection.
Each guy likes to feel a little special. If some get a hint that a lady is dating someone on friday nite....then him on a makes him courious why he doesn't rate for a friday nite date.
Second in line for one thing....makes some leave the line.
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 36 (view)
Sexless Dating
Posted: 3/1/2007 12:42:18 PM
Welcome to MY world.
Seems i'm finding the girls that are signing up for the convent.
Shure ...i DO enjoy just getting out....
But Common......What's a guy gotta do.?
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 7 (view)
How do you know if you let the love of your life getaway?
Posted: 2/26/2007 9:55:30 AM
When you find your love of your life....
YOUR poo outta luck.
CUZ they will be looking for THEIR love of THEIR life.
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 14 (view)
tips from shy people who found ways to gain confidence in dating
Posted: 2/17/2007 5:46:00 PM
Walk up....put on a nice smile....and say
"HI ... My name is {so &so}
9 out of 10'll get a Hi Back
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 4 (view)
20's somthing drunk girls...only attractive to 20's somthing drunk guys?
Posted: 2/17/2007 10:00:28 AM
Blastkist..... i'm courious.... Do tell.....Do tell.
What's on these girls mind.
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 3 (view)
20's somthing drunk girls...only attractive to 20's somthing drunk guys?
Posted: 2/17/2007 9:45:54 AM
Just an these girls bang into me all nite..yelling, screaming, spilling drinks on they try to apoligize.
Me.i'm just there to see if there's any "nice"(30's-40's) girls that may want to spend a day together..doing stuff other than nursing a hangover.
I am just a little put off by it.
Don't say wrong bar....It's the only older hangout in town.

P.s...No hostility....
We all were there once. I understand completly having fun.
And No...silly...I do know my "age bracket".
No fear of this old fart hitting on the youngers.
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 1 (view)
20's somthing drunk girls...only attractive to 20's somthing drunk guys?
Posted: 2/17/2007 9:26:27 AM
Heres somthing i seen last nite.
Attractive younger ladies..20's..late 20's. Drinking in the local bar...
Loud, obnoctious, slutty cloths, and thinking they are all gods gift to men.
Paying attention to only those who provide them drinks..or offering a Funner thing to do.
Nice looking girls....shure.. half of these girls are looking for a "relationship".
But who would put up with this conduct.
Weekend warriors....but during the hear them whining that they can't find a really good guy that will love and cherish them (and there 2 kids).
WTF ??
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 126 (view)
Males disapproving of women having male friends
Posted: 2/13/2007 11:42:33 AM
Guys just haven't figured out the idea of being a pair....and having a spare.
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 2 (view)
too young for love?
Posted: 2/11/2007 4:27:37 PM be young again.
Shure ..have a "luv" interest....but relize that LIFE IS LONG.
You can't see it now....but it's a long time..and lots of experiances in between now(19) 40 years old.
Keep your health...try to preserve your looks.....and there will be TONS of lil' fishies through your life.
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 107 (view)
are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 2/9/2007 4:38:40 PM
Mr Happy
You slay me..
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 106 (view)
are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 2/9/2007 4:27:13 PM
No....Us guys are looking to spend all our time and money, going out with a girl ...just so we can buy her a nice dinner, watch her dance, buy her drinks,watch her purse, and drive her home at the end of the nite .....safley
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 20 (view)
How long have you been using internet dating sites...
Posted: 2/8/2007 1:38:52 PM
Been on the sites for a while...because i live in the sticks.
This way of meeting girls saves time of driving to the large city...getting drunk...hitting on bar floosies ...and getting into a checkstop on the way home
Rather "qualify" the ladies..before taking the drive.
Besides....these forums keep me busy while i hybernate in my cave through the winter.
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 81 (view)
Dating men who have never been married
Posted: 2/7/2007 8:43:07 AM
Don't get me wrong....I love kids....wish i had some of my own...BUT......
Getting into a relationship with a woman that already has kids.....
A man like me has learned that I have absolutly NO CONTROL or SAY on how these kids should behave.
If they were my kids....i could have a chance to "mold "then into what my thoughts and beliefs are...
someone elses kids.......well....I have NO say.
If a woman's kids are all grown up....and out of the house.......
Let the relationship begin.
One on One.!
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 78 (view)
Dating men who have never been married
Posted: 2/7/2007 7:26:18 AM
I'd like to comment about all this.
I'm 44.....never kids......and yes....selfish.
When i go on dates....i dislike the ex father(s), calling to see if the kid(s) are o.k.....
Or the kids ranting and raving cuz mommy is going out.....
Or the thought of having to buy dinner for my date....AND HER 3 kids.
Now....lets talk about christmas..
Yes.i am selfish.....not wanting to buy 3 gifts for each kid.....then a wack of gifts for the "date".
Un married men....(batchlors) are use to ONE on ONE!!
(speaking for myself)....I enjoy giving my full attention to ONE SPECIAL LADY...
Gifts shared housing.....I'm ALL GOOD with spoiling that one special one.
This could be why older batchlors hope to find a lady with no kids.
If she's been married before .....NO SWEAT.....
But throw someone elses (young) kids into the mix.....well.........yes.....i'm selfish.

NOW....a woman with 1, ...2, .... or 3 kids.....i'm thinking she's selfish if she thinks her new boyfriend should take her kids under his wing.....and treat them as his own..but with NO say in the actions of these kids.(but god forbid if we don't buy them christmas gifts).

As a woman.....Us batchlors like the oppertunity for a nice 1 on 1 relationship.
I treat my new relationship as #1....and would hope we get the same treatment.
But usually what we get treated as # 6 or so......after the kids...after the ex(s)...ex inlaws....

Selfish.....??? or just selective??
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 111 (view)
Baffling bed buddy
Posted: 2/6/2007 9:49:28 PM
Humm....Bed buddys seem to actually make the best friends.
I think intamacy is replaced with needs....and yes.respect.
I truly think this makes a better "relationship".as long as one or the other doesn't get possesive.
Besides...what else do you really share with one who you really.REALLY like.?
what each does with his or her own's their business.
When they land back in the sac.if they wish to share experiances they had during the week...Well....that makes for good talk.
I'm interested in your life...but not judgemental.
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 10 (view)
Sex and the City: I'm Carrie and I have myself a MR.BIG
Posted: 2/3/2007 8:13:54 AM
Sorry.....but comparing ones life to a T.V show....well.....
It's like leading your life the beverly hillbellys.
Now.....which one were you?
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 62 (view)
Males disapproving of women having male friends
Posted: 1/31/2007 9:22:03 PM
sorry.double post
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Msg: 61 (view)
Males disapproving of women having male friends
Posted: 1/31/2007 9:21:55 PM

I thrive in the attention and company of males ( platonic and romantic )

this is where things get sticky....
If a woman enjoys this type of attention whenever she goes out....
Well...she best stay single.
As a whole....i don't think you'll find very many serious guys that go to a bar with THEIR girlfriend.....just so he can sit and watch his romantic partner "thrive"..on the attention she trys to generate with other males(who probably are single, horny, and looking)
Just a thought.
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 60 (view)
Males disapproving of women having male friends
Posted: 1/31/2007 9:14:19 PM
I think dbndon nailed it on the head.
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 58 (view)
Males disapproving of women having male friends
Posted: 1/31/2007 3:28:25 PM
I have no problems with this.....As long as i can keep all my Ladie friends.

Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 2 (view)
Shooting your food, then cooking it on an open flame.
Posted: 1/27/2007 1:26:13 PM
Friend has a farm...Beef.sheep....chicken.
Cuzin has a buffalo ranch....Buff steak, roast, and jerky.'t hunt much..but shure do LOVE cooking meat of the open flame.
AND..just turns out.i heat my hot tub with that same flame.
Whoo-Hoo.....can't wait till spring.
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 20 (view)
How do I make her see she is in denial?
Posted: 1/25/2007 11:38:03 AM
O/P.Take your friend to some "older" bars.
She will be very popular.....and have a good mix of "older "fella's Swooning over her.
That should give her the idea that her a**hole b/friend is not so hot.
She needs to open her eyes to other possabilities that are BETTER than what she has.
Take that horse to the water trough......and just hold her halter....
Eventually .she'll get the idea.....that HEY !!..She's actually popular and attractive to a better group of people.

My 2 cents.
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 94 (view)
Sex After 40
Posted: 1/24/2007 3:20:58 PM
Uh-huh...very good.
Kids(18 to 25) seem to get it all over with ...NOW!!
Olders seem to enjoy a little more time in the sac ...
Couple breaks between....lots of laffs and belly farts....
shower....crawl back in...see if you can actually watch the whole DVD this time...
I believe that confidence plays alot into the sexuality of elders.
Turn up the heat....get rid of the covers....and lots of play.
Age brings us well as makes us less greedy and more intune to the needs of our partners. Toy play....whipped cream....all seems more exceptable with age.

But yes....To be young again....with all the knowledge you have now.
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 10 (view)
Men, get out your credit card and we'll show you have to pick up girls.
Posted: 1/24/2007 2:15:57 PM books needed....
Here's the trick my fello fisher.
It's called the "HELLO" ratio....
At the bars..go up to as many girls as you can....Say hello.
Some will shun you ..but some may actually say hello back.
There you have it. My trick for meeting girls.

See....didn't cost you a dime.
Have fun with that.
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 2 (view)
Is it ok for your friend(opposite sex) to sleep over, if you're dating someone.
Posted: 1/20/2007 9:06:42 AM
HUMmmmmmm....Tough question.
what if the roles were reversed.?
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 6 (view)
24 Years what?
Posted: 1/19/2007 8:55:40 AM
O/P......DON'T RUSH.!!!
your in that critical age where these desires are forfront....BUT DON'T RUSH.
You have 10 years to go befor you hit your sexual prime(things WILL change).
It's like buying a car....just cuz you think it's the only one that will suit you....only to find out ...2 weeks later....somthing FAR better comes to you....for WAYyyyyyyy less of a cost.
No hurry girl....
DON'T RUSH. Life IS long.
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 19 (view)
Crash risk higher for pot smoking drivers
Posted: 1/18/2007 10:28:43 AM
Another anti pot thread....Sheesh.give it up.
Give the farmers somthing to grow again.
Could you emagine the revenue that could be generated IF......
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 5 (view)
what do i do i'm tired of it
Posted: 1/10/2007 12:30:40 PM
To O/P.and thoughts on this subject.
Your young.....If you don't wish to sleep with your younger fellow friends....

Men want to sleep with you...because for them it's like driving a really cool car.
It's JuSt...SOOooo...COOL.
Get's to yap to all his buddys..and what do you get...unsatisfied..and feeling used.
A fella should wait for a good thing....And besides...You gotta know...your young bucks are hitting on girls my age for whoopie.

See my profile on thoughts on marriage
as well as : Sexless marriages/relationships.....go figure?
Your young...don't send out "signals" that promotes sexual overtones.
Remember ...Life is VERY long.You won't reach your sexual peek untel you hit in your 36ish birthday
If you stay healthy..and not "wore"out looking.....(spelling?)
Well.....PLENTY of time for sex.
Keep fishin'

There's lot's of us old batchlors that would love some well manered "arm candy"

Were havin a blizzard in Alberta.
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 22 (view)
Why are girls in a rush for the ring???
Posted: 1/9/2007 9:06:07 AM
When do "KIDS" usually get married.......(22 to 26)
When do "KIDS" usually get divorsed? ....(34-38)(just happens to be the time women hit their sexual peek)
When do men usually finish paying for the mistake of marring and having children to early?....(35-48)
How much does men usually end up paying for the "pleasure" of marriage and kids...( $350 to $1500 per month)
How many women on this site....age 26 to ??? that are single...with kids.?
How many men on this site.....are single ...and paying child support.?

A ring.....PHHhhhhtttt.....Shure....Best get it from a cheerios box.....
Save the money for child support.

Written by a life long batchlor......that's listened to ALL of the horror storys...
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 51 (view)
Sexless marriages/relationships.....go figure?
Posted: 1/4/2007 1:27:42 PM
Another funny forum.

The original poster said sexless marraiges.
Mabey one should of spent a little more time seeing if sex would be good with
said hubby/wife....before getting married.
Once married for years and years....both have lifes....So what is it they really do ONE ON ONE. SEX!!

I think that's why guys are thought of ALWAYS WANTING SEX right away when they meet someone. It's to see if there's any hope of the sex being somthing you'd like to sign up for.....for THE REST OF ONES LIFE.

Guys may( i said may).think of a woman like a car.
Would you by a car.....if it gives you no pride...except for the thrill of the first drive.

I'd like to drive it....but i'm shure it's very impractical.
Looks great.....but i bet its a gas (booze)guzzler.
Wow....boy it looks hot.....but i bet everyone wants to steal it.
Looks and drives great....but cost's to much.
I'm glad i drove it.....the thing is a wore out piece of junk...and it smells.
You DO have a choice .... remember....No such thing as a "lease..or rental" in a marriage

Once you buy the damn thing.....your stuck with it.
Perhaps a test drive is in order ...before you make a choice.
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Msg: 19 (view)
Interested vs. Desperate
Posted: 12/13/2006 11:55:30 AM
If your interested.......DO make an honest effort to show him your intrest.
You gotta think...he see's that your a popular girl....and mabey he thinks there's not much hope in having you.....
If YOUR interested in a fella......SHOW HIM. !!
Hell love it.....and probably you..for the effort.
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 13 (view)
How do i deal with this!
Posted: 12/4/2006 9:12:51 AM
Sorry boss..sounds like the first love gone bad.
Usually your feelings of winning her back will do nothing but blow up in your face.
Don't be a woosie.....still be you..(cuz that's what attracted her in the first place)
And quit suckin' up.
Lot's of fish fella.....You being you will attract the right one.
Joined: 6/9/2004
Msg: 4 (view)
She wants me she wants me not
Posted: 12/2/2006 3:18:25 PM
Sounds like a a convienient situation for her.
Go wiith the flow.....but put no heart into it....
Keep your options open.....and ask for a Blood test everytime she comes back..
Other than that..sounds like you got a "friend with benifits" to me/
Keep looking for a keeper.
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