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Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 12 (view)
The friend zone
Posted: 6/12/2012 1:35:09 PM
Simple I tell you, stop calling her ignore her calls, reply late to her texts, give her a chase to do, bring about that situation that where she naturally start thinking what is wrong and tell her you are very busy, flirt in front of her with other girls and see how she behaves.. you do it two three times she will come straight either she likes you in that way or not, because most of the time it happens women's never make the first move, if she is interested in you she might be sitting thinking the same why don't he ask. Also she will be giving you hints like she is interested then do try your luck.
But most above its in you do you like her that way.

TURST ME if you do this it will mark the end of the friendship though if she do not like you in a way to take you beyond friend zone.
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 4 (view)
camping in scotland july 2012
Posted: 6/10/2012 10:47:54 AM
Also I am into hunting and scotland is the best place to go for red stag hunt in around September/ October if you want let me know because I am arranging a group for that already.
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 7 (view)
muslim fight for 5 min prayer break in company time
Posted: 6/8/2012 5:50:32 AM
mate middle eastern countries every thing shuts at the prayer time all markets, stalls,shops everything shuts that include offices, factories. How I know? I have been there seen it personally.

So lets say about this prayer breaks.. I have nothing against it. as nothing against any smokers or any one who needs a small break.
This is only because the golden rule of management is..

Employee are the most valuable assets of the company, workers make the company, if they are well looked after then they will work better.

Also its human nature do a favour get a favour so if you look after your employees they will look after you, fully agreeing to the fact that people should not take the liberty of it meaning work your time back like I smoke but I always make sure all my duties are finished before I leave work.
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 15 (view)
Do ya wanna be in my gang?
Posted: 6/8/2012 5:14:34 AM
I was always the centre of attention lol. Still in Uni I am the most social and centre of all activities of my class so I have no problems.
Hey its not just limited to school or college or Uni.. In practical life you can have a cool gang too who said you cannot have it. Just socialising and make one at any stage of your life..
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 2 (view)
camping in scotland july 2012
Posted: 6/8/2012 5:08:36 AM
yes sure i am up for it .. just let me know the dates mate.
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 20 (view)
Help advice please .
Posted: 10/14/2011 3:07:08 AM
Mate have you heard about one thing, MOVE ON. Plenty around, If she was interested she would talk to you if not does it bother your life?

Anyway you don't communicate with girls on their terms .. that makes you a wussy, needy and insecure. The way you giving a chase what does it mean you are the one? so ARE YOU?
Always make sure from the beginning communication occurs on your term and you are the selector not them.

If she have this kind of attitude
"oh look this guy is messaging me, chasing me"
and you keep on messaging her, you have already lost all of your communication power and conveyed the message please please talk to me I am a wussy"

Think about it.
happy fishing.
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 36 (view)
User names, why you picked them and.........
Posted: 10/12/2011 1:11:41 PM
I love the character of Jungle book.. Tagera lolzz
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 124 (view)
for a it best to have an affair or visit a prostitute...
Posted: 10/4/2011 12:35:15 PM
This Rings the bell big time.. Sex less marriage means sunshine wake up to reality.. there is no intimacy, attraction have long gone you both are together for the sake of it, have you thought about taking this issue up with your misses and even consulting a psychologist or therapist for this.
Secondly if you want to ask my opinion either to have an affair or prostitute.. I will say none, first work out what is going on with your marriage and it don't work get out of it, then have as many affairs as you want no one to answer to and visit as many prostitutes as you want.
But when you are with some one respect them do not cheat on them.Break up in a respectful way, why you want to hurt your wife in anyway in the first place, think about once all the time she have been loyal to you, if you are unhappy and want to mess around be single and do what satisfies you ..

Also try to do something romantic, try to ignite the spark between both of you, take her out, treat her nice, One of the main reason marriages suffer is people take the ROMANCE factor out of marriage equation. Its all good luvy duvy till you tie the knot,, but once its done its business as usual men don't bother. Women don't work like this, she will love you even more if you just do odd romantic stuff for her..
Try your luck .. DO GOOD HAVE GOOD
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 66 (view)
Relationship with someone who has kids
Posted: 10/4/2011 12:16:50 PM
The message you are replying to:
Posted By: FoxyMoron74 on 9/28/2011 754 PM
Subject: Relationship with someone who has kids
Message: It would depend on the age of the kids to be honest and, as someone else said, the relationship that they have with their ex partner. I have a good relationship with my Sons Dad and he sees his dad every other weekend. Plus my Son is 16 so if i want to go out i dont have to worry about getting a baby sitter.
If he had his kids every weekend and a few nights in the week i dont think i would date him to be honest, i do enjoy the time i have to myself every other weekend and i dont think i would want to spend the time with someone elses 5 rugrats.

How can you say someone else kids RUG-RATS..
Definitely shows how much respect you give to human beings around you.. No disrespect ma'am but will you like some one else to mention your child like this..

Well dating a women with kids is not a problem, I have done that no issue with the child either its just one thing women have to realise is prioritise the relationship along side the important priority she got in her life that is her kids, but I would never like to be father to them because they have one, but yes will be a very good friend to her kids.
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 24 (view)
I saw red and wanted to punch the bi.tch
Posted: 10/4/2011 12:09:38 PM
I would do the same, stop the parent from hitting the child. I do not really understand the need for physical actions when you talk about discipline.

But yes I would like to raise an issue here which I have noticed,,, now a days kids have forgotten simple manners, ethics that we use to grow up with, like saying please, thank you, respecting elders and most above respecting their parents, whose fault is this?
We have a whole generation which is literally LOST?

I place the fault at parents, because they are too busy in doing other things then spending quality time with their children teaching them from early age the things that will make them a good human being. Discussing with them simple issues of respect and care for the family and for others around them. How to interact with outsiders.
If parents pay little bit more attention to correction of behaviour from early age you will see a different society. Kids are very intelligent and their learning capability is very good its only little bit of hard work from parental side, being good parent is not about buy your kids the most expensive stuff in the market its about spending those moments of time, giving them attention and correcting them when they are wrong.
Please do not punish them you are destroying an innocent soul,,, CORRECT THEM..

When these kids grow out of hand these ignorant adult revert to violence, which is unacceptable by all means.
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 10 (view)
Please help me get over the pain of my break up..
Posted: 10/2/2011 1:52:31 PM
Wow look at your orignal post and look what you write here clearly shows you are already on the way to a better life.
Good Luck with your life and in future stand on your feets and look people in the eye.. Don't let anyone no matter how much you love them treat you like this. Respect plays the part and in relationship everything goes half way all efforts, cummunication and ofcourse if you are down/ sad/ you need emotional support then your partner should support you, especially like the time you went through( God may bless your dads soul).

Here what i was told by my mother and i will tell you :
"Live your life the way you want, don't take approval from some one take approval from yourself, respect people but first respect yourself and if someone cannot respect you the way you want leave them because they do not deserve you. In relationship be honest, caring and loving and most important in this world you have to look after yourself, no one will look after you.. "
You Hope,, let me tell you.. you WILL find someone better, just live your life and enjoy yourself and the special one will come your way.. you are young and you got LIFE ahead of you.. live your dreams and stop stressing yourself.
Good luck with fishing,,
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 28 (view)
long story my heart is so broken why why? some advise would be great
Posted: 9/27/2006 5:44:07 PM
Look mate how old are you .. humm 22 years .. wat got into you ... i dont understand look at yourself how much life you have ahead of you .. you love her .. so do love her but who left you first she did .. didn't she ... then she backed off .. not you... and love give yourself an other chance . go out have some fun .. meet someone .. start dating .. or just go out with your best mate and enjoy the hell out of yourself..DON'T LET SOMEONE BRING YOU DOWN LIKE IN LIFE >>> LIFE IS GIVEN ONLY ONCE LIVE IT TO HE FULLEST AND ENJOY >>
i know you might read this and say i am crazy .. believe me thats the only way to get out of it ..
And yes .. dont go to concert .. she got a man in her life .. bring a girl in your life .. and in front of her .. then you will see wat happens ...
take care and be a MAN ..
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