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 Author Thread: Women and Fetishes?
 sith_16
Joined: 10/30/2008
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Women and Fetishes?
Posted: 11/23/2008 2:26:32 PM
I used to date a woman that liked to be choked while getting off. I had not sexual satisfaction from it but she loved it. Seems to fit to me.
 sith_16
Joined: 10/30/2008
Msg: 5 (view)
 
this is embarrassing!
Posted: 11/21/2008 9:32:18 AM
It is absolutely NOT a turn off. I love it. I say, go ahead, get of all over the place and change the sheets when you recover. LOL

 sith_16
Joined: 10/30/2008
Msg: 28 (view)
 
If Love Is Blind....Why Is Lingerie So Popular?
Posted: 11/11/2008 8:53:01 AM
Love IS blind....Thing is, lust enjoys sexy under garments.
 sith_16
Joined: 10/30/2008
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Freaking out (I'm an idiot)
Posted: 11/11/2008 8:51:43 AM
I would say, if the CNA isn't sitting down and planning a life with you, you're in the clear. Next time It happens, close your eyes and picture Angalina Jolie while she is jerkin your gerkin.

Don't forget to say thanks when she is done.
 sith_16
Joined: 10/30/2008
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Self-Induced G-Spot Orgasm
Posted: 11/8/2008 10:19:05 AM
Just, Wow. Toothbrush even.
 sith_16
Joined: 10/30/2008
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Threesomes?
Posted: 11/8/2008 10:15:55 AM
I have had several. All ffm and all were hot. I had a gf at one time that wanted to sleep with all my ex gf. Don't know why but we went through a few of em before we broke up. One thing I learned is if you are gonna do a threesome, then it has to be with people that you are not in love with.
 sith_16
Joined: 10/30/2008
Msg: 17 (view)
 
How do you learn to let your guard down, once you start dating as a single parent?
Posted: 11/6/2008 3:42:16 PM
OMFG! LMAO
You must be the type to be always right. And I am sure all your wall are sound proof as well so your kids can't hear what is going on. I compared apples to apples, and you want me to look at apples to oranges for the comparison. Of course I make sure boundaries aren't crossed that I don't feel should be but when it comes to another adult being introduced into my family, ie a gf, I feel like even I won't know that person for at least 6 months. You are gonna say you know someone after 2 or 3 dates? Hell, I knew my last gf for 2 years before we started dating and she turned out to be someone far different than I though. Feel free to have your own opinion on this. Tell you what, you raise your kid and I'll raise mine.
 sith_16
Joined: 10/30/2008
Msg: 15 (view)
 
How do you learn to let your guard down, once you start dating as a single parent?
Posted: 11/6/2008 2:17:16 PM
It's true that kids meet new teachers, coaches and other important people everyday, the difference is, those people have boundaries that they will not cross. A person I am dating has more leeway than that. Your kid is not going to the movies or dinner with his or her teacher, or coach. As well, his or her teacher or coach is not waking up in your bed the next morning.

There is something to be said about keeping your private life apart from your child.
 sith_16
Joined: 10/30/2008
Msg: 13 (view)
 
How do you learn to let your guard down, once you start dating as a single parent?
Posted: 11/6/2008 1:40:48 PM
I tend to not let my guard down much. Not for my self but for my daughter. She gets real attached to adult women and when my relationship goes south she gets real upset about it. That is why I don't allow girls I am dating to meet my daughter for a long time....at least until I think we might be going somewhere in the relationship. She still gets upset but at least she don't have 6 months of getting to know someone I am dating and then having that person out of her life suddenly.
 sith_16
Joined: 10/30/2008
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Why Can't he cum
Posted: 11/6/2008 1:30:30 PM
There could also be an issue with the condom...assuming you guys are using one. It may be affecting his sensitivity.
 sith_16
Joined: 10/30/2008
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Toys, kinkiness, and being faithful
Posted: 11/6/2008 1:23:26 PM
I couldn't tell you how many of my gf that I have went out and gotten them their first toy. I love to include a toy in some of our more rambunctious love making sessions.

The man is insecure. Simple as that.
 sith_16
Joined: 10/30/2008
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Why Can't he cum
Posted: 11/6/2008 1:03:27 PM
There is nothing wrong with this. A lot of guys have this problem. I suggest what has already been suggested as far as experimenting with diff things and positions. Myself, I sometimes can't cum unless me and her are on our sides and I am going from behind. Don't know why but that really lights my fire. Not everytime you understand but sometimes.
 sith_16
Joined: 10/30/2008
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Should he stand or sit when he goes to the bathroom?
Posted: 11/4/2008 9:09:50 PM
You can if you are at the sports bar...LMAO
 sith_16
Joined: 10/30/2008
Msg: 63 (view)
 
Guys is this true???
Posted: 11/4/2008 9:07:09 PM
This is absolutely not true at all. I have dated several single moms, as well, I am a single dad. I would never discount a woman simply because she is a mom.
 sith_16
Joined: 10/30/2008
Msg: 9 (view)
 
What is your definition of sex?
Posted: 11/4/2008 9:04:15 PM
I always figured there were degrees to sex. You know, the first base, second base, third base, homerun thing.

I would consider any touching of my penis by a woman is some type of sex. The same goes for if I touch her vag.
 sith_16
Joined: 10/30/2008
Msg: 40 (view)
 
What Is Your Favorite Way to Have Sex And Why?
Posted: 11/4/2008 9:01:08 PM
With my clothes off....lol
 sith_16
Joined: 10/30/2008
Msg: 48 (view)
 
Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/4/2008 8:54:41 PM
If anything, it would make me work harder next time. Stupid reason to dump.
 sith_16
Joined: 10/30/2008
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Can any single parents advise me please?
Posted: 11/4/2008 7:40:58 AM
I would say she is not over him yet. My ex and I argue often ourselves but it is her being snotty. I laugh at it. She is pissy with me because I have custody of our child and she is supposed to be paying child support. My and my friends laugh about it. My ex is a joke, and so is her ex and the sooner she can learn to laugh at his being pissy the better she will feel about it.
 sith_16
Joined: 10/30/2008
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Should he stand or sit when he goes to the bathroom?
Posted: 11/4/2008 5:58:31 AM
Thats why I asked about the age. If he is 3 then that might be a bit easier, but if he is 8 then she won't be there every time he goes to the can to know if he made a mess.

I am a single parent of an 8 year old daughter, so I haven't had to teach a boy to potty but I know that my daughter won't put the seat down ever time if I don't put it down for her after I go.
 sith_16
Joined: 10/30/2008
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Shot her down
Posted: 11/4/2008 4:59:30 AM
I kinda agree here. I bangged my ex for nearly a year after we split up. It gave me the upper hand in most of the arguments that went on after we split. Mine to would show up for booty calls. I turned her down for a while but then I thought what the hell, its just meaningless sex.
 sith_16
Joined: 10/30/2008
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Should he stand or sit when he goes to the bathroom?
Posted: 11/4/2008 4:51:25 AM
How old is your son? It may be a bad aim factor all around. Even if the seat is up he may be dribbleing all over the floor.
 sith_16
Joined: 10/30/2008
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Has anyone else had this..?
Posted: 11/3/2008 8:53:19 PM
I have had to deal with this. Single dad here with an 8 year old daughter. My ex accused me of holding our daughter hostage because I told her until she paid child support I would not bring or pick her up. I had a judge back me up on that as well when she thought she could take me to court to make me. I refused, and the reason I refused is because when I ASKED her to pay child support her answer was "I won't because I don't have to". So she does all the driving with the occasional me picking her up. Not often, only when my daughter calls me and tells me she wants to come home.

I have since won child support from her in court, and she still does not pay. She still does all of the driving though....I guess because she doesn't pay. At least until she gets in trouble for not paying that is.
 
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