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 Author Thread: first date on valentines day?
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 17 (view)
first date on valentines day?
Posted: 2/10/2009 11:10:12 PM
Sure it's fine to have a first date on V-day. If it works out it will be a date to remember and even if it doesn't you guys got to have fun on V-Day! Good luck!!
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 2 (view)
where did girls learn about ...
Posted: 1/28/2009 1:23:39 PM
hmmm it's like a live and learn type of thing. I learned from my environment: parents, friends, TV.
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 1 (view)
Thoughts of You
Posted: 1/22/2009 10:37:13 PM
Thoughts of You

A profound bundle of emotion
Experienced once
Expected to be repeated
But never to be felt again
Purity of silence
Heart stopped its beat
Losing its craving to be heard
Just to be felt
Living in the satisfaction
To be so easily caught
But so hard to genuinely keep
Every story has an end
Only when the reading ceases
But I book marked your heart
To start a new story
Or maybe just to speculate
About the feeling
You impressed upon me...
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 222 (view)
How can men stop having feelings so quickly?
Posted: 1/13/2009 1:45:54 PM
ugh! I've been wondering the same exact thing. My ex his emotions were so choppy it was hard for me to get with his program. When we broke up he was distraught for like 10 minutes and now he is probably prancing through the fields somewhere while I'm licking my wounds.
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 1 (view)
Posted: 1/13/2009 12:10:52 PM
One day the anger will subside
This I promise you
Our eyes will see the sorrow in the situation
And not the monster protecting it
The ability not to see one's own reflection
Is a fear that becomes fact
So before memories and nightmares form
My deepest apologies
For shopping in your heart
Stealing all the cracks
To place them next to mine
I should have checked the price
You should have asked my name
When our dreams derail
And reality becomes our designated track
Leave the moment to reflect
If it wasn't our destiny to meet yet
Why do i feel so utterly stood up?
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 1 (view)
Short Poem
Posted: 1/13/2009 11:48:36 AM
Periwinkle sheets
Absolutely accentuate
The turquoise orbs
Of the lover I beg to call mine
But my kisses receive cynical reviews.
Almost as if I was infecting him with the cooties
he had been avoiding since kindergarten.
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 11 (view)
What would you do if...
Posted: 1/13/2009 10:50:37 AM
Sure ,why not! If I am getting along so far I don't see what the problem is just going on a date with them. The virgin part really shouldn't be what is stopping me from going. Alot of non-virgins still act like they only practice on a warm apple pie so someone's sexual experience has nothing to so with an intial meeting.
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 36 (view)
Met a great guy on pof a week ago ..
Posted: 1/12/2009 10:32:52 AM
agreed! Personality Disorders cannot be treated for the most part and if you read up what's in store and don't like it I suggest you leave now while there is no attachment.
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 55 (view)
Posted: 1/12/2009 10:16:24 AM
Holidays are the absolute worst especially the New Year and then V-Day right around the corner. I have this loneliness in me that is not comforted by family or friends and sometimes not even boyfriends. I find it hard to find that someone to just hold me and make me feel apart of something and not so utterly and almost disgustingly alone, relationship or not it would be nice. A girl can dream.
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 1 (view)
Posted: 1/12/2009 12:32:46 AM
Air used to flow freely in and out of me
The inhalation of you is the suffocation only I can see
Self inflicted to keep you next to me
Intimidation has got a hold of me.
When all I want is for you to...

Thoughts of you have me minding my Ps & Qs
Dotting my i's Crossing my t's
Wishing wanting begging please
Nervousness has engulfed me.
When all I want to do is be...

Attracted to the damaged who are strong
Admired is the heart preserved in plastic
Ashamed of the paper bag in which mine resides
Leaking for all to see the damaged weak side of me
When I really wish you could just...

I no longer feel like your equal
Abashed for feeling the way I do
Dreading the result of me inquiring of you
Reeking of the potential rejection due to me
When the crucial need is for you to...

The antidote for intimidation
is humilation.

When all I want is for you to hold me
When all I want to do is be close to you
When I really wish you could just see the potential in me
When the crucial need is for you to want me.
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 76 (view)
When is the last time you cryed ? Why do we cry ?
Posted: 1/11/2009 8:03:40 PM
I'm crying now. I cry for a multitude of reasons from physical pain to emotional.
Lately I cry because even when entertained by friends or dates at the end of the day I still feel utterly alone and outcasted and that is frustrating.
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 2 (view)
Something i had on my mind
Posted: 1/11/2009 12:11:38 AM
Detachment is the only emotion that is real

The lack of communication, the failure to feel

Makes reality a more tolerable deal.

Clinginess is a lack of control

Begging anyone to fill up your hole

Believing it will complete your soul.

Your completion results in someone else's DELETION.

Survival of the most aggressive

Attracts the most obssessive

Who inevitably are the most possessive.

A cycle I will break.

Those I've loved in vain

I now have the right to hate

Knowing it was never my intention to complicate

Being chewed and spit out will not be my fate.

Just like a faulty foundation creates a faulty steeple

Broken promises make broken people.
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